I love fall! Don’t you? The air begins to feel crisp and cool. Some of you get the thrill of October baseball. It’s Honeycrisp apple season. And …. best of all …. it’s Locktober! Do you know what that means? It’s Locktober chastity time! If you’ve never participated in Locktober, I highly encourage you to give it a try, even if you don’t do it for the entire month.
If one month locked up seems daunting, don’t worry. Honestly, if you’ve never been in chastity before, I don’t actually recommend going for the whole month. Maybe just try it a few days here and there with my assistance.
But if you do have experience with chastity already, I’m willing to help you stay locked up for the entirety of Locktober. It just depends on your level of experience and your level of comfort with male chastity.
Why Is Locktober Chastity Important?
Locktober chastity is very important because it brings chastity to the forefront and often allows the curious to explore a little bit. And the exploration is quite important, too, because even if it turns out you don’t actually enjoy chastity, you’ve learned something new about yourself. And life is all about learning new things, about the world, and about yourself!
Of course, Locktober chastity is also important for other reasons. One of those reasons is the temperament of the male submissive. For the right person, chastity can really increase submissive feelings. I can tell you from my own experience that if I lock someone up in chastity, that subby almost instantly becomes even more submissive.
Some may say it’s manipulation. They might argue that chastity makes someone hornier because they know they’re not allowed to do whatever they want, anytime they want. Therefore, they act more submissive in order to (hopefully) be released from chastity to get that much-sought after orgasm.
But I know this isn’t true.
Many Subs Prefer To Stay Locked In Chastity
The most damning evidence against the argument that the submissiveness chastity induces is simply manipulation is that many subs actually prefer to stay locked in chastity. They don’t want to be let out. They enjoy being locked up and denied.
This is probably because these subs know that their Domme’s true power is reinforced in a chastity situation. Having control over a man’s cock is a powerful thing. Knowing that the cock control is entirely in my hands is a potent aphrodisiac for a woman, even if she doesn’t realize the full extent of her dominant power. You really should listen to the BDSM kink podcast that I do with Ms Erika. Start with the episode called: How do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Ms Erika and I both LOVE and recommend Mature Metal chastity cages.
Did you hear how excited chastity makes the dominant woman? Personally, it makes me, for example, feel very sexy and sexual. And the more sexual I am, the more the chaste sub desires me, which in turn causes the chastity to be even more potent and effective! It’s win- win for us both!
Exploring Your Chastity Desires
So if you’ve been curious about chastity, Locktober is the perfect time to explore those desires. Locktober chastity with me is all about seeing what works for you. If you’ve never done it before, we can take baby steps! If you have, we can work on extending your time in chastity to see how that goes for you.
If you’ve been playing around with orgasm denial and enjoying it, chastity might just be the next logical step for you. At the very least, it’s something you could consider trying. If you happen to like it, then great! You’ve discovered a new kink! If not, also great. You’ve tried something and decided it wasn’t for you.
So, guys, are you going to be doing Locktober chastity with me? I sure hope so! I love being a keyholding Mistress, so if you would like to discuss it further, why not give me a call? I would love to hear your thoughts on the subject of Locktober chastity! And if you don’t have thoughts you can simply moan, gasp and beg, that’s fun too!
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
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My goodness Ms Olivia I cannot even describe how glad I am that chastity has become my new abnormal. Sure, I get why a guy doesn’t want
his cock locked away and inaccessible.
Now let’s look at me. (I KNOW you have Ms Olivia!????????)
I can’t say that I actually have one!
Of course locking up my …oops, Mistress Erika’s little peanut is a must. Every waking hour I am fettered and frilled and thrilled to do so for my Mistress.
I do see myself in that category of sub who wants to remain locked. Since I’ve learned I can dribble while caged it seems pointless to remove my little security blanket!
Mistress is very generous with her pet.
It’s quite exciting to hear how Mistress’s ownership of what’s in my cage, however meagre, pleases and also excites her!
This is the month lads, if you’ve never tried this, heed Ms Olivia and submit to your chastity desires. Locktober? It’s no trick, it’s a treat!
