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chastity and submission
What do you think? Is chastity the ultimate form of submission to Mistress? How do YOU feel when you are owned by Ms Olivia?
I’m going to make a case for this because we both know that being cock locked does increase the feelings of submission for many people who are submissive. This is true for the submissive man in chastity and the same is true when a coerced sissy scene includes this (because we both know that clitty needs to be locked up!).
Blog comments about being locked up
I love when someone is in chastity because they have all this …. ahem …. pent up energy! ~laughs~ Posting blog comments here on Experienced Mistress is a wonderful way to communicate with Mistress and others about the swirl of excitement about chastity. Here’s just one example of the erotic torment of being in chastity.
One caller’s experience with a Chastity Mistress
She has been generous enough to allow me out for play around 4 times and probably 6 or 7 seven of the aeros sessions while locked.
Saturday night she had me out to fuck the see-through clear fleshlight for her but I first had to cover her cock in desensitizing cream. Maintaining an erection was no issue and I could still feel pleasurable sensations, just not so overwhelming I lose it.
I was rock hard & denied. This cock was enveloped by the flashlight pussy for well over 30 minutes!
Talk about a mindfuck! Then last night, for our 1 month lock-up anniversary, I was treated to a 1 hour session of aneros play resulting in multiple dry O’s that would steadily build & build until I was involuntarily convulsing, hip bucking, and gyrating while moaning my Mistress’s name in broken speech.
Up next is a strap-on session later in the week as Mistress Fiona’s believes being pegged while locked is the ultimate submission.
Experienced Mistress and chastity
This chastity pet was talking about Ms Fiona but dare I say it? I love to hear ohhhhhh no, Ms Olivia when I do a wicked tease and denial and then, BAM! You are cock locked again! ~grinz~
Thanks for posting the Ms Olivia. (((such a great comment, look for this in a blog post.))) I am still kinda new at it, but it has been a hell of a ride so far!!
I loved your comment so I’ve excerpted out the middle so I can use it in a blog post. I think you have some amazing points and I want to speak to them directly in a post. THANKS!
Oh….and I almost forgot, the most important thing of all!…. ((((( Awwwww, Mike this is the BEST BEST BEST comment ever! There’s no friggin way I’m letting this ode to your Chastity Mistress Ms Constance be buried in blog comments. Look for this is a post!)))))
YOU really are a wonderful, delightful chastity pet and your comment about your Chastity Mistress Ms Constance makes me smile SO BIG! Have you gotten the impression I adore the Intelligent Femdom? She’s a friend, fellow Mistress …. oh yeah and I also have a huge fucking Girl Crush on her awesomeness! ~grinz~
Yes it is the ultimate submission especially when you have submissive dressed in women’s clothes. MsMelanie on our first date locked me in chastity:( she saw me in Victoria’s Secret and I didn’t think she would notice me wearing her yoga pants/ankle boots/bra under my long sleeve button down shirt. I was trying on perfumes/lipsticks/blushes/lotions. She caught me off guard:( I told her I was shopping for her but she giggled as she could smell perfume on me as well as she noticed blush/lipstick on me. She also noticed I was wearing her yoga pants and ankle boots along with bra strap showing through my shirt:o she said I look cute and adorable wearing them as she planted a lipstick kiss on my cheek. She then picked out bra/panty set for me to try on in dressing room. She made me strip naked as I took off her bra and put on bra/panty she picked out. She giggled and said additives were working as I had feminine, hairless, body as well as c cup breasts. I told her my breasts were really painful but when I wear bra pain goes away. She then had me put on bra/panty set and picked out size 6 pink sheath dress. I told her I didn’t mean to wear her clothes but she giggled and knew I was feminine submissive sissy as she could tell as every time her ex boyfriends would hug and kiss her I wouldn’t do or say anything and leaving out her lingerie was trap for me to see if I put them in her drawer I instead wore them to get off. She said if I don’t cum I can wear my boyclothes with in minutes she started touching and kissing me and I got hard and made mess in my panties. She had tote bag and inside was chastity and she put it on me and said I will remain locked up and if I protest she will send pictures of me in bra/panty to everyone. As she locked me in chastity my days of stroking and being single were over and I belong to her:(
What a fantastic post about Ms Melanie! ~laughs~ I’m thrilled to hear she locked you in chastity! ~grinz~
She has me wearing bra/slip/panty all the time at home and yoga pants/ankle boots with girlish turtleneck sweater:( she put additives in my food and my body is completely girlish petite,soft and smooth. I have 36 perky c cup breasts which really hurt but with bra on pain is gone:(I really want to get off but she has key around her neck:( every time I cry or whine she giggles at me and aid I sound like a girl and she just give me lipstick kisses:(
It isn’t my “thing” by any stretch, but I could certainly agree that chastity would be the ultimate form of submission, and downright terrifying!
