Is it possible to stay sane in chastity?
Listen to me talk with you about the emotions of chastity.
I’m not going to lie to you, chastity is difficult. Chastity is a test. Being cock locked, especially for an extended amount of time, can be the ultimate test of submission to your Femdom Mistress.
Orgasm denial is an emotional rollercoaster
Anyone who is seriously into tease and denial will tell you that there are a variety of emotions. This is similar to the emotional challenges of extreme sports. Anyone who has run a marathon will tell you that no matter how hard you train, you will ALWAYS hit the wall at some point. This is true with orgasm edging and denial. Here’s a quote from a phone sex caller
He knows how to serve a Femdom Mistress. He also knows to stay with it. I suggest you connect with your Mistress. You WILL hit a place where the experience is sublime and well worth the effort.
“You may be upset, pissed or even wonder if you’ll EVER be let out of your device; I can tell you that you WILL reach a time of Zen!!! I Promise you WILL feel the zen!! You will be very happy knowing that this Beautiful Woman has control of your cock & orgasms. You will even be grateful for the possibility of ruined orgasms! I must thank You Mistress Olivia for your help & training. I’m owned by You & I am grateful !!!”
Are you ready to be owned by Mistress?
Actually, if you’re in chastity then you’re not just owned by your Miss, you are owned and operated by her!
Your Experienced Mistress,
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You can own me anytime !
Ohhhhh sissy emily … owned and operated by the Experienced Mistress. That sounds very good to me too.
I found this so true on so many levels thank you for an amazing post
sissy bella, there is a lot to chastity … much of this experience is internal and that part is perfect when it sort of increases your … ahem … attention in other areas. laughs The extra ENERGY is very useful for all sorts of things. No fly zone! laughs
After months and months of chastity and the hope I would b e released and granted release to have it permanently locked away really did give me a fit of crying 🙁 Initially it was very hard to accept but then you explained how this would just accelerate my journey to becoming the woman we both want. I will have a whole new regimen now with finishing school and it will take all my focus to excel..
I can explain it all quite well yvonne … and you know in your feminine heart that I am right!
Hey Mistress Olivia:
Was glad that you wrote about this subject. I am locked in chastity about 98% of the time. What keeps me sane is sucking cock for my lady friend who turned me into her cuckold slave.
Oh NICE ….. you are lucky that your Chastity Mistress lets you suck cock!
cream puff cream puff … everyone knows you’re a cream puff!
It would be a pleasure and a privilege to be owned and operated by Ms Olivia
~laughs~ Thanks maid steph!
I no longer get hard or pleasure my self by stroking 12 yrs of crossdressing have lead me down a new sissy path Mistress and Ms Olivia i pleasure myself like a woman
Good sissy girl april nicole ! You should always pleasure yourself like a woman or a sissy!
Hi Miss Olivia.
I have been battling a femdom addiction for as long as I can remember, and I don’t know what to do anymore. I have just got into a relationship with a girl that really likes me, and I really like her, and I would hate for her to see me as less of a man for having these fantasies of chastity and femdom, and tease and denial. I also fear cuckolding and am sure I do not want to take part in it. Please help mistress, I just wanna get rid of this addiction for good.
P.S This is not just for me to get off, I am being legit, and I would like to know if there is any way you could help me 🙂 Thank you.
Hi James, it’s hard to say whether I can help you based on a blog comment — it’s just too limited. Are you able to do a call?
I also think I have a masturbation addiction and just can’t stop getting off on femdom 🙁
We should talk — tell me more.
What would you like me to say miss? Is it worth me trying to break free of a femdom addiction or should i just submit?? I dont wanna wear a chastity cage, coz I like using my dick, but I just cant illude this addiction…. what do you think mistress??
I think I want you to own me and never let me escape… but at the same time im not sure and I know theres no going back from that. I like using my dick, a lot. And after seeing what youve done to everyone else on this site im not sure its a well informed decision on my part as a man that might be a bit submissive. (or alot submissive) i dont know, please let me know what you think 🙂 x
a LOT submissive I do believe … which of course makes me very happy! 🙂 🙂
Let’s talk about this and so much more!
