Did you ever wonder who calls phone sex?
Trust Me on this one….it’s regular folks, just like you, who call. The caller wants something erotic (maybe something exotic) and doesn’t have access to these experiences in other parts of life. That doesn’t make the first call any easier for some of you, so I’m going to give you some tips on how to get what you want. I’m the Experienced Mistress so let Me guide you.
SHY about sex
I know sometimes it’s hard to explain what you want. You might be a little shy with a new partner. You might be nervous before your first phone sex call. (You’ll like it, you’ll see!) You might wonder if your erotic fantasy is weird. I’ve even have had people ask, “Do I think you’re ‘creepy.” We’ll get to talking and your nervousness will simply melt away!
Before your call
Since you’re reading this on My blog, you know I do a lot of posts on a verity of topics….just look through the posts, audios and photos. I’ve also got three other blogs – look to the right, they’re listed under the Wish List icon. If you’d like to connect before your call or get a Mistress recommendation there are a couple ways to do that:
- Visit the lovely ladies on our Live Help Desk
- Fill out a pre-call questionnaire
Very specific fetish or fantasy
We can *talk* before your call via email. My email is: olivia AT enchantrixempire.com. Simply send an email and I’ll write you back. On Yahoo IM, I’m: enchantrixolivia.
What one Ms Olivia caller says
“You’re a fantastic partner! I must admit, I’ve been a long time phone sex caller and have had some good ones over the years but with my specific fetish, it is hard to get what I want sometimes. I have many superlatives for the way you nailed specifics.”
Phone sex is great! I love it! I’m shy with women about my fetishes in real life but with you and other mistresses I can open up and all of you have way with me. Phone sex is great as there is no drama, games, or emotion you have to deal with in relationships or marriage. For me I just need to have day/time to call. Also there are so many hot mistresses to choose from that makes it tough to decide. Eventually I want to call 2-3 times a week for shorter calls like in 20 minute range. Had some home improvements that had to be taken care of before calling thats why I haven’t called but that will change in another 2-3 weeks. I really need mistress that can have way with me in non harmful safe way, to dress me as girl, give me lipstick kisses make cum and have me stay that way if I cum.
You’re so right peter! Sometimes it is VERY hard to talk with some things when you’re face to face with the other person….I think sex, sexuality, fantasies and fetishes are especially difficult to discuss. I’m so glad that you post here and on My crossdressersphonesex.com blog!
In fact, reading this comment I’ve got to put some posts on that blog! WOW, I’m way behind with things!
Dear Mistress Olivia,Thankyou Mistress Olivia for making me feel ok.And appreciated.ok and normal.I do not think I am shy,i do think iam extremely introverted,socially akward at times,have a little bit of a nerd going on .that is different from a geek,different version of nerd ,just alittle growth.
Masturabation month is different for a sissy slave in
chasity training and sissy training.i do not know what I want.really.But in abig major way I know what I want I
want to please empress Christine.sissy slave ted
And I’m sure you DO please Ms Christine sissy slave ted! 🙂 Thanks for your comment.
Dear mistress Olivia ,When before my first phone call with mistress Olivia I did a questionnaire which
was a little bit of enlightment for me.i appreciated all the caring of Mistress molly ,then she choose my mistress for me Epress Christine.Empress Christine
is has been a excellent guide.ilearned not too judge,
I was akward and a little intimated because other slaves have more experience than I have had.i learned not too judge myself .Empress Christine is my judge,she
does a better job at it than i.love sissy slave ted
Here’s the thing sissy slave ted…..there will ALWAYS be another slave who is “better” than you. It’s not a competition of you with other slaves to be the BEST….it’s the fit between the Mistress and the submissive. You’ve heard the saying, “He might not be the best, but he’s the best FOR ME.” Well, I think that applies here because with intimacy it’s always the connection that matters. If you have a crappy connection then the other stuff (skill, money, talent, etc.) won’t matter. Makes sense?
Here’s the thing sissy slave ted…..there will ALWAYS be another slave who is “better” than you. It’s not a competition of you with other slaves to be the BEST….it’s the fit between the Mistress and the submissive. You’ve heard the saying, “He might not be the best, but he’s the best FOR ME.” Well, I think that applies here because with intimacy it’s always the connection that matters. If you have a crappy connection then the other stuff (skill, money, talent, etc.) won’t matter. Makes sense?
Olivia it took me years before my first call.
Hannah was the one I wanted to call but I was always too afraid and felt ashamed at my desire.