It IS thrilling …. and NB, you’re right….not for everyone! There are so many different kinds of thrill rides with fetish, kink, crossdressing, submission, cuckolding, etc …. it’s MORE than okay to say, nah, that’s not my thing ….. BUT for those who do like it BAM BABY BAM! ~grinz~
To: My Owner Mistress Olivia
I believe that the ultimate submission has been to become your personal COCKSUCKER and my self imposed medication regiment that has left me unable to get an erection (8.5 years of testosterone blockers and female hormones}for some time now. I love that you own me. I am yours always.
Your Sissy Cocksucker “Kellie”
Kellie needs huge hard cock and warm shots of cum, Kellie needs huge hard cock and warm shots of cum, Kellie needs huge hard cock and warm shots of cum, Kellie needs huge hard cock and warm shots of cum, Kellie needs huge hard cock and warm shots of cum.
Ohhhhhhhh sissy cocksucker Kellie! And are you doing your sissy cocksucker mantra? Hmmmmmmm? That helps to make you even more submissive to this Mistress and turns you into the absolute BEST sissy cocksucker! ~grinz~ You ARE my sissy cocksucker, aren’t you? We’re a very good pairing! ~smiles~ Sissy kellie NEEDS huge hard cock! Say it again with me, dear. ~smiles~
Olivia, this is the reason I am starting to experiment with chastity. You describe it perfectly, from a mistress’ point of view. The deliciousness of denial is very palpable, as I watch the look on a man’s face, after he’s been teased and locked up again. Seeing that cock drip with desire makes me giggle like a naughty girl. You know the feeling I’m talking about….powerful and a little cruel.I will definitely continue, because I now realize how fun it is :).
YAY! Lena…..I love that you’re starting on your own journey with chastity! I’ll admit, I’m more than a little bit geek so I also enjoy all the gadgets like chastity cages, chastity locks and even internet interface for chastity timers. There are so many really wicked, fun things to do with chastity! Thanks for your comment!
Ms. Olivia, as always, you are a Woman of wisdom and truth. ((This next sentence is sooooooo fucking yummy I’m going to turn it into a blog post … so look for Ms EmmaJane to be featured here!))))
You know, it always amazes me how much -after the initial shock and panic of being caged passes and reality sets in- being locked in chastity does for concentration, focus, and clarity of thinking. Do you find that to be the case in your experience with those who are locked up?
I love your way with words Ms Emma Jane! In fact, I think part of your comment needs a blog post! I’m going to feature this in a blog post! Now, to the rest of your comment …. I love that you point out the “initial shock and panic” when that chastity cage lock goes … CLICK. Talk about shock and awe ….. ~grinz~
Hello Mistress,
Hmmmm, I would have to vote for Ms Fiona when it comes to the “ultimate” form of submission. Taking a strapon represents such a departure from the traditional male role of aggressor in a sexual relationship. That being said chastity comes a very close second in that males are not used to being controlled in any way, so that most male of acts being dictated by a woman is extremely submissive. So in a way both you and Fiona are correct!
