What is HOT phone sex?
You know this Experienced Mistress delivers intelligent, creative and the best phone sex you’ve ever had. Let’s talk a bit about why it’s so good — for you and for me because I am a sensual Mistress who love SEX!
Ordinary erotic pleasure versus amazing fetish play!
Here’s a comment from a caller that has me thinking about some of the behind the scenes stuff of how we do what we do. I’d like to hear what you think and what you have experienced during your calls (and other communication). You know I’m all about telling you tips on how to have great phone sex. I think he has very good points!
Another thing that can take a phone sex call from the ordinary to the sublime is honesty with oneself and your operator.
We all have those dark fantasies we never mention not to our lovers, and most certinaly not to our friends. Fantasies that only exsist in the darker recesses of our imagination.
Yet with phone sex there’s no threat, the operator isn’t going to shriek in horror, at most she may suggest another operator might be better for your fantasy.
No one will ever know but you and her, and that dark, secret little desire can finally have some life of it’s own.
Honesty and erotic phone entertainment?
Yes, I know it sounds like a contradiction in terms but think about it — isn’t that dichotomy of emotions central to much of fetish play — erotic spanking, sensual humiliation, wicked Mistress, etc. What do you think?
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
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Just my two cents. And after buying all those losing Powerball tickets that’s about all I have left.
Want great phone sex? Find a great phone sex entertainer who is also a good person. It can make a huge difference in your view of phone sex.
I once visited a forum that I thought was about phone sex but it was really a forum for phone sex operators (they weren’t with LDW) to talk about their business and their callers.
Yikes.
It was like taking a tour of the bratwurst factory. 10 minutes in and you’re a lifelong vegan.
It seemed like many of the operators didn’t like/respect the callers and that many of the callers didn’t like /respect the operators.
Kind of felt bad for everyone involved. I’m kind of a cynical dude so I thought all operators were like that until I discovered Ms. O.
For some people honesty requires a safe environment. It’s kind of hard to open up about your deepest fantasies to someone who regards you as a faceless credit card number. To some it doesn’t matter, but to others, they end up being self-conscious and censoring themselves and missing out on some mind blowing fun. They get a mediocre experience at best.
We all know Ms. O is smart, sexy, funny etc., but read her blog a bit and you’ll find out she’s just a really good person that cares about other people. She will make you feel great about yourself and your fantasies and that will make a huge difference in your calls.
P.S Her voice is absolute MILF perfection. I could listen to her say just the word “spanking” all day.
And also the word “rutabaga” but that is a different comment for a different day.
I couldn’t help but think about the similarity of the patient who goes to a therapist and then doesn’t really say what’s going on or why he/she is there … the therapy can be effective but only up to a point. To get beyond the casual it takes risk and taking ANY risk is scary. I think that true intimacy is ALWAYS a risk because the very definition of intimacy IS exposure and giving someone access to the personal and very private inside. I know you know what I mean and because I do know what you mean, I’m going to do that rutabaga audio! ~laughs~
Olivia, if anyone knows how to make phone sex hot, it’s YOU! Still, I love the fact that you share comments from your callers with us, in fact one of the things I love best about what we do is that we’re continually learning from our callers. That makes every day in the Empire interesting, don’t you think?
laughs why thank you Ms Catherine! You are so right …. I learn something naughty and I teach something naughty each and every day. I might do this in another career but it sure wouldn’t be this much fun!
I think you are one effing hot Mistress. And just so sensual, too. I know. I have experienced the amazing Ms. Olivia. This is a wonderful place to divulge your secrets and go to that dark place. I know Ms. Olivia will take very good care of you!
Awwww, Ms Meredith …. thank you and right back at you … but we only divulge our MUTUAL secrets on a 2 Mistress call….~laughs~
Hmmmm..I think this post fits us to a T.
It does …. can’t wait for our next sounding session! 🙂
I agree Ms. Olivia. The desire to share experiences with someone who is not judgmental makes for a rewarding experience. Great blog.
nods! Its really great for both of us 🙂
Good afternoon mistress. I agree with you that the emotions speaking for myself play a judge role. Being honest with your mistress only heightens the enjoyment. Also I get even more turned on and the anticipation is wonderful after a couple of emails discussing what it is that my fetish is and how it may play out when we finally connect. Thank you for this blog. I truly hope I can connect with you to live out one of my many fantasies.
I agree …. sex is hot and just sex can be very hot sex … it all depends on the people and the desires and needs. For those of us that DO want a connection, then having the intimacy of connection makes the hot sex OFF THE CHARTS! Plus, I’ll admit it, I am more than a little bit voyeuristic and I get off on knowing secrets! 🙂
Um … sometimes a highly judgmental Mistress is just what the doctor ordered.
😉
John Q
~laughs~ Well …. there is judgment and there is discernment … I am discerning! I tell the truth about what I see … and I have an eye for the smallest of details.
Oh my gosh Mistress … I had to look that up to understand the subtlety.
You’re a scary smart lady … which as I’m sure you know I find irresitably attractive.
John Q
Ahhhhhhh…..you had to look it UP …. well all I had to do was simply glance down and I could see exactly what was wrong between you and your girlfriend! I mean, it’s such a small thing, it doesn’t have to ruin everything …. but, well, it is such a small thing that I have advised her there should be some changes. I’m sure you understand, don’t you?
(Slight gasp, squirms in his chair as he looks furtively around the room) Mistress, shhh …
John Q
shhhhhh ? Hmmmmmmm …. well you know that your girlfriend and I DO know one another … I mean, she’s my friend and well, friends take care of friends. I’m trying to find a way to keep HER happy and keep her with you, despite your … ahem … short comings. I mean, what ARE friends for? Right?
thanks for your comment peter
I can’t wait for my snake vore session with Ms. Olivia. Her willingness to indulge such a fantasy is amazing! I look forward to being swallowed while she helps me relax and accept my predicament 🙂
This is wicked fun fantasy and I’m excited too! I think I “can” help with your … ahem … predicament.