There was nothing to be afraid of, she’s extremely friendly and there was nothing to be ashamed of either.
Part of my fear was I’m not very experienced and with some women that can be a turn-off.
When I decided I was going to call, Mistress X was who I initially wanted. She had a photograph that really rocked my world, but after interactions on EE I knew she would be a lot of fun for a lot of people but wasn’t right for me (I did call her later, she still is good one the phone, but for me personally probably not good first.)
The first call I actually made, you are so right – communicating a bit on twitter on through e-mail helped quite a bit.
Also I called dispatch and did not use click2call. How friendly the dispatcher was, especially knowing it was my first, helped put me at ease and that helped it be a call that really rocked.
It’s a good idea to read her blogs, maybe not every one she ever wrote if she’s an avid writer – but reading her blogs may help find something that turns you on that you thus know turns her on and it can help remove the shame you may be feeling because you can read the perspective of why someone else enjoys it.
Something Layla taught me, when you start getting to nervous just take slow deep breaths.
Something Gemma taught me, in reality normal is just a fucking cycle on a washing machine.
Something you taught me, it’s not just the caller who is looking for a good time 😉
Awwww, you deal Alice are a WONDER! I love love love this comment! Especially the last part about what I learned! ~grinz~
Deep breathes, reality check and yes, MUTUAL PLEASURE! “Ding ding ding” and it’s ALL good 🙂
Can I just say, I have the best time flirting with you on twitter! I’m MistressOlivia1 if someone reading this wants to see what I’m talking about.
I love emailing with folks before a call. Sometimes IM doesn’t work because I have so many IMs going at the same time, that’s why I prefer email –or blog comments — I can actually give thoughtful answers!
THANK YOU so much for mentioning our lovely and talented Dispatchers! They really ARE amazing and fun, flirty in their own right (as long as callers don’t get TOOOO naughty with them!).
THANKS for always taking your time to comment Alice! ~sends you hugs~
I think for me, and I just came up with this so it hasn’t had a lot of thought of thought but I think for me, flirting on Twitter and EnchantrixEmpire is kind of like meeting at the local coffee shop. That it is somewhat public gives somewhat of a safety zone feeling.
Whenever I meet a new girl in my non digital life, a coffee shop is always what I suggest first time. Other people are there, sometimes even people we both know, it’s informal, a pleasant environment, and we both feel safe that we can feel each other out for expectations before committing to alone time.
WOW, I never thought of it that way Alice….but you’re absolutely right! It’s safe, sane and yes, sometimes, highly caffeinated! He he he he he!
Seriously, I like that you’re talking about (no pun intended) ‘feeling each other out’ before committing to alone time. Truthfully, that’s not just an issue of safety but also of sanity….because there ARE some nutty people out there, right? AND, maybe everyone is a little nutty but you’ve got to make sure that your nuttiness fits well with the other person’s nuttiness…..yes, even just for something longer like dinner!
LIFE is too short to waste it with someone who is not a good fit for whatever reason! 🙂
… I’m reading Twitter and thinking:
(( name )) being so rude to Ms. O?
((( REALLY FUNNY STUFF here but I deleted it because I don’t want a flame war…not My thing….but the content WAS FUNNY! ))))))
Sir, I demand you apologize to Ms. O at once.
~laughs~ OMG, funny funny funny comment and thank you for making me laugh!
People of Earth,
You have now witnessed my awesome and slightly edited powers. Disrespect of Ms. Olivia will not be tolerated in any form including on social media. Retribution will be swift, painful and without mercy. (Unless that type of thing gets you off and then I’ll have to come up with some sort of plan B. Maybe a written reprimand that will become part of your permanent record.)
You have been warned.
The Silken Avenger
P.S The Silken Avenger was unaware at the time that Ms. O was actually on good terms with this certain evildoer and that she likes the way he looks in a pair of jeans. The Avenger sees Ms. O casting her irresistible man catching net over all of Twitterverse and approves.
hahahhahahahhahahahhahaah……~laughing so hard My boobs shake!
hahahhahahahhahahahhahaah……~laughing so hard My boobs shake!
Evildoer Who Looks Good In Jeans,
You have escaped my wrath because Ms.O likes you, but a word of friendly advice;
DO NOT FUCK WITH A TRUCK DRIVER. EVER.
Have you not seen the movie “Duel”?
LAUGHING! Awwww, Silken Avenger….~snicker, snicker, snicker~