That’s a great point Heather! Feminization sure is a wonderful form of submission for any male. Of course, if the feminization is because you already FEEL female on the inside …. then the feminization actually puts you in the proper gender role … that of submissive female! ~grinz~ Chastity as PART of the coerced feminization process though is fucking AMAZING …. and you’re so right, Heather, it IS the ultimate form of submission to a Mistress.
This is what Ms Olivia has done with me. Corced feminization. Having me go with her shopping and tricking me into trying on dresses/bras/panties:( she even talked me into getting French manicure. She was to hot and sexy to say no to:( we were at her place and wine spilled on my clothes I had nothing to wear as she told me to take off clothes so it would leave stain. She had no boy clothes and she made me wear her yoga pants with girlish turtleneck sweater:( I told her I feel different but her pant fit me perfect as well as her sweater. We were the same size. She then had me put bra/boy shorts on. I asked her how long it will take to get stain out of my clothes and she giggled as she had to have pro clean them and it was Friday and it wouldn’t happen untill Monday. I cried and whined saying I can’t go dressed like thus but she said I look so cute and adorable dresses like this she then gave me lipstick kiss and told me not to worry as I was such a sweetie in letting her give me French manicure. She then had bottles of perfume on table and grabbed it with out notice she sprayed me. I told her I smell like a girl and she said it supposed to make you smell like a girl. She them applied blush on my cheeks and applied lipstick on me:( I told her I feel so weak, submissive and feminine:( she then sat on my lap and started kissing me and saying I’m such a sweet sissy. She said many other boyfriends left her because she wanted to do this to them but she wouldn’t let me as she took pictures of me and said I can leave but it wouldn’t look good if everyone saw these. She told her other mistress friends about me and they said we finally have a sissy girlie boy to have way with. I told her why me and she said I had submissive shyness about me and her ex boyfriends would come up and hug and kiss her and I wouldn’t do or say anything. I begged, whined and cried but she giggled and said I sound like a girl and Ms Ally said I was prime target for corced feminization and training must begin immediately. Her lipstick had additives to give me girlish body and c cup breasts. She said if I don’t cum I can go back to being guy but of I cum I have to stay this way all the time. She then started kissing me and touching me with her soft hands. With in moments I exploded in my panties and she giggled and said I’m hers and the other mistresses sissy boy who has to stay dressed like this all the time
WOW! I love that you still remember that scene peter! That was a LONG time ago…..but reading about your feminization it brought it all back. What a fun memory! Thanks peter!
Thanks for the sexy share with this post on male chastity. I know you gave that caller one hell of a good time. In fact, just by reading his comments, I’m willing to bet that fleshlight really got a kick out of things too! lol Keep it sexy and keep the informative posts coming!
Ohhh no Ms Alexis … Ms Fiona is that caller’s Chastity Mistress. He did call me though and said,it was super fucking hot to read his comments in a blog and then to hear his comments in a free Ms Olivia audio … ~grinz~ I heard sooo much and I get so Mistressy aroused!
Well I would hope after all the wedding planning and the ceremony and the honeymoon flight I could get released 🙂
~grinz~ Why yes, yvonne …. it’s perfectly normal that you WOULD hope that. Hope, after all, was the the very last of the evils to be released from Pandora’s Box. ~sweet smile~ Would I do that to my lovely bride?
A fantastic post, Ms. Olivia!
I love reading men’s thoughts and experiences on chastity! It’s such a deeply psychological process, and everyone endures it differently. For some, it’s spiritual, and for others…it’s an exercise in pure torment! It truly is one of the most intense forms of submission, and I love guiding men through it.
