As you’ve read, this Mistress is active in real life fetish scene. Since the polar vortex released it’s grip this past weekend, all the kinky people took advantage of this! ~grinz~
This is the right kind of Fire and Ice play … that’s a pun on an earlier Cock Stroker Academy masturbation instruction – cock stroking inspired by a poem! ~smiles~
BTW, I’ve moved Cock Stroker Academy cock stroking instructions to the masturbation phone sex blog look there for the link to your password protected special erotic photo of the week. Enjoy!
Magnus wanted to know how much playing I do with my personal partner at fetish events with my real life kinky community. This is a continuation of that question.
Curious about Mistress in real life?
While I refer to myself as a Lifestyle Mistress let me be clear about what I mean. When I use the term Lifestyle, I’m saying that I play in real life and am in a real life erotic fetish relationship. I am NOT his “Mistress” 24/7 because I like having adult (not D/s) conversations with my partners outside of play time.
What I do with pet
AND, like most couples, our pairing is not EXACT. For example, he isn’t *into* foot worship. That’s not a bad thing and I enjoy having specific foot slaves for that part of what I like! Mistress likes variety! ~grinz~
My parnter can take (and likes) impact play, sensation play, CBT, bondage, mind fuck and erotic humiliation (to name just a few things). I love playing with him because he enjoys the layering of thuddy to stingy, sensual to wicked and I’m able to bring him up and down the intensity scale at my will. You know I DO like to run the BD/sm scene itself.
Want to know more?
If you’d like to know more about my private life or our fetish play, please post a comment on the blog and/or ask me during our session. I’m more than happy to give you insight.
Hi MsOlivia! First I hope You had a blast at Your weekend excursion. I agree that I’m sure all the horny kinky people were glad the weather let them out. Her, diversion alert since my brain thought of being let out by the weather only to get locked into bondage. Ahem… 😉
I’m glad I inspired You to write these blog posts. I think my question also had to do with playing with others. I figured You did play with Your guy but You had mentioned a possible ummm session (better word here maybe??) with a foot boy and so I was wondering about playing with others at such parties and if Your guy did the same. Sort of arrive together, play together, and then do some things separately.
Ah but wait there’s more. If you order now…. LOL There is more. There’s an old adage that clothes make the man. Well my corollary is that clothes do not make the Domme. The Domme makes the Domme and She can wear what She likes. She could indeed wear the tight black leather corset and boots. But She could as easily wear jeans and a tshirt or a sundress. My Domme friend told me that many of the people who go to her club just wear street clothes. So my question is what is MsOlivia’s preference there?
WONDERFUL questions magnus! You know you can always digress with me! I will answer EACH of these in a blog post. I was planning on doing a foot slave blog post…..~smiles~….but you know, I hadn’t thought about the clothing one so I ADORE your digressions! You talk about new things and things I haven’t thought of and I like that! So, digress all you like! ~grinz~
Thank You for sharing so much with us here about Your play in Your local community and Your daily life-style. i must say i’m so thankful for Your experience and the way You use it to enhance our sessions. Even though i have limited experience in my local community, i have to confess, the intensity of my transcendence into states of radical ecstasy during most of our sessions is often deeper than i have been able to achieve thus far in my community play.
i can’t help but share my significant appreciation of Your talents demonstrated this morning in reviving and building on the sub-space i achieved at my play party last Saturday night. Your personal experiences and willingness to share them are most definitely appreciated.
You’re more than welcome! And, our relationship is way longer (timewise and play intensity) than your community kinky play (so far). Kinky relationships are just like any other….time takes time. For me, I’m friendly with new people that come to a play party but I don’t jump right in and invite ’em into my life, home, or even my fetish play….I like to watch people for a bit first. That says, “time takes time” is sometimes frustrating but it’s true.
I’m SO GLAD you had a great time yesterday morning…..so did I! ~grinz~