I love fall! Don’t you? The air begins to feel crisp and cool. Some of you get the thrill of October baseball. It’s Honeycrisp apple season. And …. best of all …. it’s Locktober!  Do you know what that means? It’s Locktober chastity time! If you’ve never participated in Locktober, I highly encourage you to give it a try, even if you don’t do it for the entire month.

If one month locked up seems daunting, don’t worry. Honestly, if you’ve never been in chastity before, I don’t actually recommend going for the whole month. Maybe just try it a few days here and there with my assistance.

But if you do have experience with chastity already, I’m willing to help you stay locked up for the entirety of Locktober. It just depends on your level of experience and your level of comfort with male chastity.

Why Is Locktober Chastity Important?

Locktober chastity is very important because it brings chastity to the forefront and often allows the curious to explore a little bit. And the exploration is quite important, too, because even if it turns out you don’t actually enjoy chastity, you’ve learned something new about yourself. And life is all about learning new things, about the world, and about yourself!

Of course, Locktober chastity is also important for other reasons. One of those reasons is the temperament of the male submissive. For the right person, chastity can really increase submissive feelings. I can tell you from my own experience that if I lock someone up in chastity, that subby almost instantly becomes even more submissive.

Some may say it’s manipulation. They might argue that chastity makes someone hornier because they know they’re not allowed to do whatever they want, anytime they want. Therefore, they act more submissive in order to (hopefully) be released from chastity to get that much-sought after orgasm.

But I know this isn’t true.

Many Subs Prefer To Stay Locked In Chastity

The most damning evidence against the argument that the submissiveness chastity induces is simply manipulation is that many subs actually prefer to stay locked in chastity. They don’t want to be let out. They enjoy being locked up and denied.

TBDSM kink podcast The Weekly Hot Spot chastity Locktoberhis is probably because these subs know that their Domme’s true power is reinforced in a chastity situation. Having control over a man’s cock is a powerful thing. Knowing that the cock control is entirely in my hands is a potent aphrodisiac for a woman, even if she doesn’t realize the full extent of her dominant power.  You really should listen to the BDSM kink podcast that I do with Ms Erika.  Start with the episode called:  How do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity?  Ms Erika and I both LOVE and recommend Mature Metal chastity cages.

Did you hear how excited chastity makes the dominant woman?  Personally, it makes me, for example, feel very sexy and sexual. And the more sexual I am, the more the chaste sub desires me, which in turn causes the chastity to be even more potent and effective! It’s win- win for us both!

Exploring Your Chastity Desires

So if you’ve been curious about chastity, Locktober is the perfect time to explore those desires. Locktober chastity with me is all about seeing what works for you. If you’ve never done it before, we can take baby steps! If you have, we can work on extending your time in chastity to see how that goes for you.

If you’ve been playing around with orgasm denial and enjoying it, chastity might just be the next logical step for you. At the very least, it’s something you could consider trying. If you happen to like it, then great! You’ve discovered a new kink! If not, also great. You’ve tried something and decided it wasn’t for you.

So, guys, are you going to be doing Locktober chastity with me? I sure hope so! I love being a keyholding Mistress, so if you would like to discuss it further, why not give me a call? I would love to hear your thoughts on the subject of Locktober chastity! And if you don’t have thoughts you can simply moan, gasp and beg, that’s fun too!

Your Experienced Mistress,

Ms Olivia