Thanks for your comment Ms Marlena! Ohhhhh and I do know that you love guiding men through chastity! It really IS such a wicked fun form of psychological and physical torment! ~grinz~
As I was dressed up this morning I was thinking about this chastity dilemma. I do believe it is the ultimate submission. I was thinking as I was all dressed up do I really want to orgasm and spoil this lovely feeling of the gown, the sway of my earrings, and the scent of my perfume? Is it necessary that I orgasm every time I dress up? A woman may get aroused when she decks herself out in glam, but I doubt she gets as far as orgasm. It just is not that simple. Maybe I am just at an age where the sensations of being dressed up are more important than the ultimate sexual satisfaction. Just musing 🙂
xxxx
yvonne
~laughs~ Ohhhhhhhhh this really IS a dilemma yvonne! And, you’re totally right, a woman’s orgasm is never simple because women are complex! Maybe the layers of complexity explain why we have rolling orgasms …. actually a rolling orgasm is similar to the dry orgasm or milking sensation while in chastity. ~grinz~
Please may I arrange a call so I can be put into chastity by you Maam Olivia. Sounds like such a delicious treat
SURE! I consider appointments of 60 minutes or longer during most normal login days. Just send me an email and we can sort out the details.
Yes, I think that chastity/denial is the ultimate form of submission, Ms. Olivia.
Other things, spanking, strap-on play, etc. only happen in session. You could say that they only ever happen when you are ‘playing’ at submitting.
Chastity/Denial is 24/7! Whether you are in session or not. Whether you are at work, asleep, having a meal, in the shower, etc. It is every second of every day!
So, it doesn’t matter if you are ill, busy, horny, not in the mood, or a hot girl wants you to decorate the back of her throat with your cum, you are constantly and continually submitting to the wishes of your Mistress.
Great comment tease toy! And, there’s a big difference between a tease toy, orgasm denial and edging, CFFNM, body worship, etc and submission. It’s hard to explain submission …. it’s one of those things that actually IS a mindset rather than event. I think you’re confusing the word play. It’s not play ACTING — although it IS a fantasy or D/s roleplay …. the emotions are REAL. The word “play” is a fetish term that is an umbrella term to describe fetish scenes. So, if I say I’m going to a play party … that means I (and others) will be doing a variety of scenes and activities. It isn’t really used in the ‘playacting’ kind of way but I can totally understand the confusion in terms.
So, does this mean that you’re getting interested in submission or chastity?
*squirm* Thank you Ms. Olivia.
No, I didn’t mean ‘play’ as in ‘playacting’. I meant as in ‘playing out a session’. Say, someone is in the mood to submit and organises a ‘play session’ with a Mistress. They can be 100% in to the scene, have REAL emotions and surrender into sub space while the session lasts. But that was my point, it is only while the session lasts that they show the commitment to submit to the Mistress.
Ultimate submission takes place not on the subs terms, when he fancied like submitting, so made an appointment. But outside of a session, on the Mistress’s terms, when he would otherwise have the freedom to do something else, but he still submits to her. Whatever he feels like, whatever temptations are placed in front of him.
And that is what you get with chastity/denial! Every second of every day!
I see your points tease toy! You’ve hit on something that’s a hot topic in the BDsm fetish world. Who has control … the submissive or the Dominant. It’s a wonderful topic and I’ve done some blog posts on that. As you know I love to cock tease and it’s super fun cock teasing when a man is in chastity! ~grinz~ Would I do that? Hell to the yeah I would!
*squirm* Exactly Ms. Olivia! If someone submits to an event, whatever that event is, when they dicate the day and time, and maybe place and method, then how can that be described as the ultimate submission?
Whereas with chastity/denial the submission is for whatever terms the Mistress decides, and the submissive has to continue the submission, even when she is not around!
Yes, you do love to cocktease, but you wouldn’t do that to me, after I’ve been denied for 2 weeks, now would you?
~laughs~ YES I would deny you tease toy! That’s what a tease toy is for! ~sweet smile~ I’m so glad you’ve found a Chastity Mistress … well done m’dear! ~grinz~
*squirm* Oh, you would Ms. Olivia? You’d take advantage of a poor, denied and helplessly horny tease toy?
Actually, I think it was more of the case that she found me!
~laughs~ I sure would …. that’s the POINT of a tease toy!
*squirm* Oh, it is? Well thank you for letting me know Ms. Olivia!
~grinz~ You’re always more than welcome tease toy!