Thanks Ms Olivia❤️ Maybe I will wear my little salt shaker tomorrow cuz I know it made you chuckle!
OMG calling that tiny dick a lil salt shaker …. EPIC!
hahahahahahaha
you do have a way with words!
Thank you!
Ms Olivia…how long is it medically possible to blush?????????. Well…ya gotta call ‘em as ya can’t see ‘em!
laughs and laughs and laughs
well, you’ve apparently been blushing for years — so it’s a LONG TIME!
oh oh Im lock for ever not just Locktober, blushes
Ohhhhhh are you?
How long?
Goddess O:
I’ve been locked up for approximately 2 and a half years and have loved ???? every minute of it. From the first day I was locked up I knew it was the perfect place to be and yes it has made me feel more submissive and feminine. I recommend it for all sissy subbies.
Sissy Jizzelle
You are a fantastic example of just how submissive and feminine being in chastity can make you feel.
Not just feel that way in the moment but also want to be MORE feminine and submissive.
And look! You have the perfect partner don’t you?
See?
Mistress always knows what’s best!
Fall is awesome as I can wear bras/c cup breaks forms underneath my sweaters/along boots/panties/leggings!!! I’ve never done chastity before-but it’s hot seeing sissies in bras/panties/heels locked up by hot women like you!!!
Speaking of locking — you’d be super fun in a locking maids dress! Ohhhhh how cute is that for any sissy or subbie girly girl?!?
how fun!
Hello, Ms Olivia, I think every single call I have ever done with you ended up with me wearing a chastity belt and a pair of ladies knickers! And so, to answer the question in the title of this blog, yes, Ms Olivia, you have me completely cock-locked!! I should probably sign off with ‘Yours securely’!!
laughs and laughs
Henceforth every chastity pet must sign off with “Yours securely” !!!
That’s a great line.
Yes, Ms Olivia, yes ma’am, your orders are noted and will be obeyed. I will sign off all correspondence with you as ‘Yours securely’!
laughs
Yours securely …. hmmmmmmm you could even change that around ….
what else might you say?
I’m thinking perhaps something about tumbling down the stairs to the basement.
Dear Ms Olivia, I can see that you really do relish judo-flipping me back down into the basement!!
I do thoroughly enjoy judo flipping you back into the basement.
Ms Hunter and I need to discipline you again!
Wow Mistress Olivia, I never heard of mature metal chastity cages. I just don’t think permanent chastity is do able especially if the male is a virgin.
As I’ve said … I’m not sure permanent male chastity would be the way to go for a virgin … but, then again, it depends on the person and our relationship.
Oh yes!!!! It is so I keep focused on my femininity. I want to be a complete woman at least in my mindset for our wedding.
xxxxxxc
Yvonne
nods — chastity DOES help with reinforcing your feminine journey AND, of course, focusing your mind on the proper things.
Yes Mistress Olivia, I am in chastity for Locktober and beyond.
Mistress Tia was kind enough to allow me a release at the end of September after only 14 weeks of chastity. She usually makes me go longer and I was very appreciative that She allowed me a release so soon. She has been in charge of my orgasms for years now and I am very happy to be Her chastity pet.
I’m bummed I missed your release from chastity by Ms Tia. We just couldn’t get the time organized fast enough. That said, I’m thrilled you have a fantastic chastity Mistress and are now back locked up!
I was in chastity I had a pink chastity cage but now I am so limp and tiny and would need to get one of those flat nub devices. I am hoping one of my female neighbors will have me in panties and put me in chastity
Those little nub chastity cages are perfect for a sissy!
My clitty has shrunk to a 1/2 inch.
No longer able to fill my tiny ???? pink chastity cage. So last night I googled Tiny penis Sissies in chastity and found a site for micro penis chastity devices so I ordered the device that is called The Eunuch so I will be able to have a Happy Locktober
Awwwww, sissy is so tiny even a small chastity cage isn’t small enough.
laughs
I love the look of The Eunuch chastity cage … when do you get it?
I’d love a report once you wear it for a bit.
