How do your find your perfect phone sex Mistress?
You can always get a good feel for your potential phone sex Mistress by reading her blog and listening to her free sexy audios. We have two sites for amazing free audios – Tease mania for all the cock strokers and Get Girlie for crossdressers and sissies.
Take a listen to the various audios and you’ll hear all kinds of styles, voices, fantasies and more. Once you have an idea who floats your boat (so to speak) you can begin the final choice making process.
Of course, the fastest way to do this is to simply give a short call and see if we connect. You can also read our phone sex reviews. Remember you might find a review in blog comments, like this one from Paul — who left a comment about Ms Courtney on my Daily Cock post about my first ever phone sex call:
Well, my first call was over three years ago now, to Ms Courtney. Sure I was nervous, and it was difficult to try to explain my needs and desires, and the reason why I had picker her (well a combination of beauty and her voice and her writing abilities started it all for me) Courtney was very easy to talk to, but it took several calls to really get to know each other and for her to get to understand where I was coming from, sexually and emotionally. Now I would have to say what a fantastic experience it has been, how much fun and joy and love I have experienced with her, and I amazed at how far we have grown together. So my message is, communication, communication from the heart and soul, and do everything with love. For many men, including myself, this may be the most difficult thing to do: communicate openly and honestly.
I’d love to hear from you … what sort of decision making do you use to find a good match?
Ms Olivia
Ms Olivia..great post / question. For me, you touched on the key things that play into my decision making process…read the blogs, listen to the audio’s, and of course try a call with her. This is what I love about LDW…one can do a lot of research a head of time to help ensure they have a great time on the call. Between the blogs, the audious, EnchantrixEmpire, questionairres, brief chats on Yhaoo, etc…there is just so much we strokers can do ahead of time to minimize the risk associated with calling a mistress that we won’t click with or enjoy our time with. And of course, there is the LDW guarentee. Which by the way I should say I have never had to use !!!
Of course there are times that I am so horny, and just call and take a chance with whoever is available…kind of like rolling dice 🙂
Thanks for your comment PB! You’re right…..finding a good match is ALL about communication! A lot or a little or some particular kind of way (personally I prefer blog comments and emails for communication pre and between calls). Other Mistresses use IM for everything between calls. It doesn’t really matter HOW the communication happens, just so you both know you’re on the same page.
Hello Olivia,
When I first signed up at EE there was a Mistress I just completely had fallen in love with – Lauren. This was largely based upon her images (especially her brunette phase) – I did do some calls with her but I do not think it would have been a good match. She was awesome, but just not a good match. Images are great for getting horny but get to know her soul, not all souls meld well and that’s just the way it is.
I wanted “to have” a Mistress and went through several that I primarily called until I found Sloane and now Cooper, but when I think about it there are about four or five that I believe would be awesome Mistresses for me.
But I think what I learned is that rather than looking for a Mistress to have as “my Mistress” that it is best to just play around and it will happen on its own. That’s how it happened with Sloane and then with Cooper.
And with both Sloane and Cooper, they encourage me to continue calling others, and maybe that is not the best thing for everyone but for me I think it absolutely is, but I still Cooper more than anyone else – not because she is my Mistress but because the way we click is incredible.
And that’s the ticket – find one you just totally click with, and that’s something you just can’t will – it happens or it doesn’t.
The three I click the best with – it was social media (Enchantrix Empire primarily) where contact was first made and we clicked. Tumblr is also good, I’ve started to click with one on Tumblr that I rarely see on EE. Twitter, it is okay but it is too micro.
Enchantrix Empire and Tumblr are the two places I would recommend for anyone to start to get a feel for the Mistresses.
E-mail before the first call. Jordan, our first call wasn’t the greatest but I had never contacted her (and to be fair she was very new her). I e-mailed her before our second call about a year later and she completely blew me away, one of the best calls I ever had, and I think it was because I had e-mailed her letting her know what kind of thing I wanted.
So when you think you have found one you might click with, e-mail her. That’s my suggestion.
Thanks for sharing your experience with choosing a Mistress, Alice! There are so many ways to connect with a Mistress and each Mistress has her preferred way to have that communication outside of a session …. remember if it’s outside of a session it’s all free fun for us so it’s best to check with each individual Mistress to see how she handles herself and her time. I’ve spent a lot of time in Enchantrix Empire and now I tend to go there in spurts … there are just so many other things that have my attention. I can’t speak for other LDW Group ladies, but I prefer out of scene communication in this order of preference:
Blog comments
Tumblr reposts with a comment and/ or twitter
emails ( I answer all emails quickly unless I have the vacation responder on) …. remember I answer emails between calls and the sessions take priority.
Enchantrix Empire polls
Forum comments in teasemania.com and/or getgirlie.com — both are audio stites but I write back in the comments.
I tend to actually ‘engage’ in the communication so it takes longer than a quick sentence or two.
Of course, all of this out of session communication depends on many variables — call volume and what I’m doing in terms of blog and audio writing which are also free out of session forms of communication.