How do you know that i am alot submissive?? Also sorry for replying so late mistress. What do you think I should do about this submissiveness. Part of me still wants to be dominant, and i dont think i have a small penis. (its about 15cm) 🙂
Some guys with a small penis WANT to be Dominant …. how’s that working for you? ~laughs~
Well is 15cm small?? I thought it was slightly above average 🙁 And mistress even if I am submissive, that doesn’t necessarily mean I have to be locked into a chastity device does it?? Also cuckolding is out of the question for me, just letting you know 🙂
These are all fabulous questions! Let’s talk about all this and more when you call 🙂
Also I mismeasured, I am about 20cm fully erect. Is that still small??!! And sadly i’ve never had sex before, but i’ve had a few girlfriends.
~laughs~ I’ll tell you all my opinions when we talk 🙂
Chastity cages are for men who masterbate way too much or who wa t to use their penis whent their penis isn’t always wanted. I am way too small for a chastity cage so i purchased a pink locking leather penis restraint. Even though i can’t erect before i purged my phone i had photos of this on my social media accounts.
I would love to see that leather penis restraint! You’re right sissy april nicole — many a sissy is way too small for a chastity cage — that’s why you’re a sissy! ~laughs~
I Will post on twitter as soon as i can manage to get photo done my sissy stuff is at a condo 80 miles from where i am now. I had gone thru a putge and put my stuff out of easy reach i have cum out of purge mode and progressively gone more sissy i recently like last Tuesday had my first morning wood in many years like 14 or so.I have tiny penis photos on Twitter AprilsissyNicole
In my experience sissy april nicole, purging doesn’t “work” — the desires always come back — OR as you said, CUM back! 🙂 🙂
But it is so much fun to get full sissied up.What good times i had going out to clubs meeting other”. Gurls”
I am torn in half about sissification
I am a sissy faggot cock sucker for another sissy faggot cock sucker in my desires unless a woman can set me str8.
Why would she want to do that? You’re a sissy!
Went thru a purge again but only photos in phone and put sex toys in a bag out of reach.Purge lasted 3 or 4 days i a hopeless sissy watched Tranny photos on Twitter no more erections 4 me my soft tiny penis is 1. 1/4 inch
So you didn’t purge purge? YOu didn’t throw everything away did you?
So far i only purged my phone of photos and most waste of time web sites one was show me your tiny penis and other sissy dating sites.I was booted from twitter but got back on as April Nicole.I put my toys and stuff where it is not so easy to get to but just couldn’t quite throw it away.In the process of clearing out phone i found this one photo of this woman with a caption.Saying put that tiny penis away it is useless to me she has really big tits with large areolas.I posted it on twitter i will repost it now
Don’t purge expensive things! That’s always my motto because purging never “works” for a crossdresser.
That is so true Ms Olivia. I have purged several times but was always drawn back to the silky, lacy items. Just accept who/what you are and enjoy. Purging is an expensive habitant the money would be better spent on Ms wish list
~laughs~ I, of course, agree with the “better spent on a Mistress Wish List” comment — but even if you don’t do that — spend it on yourself and buy more pretty clothes!
Even before i became a crossdresser i would have G Strings that i would wear on the gay beach and after awhile i would get ashamed and throw them away and time and again i would buy new ones and i had 2 purges of female clothing first time i purged i gave away what i considered fashion mistakes 2nd purge i gave away only extra colder weather items i live in Fl and homeless could use them .my clothing purges have never been total
It’s not a purge if it’s a fashion mistake! LOL Every year around Feb I’m get tired of the gloom and grey and snow and start shopping for florescent LIME GREEN. Not my color! LOL So every couple years I purge all the “mistage green” items!
Oh i had a bright lime green g string that i used to wear at gay beach That was hot when i was slender if i get my weight down i will go there again
Mean while i am at a nude resort with walking around with my tiny penis feeling the breeze and checking out some old heavy hotties
laughs — oh sissy Nicole — how do you EXPRESS your sissy self at a NUDE beach???????
I have dressed with a wig and laid face down at times. Had some very interesting events.Have sucked a cock or two dressed in sissy mode. Also strutted past women with tiny penis in a tiny g string & sometimes women’s tiny underwear
Ohhhhhhh nice …. thanks for your comment about being a sissy!