I wear the Eunuch or similar
It has a large ring and the flat front so the clitty is back inside me .I wear at the beach to feel more submissive. Women often ???? ???? smile at me and I wonder if they know or secretly laughing about my clitty ””⁵
Those flat-front chastity cages are very popular for sissies, especially those who want to shrink their clitty.
Shrinking my clitty is exactly what I am doing without hormones. Mistress Hunter recommended soy products. I have hair growth slowed down on legs and skin is softer and penis is shrinking.I can fit in S(3-5) women’s thong panties
Ms Hunter is correct and soy products – natural estrogen – plant estrogen is similar to human estrogen.
would you like a picture?
I always tell people to save the photos for a session, that way we can share the interest together.
I’d love to do that with you at some point.
I have tried calling so many times My CC have Fraud protection and the unusual purchase will shut off card. And I tried twice with a prepaid cards and your system
I didn’t get the last part of that comment … were you able to use the prepaid cards?
Those work well for everyone who doesn’t want to put the charge on a regular credit card.
The pre paid cards weren’t accepted
Sometimes the prepaid cards done work for the click to call or sexy texting purchases because they’re online and that can get wonky.
Just call the Dispatcher – they take pre paid card all the time.
I think ???? I got 2 months ago
ordered a flat chastity cage without a ????. This one has a 7 mm nut head machine screw that bolts the cage instead of a ????.lock Since I can’t get a ????️ hold er ???????? or could never find a woman to actually put me physically in chastity. Even though numerous women on the Internet who have seen my clitty told me I belong in women’s panties and chastity. I purchased a longer 7 mm machine screw that makes easier to attach the flat plate to the ring
You know that we do long-distance keyholding, right?
Did you work with a Mistress here?
Almost all of the Misstresses here have had some influence in turning me from a Lipstick ???? Lesbian Crossdresser to a sissy boi panty wearer in chastity almost pussy free ( one must eat to survive) cocksucker
laughs and laughs
I love that you are OUR lipstick lesbian sissy!
Destiny!
I don’t have a lock ???????? because cheap locks will crap out at the beach ????️ so this 7 mm , thread pitch 4 mm is perfect for me I can make adjustments when my scrotum skin gets pinched
nods that makes sense … who made your chastity cage?
I forgot who made it and I threw the paper work away. However made sure that I got the largest ring size so all balls could fit thru. I have found out that the smallest and tighest of panties are good for shrinkage
sissy chastity is always so much fun!
I can’t remember who made my chastity device and found only the box and no paper work .I took photos of my clitty in chastity and email to a Mistress and she enjoyed it. I am no longer on any chat sights as a naughty sissy because I got booted from all of them. I save my sexual naughty activities for real life as I don’t have a sex life as a man.
Oh yeah social media can be tricky when showing below the waist nudity.
often times Miss Olivia my mouth has gotten me in trouble
This practice is new and fascinating to me, and I have a few questions:
1. Can locking my penis up actually ….
(the rest of these questions will be a blog in No Nut November so look for this!)
GREAT questions!
In fact, I think these questions and answer might end up in a future podcast. This would be perfect for The Weekly Hot Spot BDSM kink podcast.
Of course we love Locktober — and for chastity fans who want more, it can and often does lead right into No Nut November!
Can you stand it?
grins
Thank you, beautiful Ms. Olivia! I’ll be looking for them and listening to your podcast as always.
That’s fantastic, thank you so much …!
so, for me it all started as some kind of joke and having fun when i bought my first pink plastic chastity cage in locktober 2021. My thoughts were, let’s give it a try and we’ll see how it turns out.
But soon enough i discovered it was realy what i’ve wanted and even needed to make my feminin feelings, i’m a pre-op M2F by the way, even stronger. after one month or so i asked myself why i have waited so long to be in chastity.
from that moment i’ve been in chastity 24/7 and replaced my plastic cage with a stainless steel ‘sissy keeper’ cage.
offcourse it only comes off for cleaning every week or milking within 30 seconds every two months.
i’m a very happy sissy right now and people noticed i became more relaxed and less stressfull. only thing i need right now is a very sexy and understandable female keyholder.
