Teach me to eat my own cum
I got an email from someone who has a hot cum eating fetish but is so frustrated. It’s a common issue for many people. It’s the cum and go syndrome. The horny body and mind says, “I want to eat my own cum” but once there is cum to eat, the desire disappears..
This is one email begging, “Please help me eat my own cum!”
“I read your blog on coached to cum. I am a virgin, Never have eaten cum. I can’t. I have tried but can’t follow through. Sigh. Every time I cum I have the intention to suck up every creamy drop, but I chicken out.
I tasted a drop once, and NO.
There are many ways to make you eat your own cum
As a cum coach, I know that what works for one person might not work for someone else. My technique is finding out what works for YOU. For example, what turns you on? Why do you want to eat cum? Is this part of a larger fantasy? And so on. This wannabe cum eater says,
“I am for real. I just want to get past this. Humiliation and some pain get me so aroused.”
Cum eating and kink
Cum eating is naughty all on its own; that’s why it’s sexy. Adding cum eating to erotic roleplay, BDsm, erotic humiliation, and other types of kink sessions you get into a horny subspace. Mistress says, “Lick it up. Do it now” and you automatically obey without thinking.
Nervous, scared and aroused
I always smile when I get an email that says something along these lines,
“I am nervous about calling, never have done so. I would be honored to serve you.”
You are not alone! It’s normal to be nervous before the first anything. It’s understandable that you’re nervous before your first phone sex call. Hey, check out my first phone sex call if you want to hear about nervous!
Get in touch, we can explore together. I won’t bite (unless you like that sort of thing!)
Ms Olivia. This is not an activity I’ve had a lot of experience with, but in my opinion it certainly helps to have a Mistress to guide you in your “quest to ingest”
One of my earliest experiences in cum eating came out of the blue in a session with a Dominatrix..(well it didn’t come out of the blue, more like pink!)
So here I was, happy as hell, dressed, if memory serves…(so many Ms Olivia!) in my frothy fuscia frock, standing there with an ample bounty resting on the arm of her leather sofa.
She was having none of that, and as you wrote, ordered me to “Clean it up”
This was an imposing woman…well, that is the whole idea!
I complied.
This isn’t something I would do on my own, but everyone is different. My preference is to do this under Mistress’s guidance for her pleasure.
It’s natural to bail when the time comes…but with some of the right persuasion from Mistress the newcomer to the party will happily rise to the occasion and proclaim “Down the Hatch!” Oh, just a footnote, I am crazy nervous EVERY time I call!?. My heart pounds out my chest in anticipation….I love that excitement!
I love that you said, Mistress guidance for her pleasure.
YES.
For the Mistress, it’s so delightful when a submissive jumps to obey.
I’ve enjoyed the few times you’ve successfully coached me to eat my cum. The taste lingers and extends the experience. I just wish I could do it more often.
I agree !!
And, it’s been far too long — let’s get together!
LOL oh PEG! Not a lot of Experience!? You are modest my sissy!
I cannot let this stand!
I have to let the world know you are a champion slurper! NO pineapple, NO canteloupe you filled that glass and with a smile, downed the spunk!
THIS is the new blog post:
Spunk and a smile: an interview with lil peg!
hahahhahaha
My goodness, Mistress Erika has brought me to my knees with this “cum uppance”! Kudos! A position I have had a lot of experience in! Now Ms Olivia as far as the interview? I don’t expect any “hard” questions, I don’t have any “long” answers to give you, and I promise NOT to talk with my mouth full.
I won’t try to embellish any details because you both have seen my “credentials”.
laughs
well lil peg — what you don’t have (points to the front of your panties) you sure do make up with humor and smarts!
Normally,etiquette would frown on pointing! However, I am going to be “up front”…(who’s kidding who…my “front” hasn’t been “up” in donkeys years!)
No, Ms Olivia, I must update you and report, at the questioning of my “blue” rhumba panties I have proudly acquired the more appropriate “pink” hue in one size smaller!?
Point away!
laughs and laughs
rhumba panties — small, tight rhumba panties — PERFECT for someone so …. ahem … lil.
Oh Ms Olivia…I am crimson red, blushing in proud embarrassment. I just love how you know I am in panties!
You BETTER be in panties lil peg or you’re going to be doing more than just blushing!
Ms Olivia thank you so much for writing about cum eating. This was a tough one for me to conquer but after several years my Mistress helped me realize the humiliation that I love would linger after our sessions if I ate my cum for her. She couldn’t have been more right and now that I have I can’t imagine not finishing our time that way. When allowed to orgasm of course and I’ll never waste another drop!
Putting a submissive in chastity is a wonderful way to provide … ahem … incentive to obey. As an obedient chastity slave you should never waste another drop!
Miss Olivia,
I love this post. I have a few observations that might shed some light on the subject. .
“The first one is the hardest” is so true. After that it got easier.
(((( This is a really wonderful comment and I’m going to post it as a full blog post because there are so many great points.))))
One thing, for me, whether I’m swallowing my load or someone else’s, it has to be right from the source, still warm.
Any way you slice it, cum is so amazing!
I love this comment so much! I’m actually going to do a followup blog post with most of the comment and my thoughts. I love when we have full conversations back and forth here on the blog!
Oh Oh Oooh OOlivia I just ate my own cum . I was on Tic Toc not gooning lust looking at cars etc and a trans women said my boyfriend left me cause mine is bigger than his I made some comment cool ????
another Trans woman liked my comment I clicked on her profile and profile said she enjoys pegging
I just wet my panties and ate my cum
I love that you ate your own cum !!!!!!!!
yes!
Olivia I swear I wasn’t playing with my clitty no diddling nothing I just wet myself. That is the way I have orgasms now spontaneous. I was a thin and tasty load . I had pineapple juice and pineapples fresh fruit in my diet plus some coconut fun no beer or cigarettes have touched my mouth.