I’m so happy that YOU are a happy sissy!
I always tell people that chastity isn’t for everyone … but those who do like it REALLY love it!
Oh oh oh …. did you know that Ms Erika and I do a BDSM kink podcast called The Weekly Hot Spot?
We have lots of topics … some that will apply to you and others that won’t but you might find interesting … check out the Sissy Chastity episode and tell me what you think?
Miss Olivia . Get out of the cold ????❄️???????? and come to Florida when it warms up here
And to think all my sissificitation started with seeing a Magazine Enslaved Sissies with art work by Bruce Baker
Please Google this and see if his art work makes you pretty pussy wet
OH! Thank you, I just found it.
Say, are you familiar with Christine? Lots of sissy and coerced feminization art.
I am going to put myself in chastity right now( after breakfast and a dose of home made cough syrup and take my pain bills & vitamins & sissy pills because I just read about the circle ⭕ of Olivia’s
Cock Suckers.
C O O C S
Then I will post on Miss Rachel blog about soaking and tell her I have been gaaping in anticipation of a soaking from her strap on.
Ohhhhhh nice!
I know we both want to hear all about it!
I am in the process of checking in out
OOOOOOH OLIVIA I just listened to this Sissy Chastity episode & you Misstress are brilliant. Submissive Trans Woman is what fits me now. (S T W. ) Your brilliant Ms. E K A is Smart . Harper is knowledge. So many aspects of my rabbit hole Trans pathway are correctly stated. Chastity mmm ???? I put myself in Chastity so I should determine when in or out. Well when doing the man house work myself chastity cage would be cause damage. I do make the sandwiches . I used to make samwhitches for MEKA (;
Misstress Erika) on Twitter until I got booted.and I think I showed a lot of photos there. I also used to make sandwiches for homeless people . I would make 3 loaves of bread peanut butter and jelly .every Sunday after Church . Of course I did this in male mode. My trans sissy persona would be temporaryly muted . Feel free to share this post with MEKA Harper & any other Enchanted Entrantrix Empire Misstress that I have had commented with. ????????????????????????????????⛱️⭕????????????????????????????????????????????????⛱️????????????❄️⛱️????????????????????????all of the emojis are well thought out????????????????????????
OH OH OH now tell me more.
so you did think of yourself as a sissy before and after listening to the podcast, you now see yourself as trans. Do I have that right?
I was trans actually before sissy . Originally a Lipstick ???? Lesbian Crossdresser then liked it so it much I started to be Trans .The realization set in and it’s just too late in life to make a full successful transition so for sexual activity and excitement sissy was desirable yes for all intentions I am trying to be a woman
You are not alone in that journey and realization.
What kinds of things sparked various realizations of yours?
People especially women you Misstress Olivia ,MEKA , Hunter ,Harper, Miss Scarlett caption photo I know you have a little dick. Misstress Brighton & Misstress Brittany’s legs &
white panties Empress Alexis and her tits big so well endowed in comparison to my under endowment The Enchanted Entrantrix Empire Woman’s vocal love of big DICK &BIG COCKS contributes to my submissive behavior and makes me want be one of the girls
Amber pulling on her nipples ???? I emulate this and do before sucking a man’s dick. Also pull my nipples sitting on the toilet seat and when driving a car.Alina Sky Daphne so wanting my body to look like hers ( could be a possibility or something similar to Brighton’s sun ☀️???? tan Body/ Miss Lena ‘s yellow ???? ???? dress & her in her blog telling me to suck a dick. sexxy Rachel/ Constance and her caption Misstress Willows blog my dicklet hid like a turtle head with her vocal humiliation and other Enchantrix Mistresses etc also years of being on Internet with
a T S Profile on Moco Space where I sat on a butt plug and had a sissygasm look ing at my own ass photo Face Book profiles of being Booted from & Twitter Profiles Trans Porn Star Natalie Mars & Her friend with a Dick sharing a double Header dildo which did not survive the last real world ???? purge. now a new plan has risen. stay tuned because it just might wet your Panties also.