I love fall! Don’t you? The air begins to feel crisp and cool. Some of you get the thrill of October baseball. It’s Honeycrisp apple season. And …. best of all …. it’s Locktober! Do you know what that means? It’s Locktober chastity time! If you’ve never participated in Locktober, I highly encourage you to give it a try, even if you don’t do it for the entire month.
If one month locked up seems daunting, don’t worry. Honestly, if you’ve never been in chastity before, I don’t actually recommend going for the whole month. Maybe just try it a few days here and there with my assistance.
But if you do have experience with chastity already, I’m willing to help you stay locked up for the entirety of Locktober. It just depends on your level of experience and your level of comfort with male chastity.
Why Is Locktober Chastity Important?
Locktober chastity is very important because it brings chastity to the forefront and often allows the curious to explore a little bit. And the exploration is quite important, too, because even if it turns out you don’t actually enjoy chastity, you’ve learned something new about yourself. And life is all about learning new things, about the world, and about yourself!
Of course, Locktober chastity is also important for other reasons. One of those reasons is the temperament of the male submissive. For the right person, chastity can really increase submissive feelings. I can tell you from my own experience that if I lock someone up in chastity, that subby almost instantly becomes even more submissive.
Some may say it’s manipulation. They might argue that chastity makes someone hornier because they know they’re not allowed to do whatever they want, anytime they want. Therefore, they act more submissive in order to (hopefully) be released from chastity to get that much-sought after orgasm.
But I know this isn’t true.
Many Subs Prefer To Stay Locked In Chastity
The most damning evidence against the argument that the submissiveness chastity induces is simply manipulation is that many subs actually prefer to stay locked in chastity. They don’t want to be let out. They enjoy being locked up and denied.
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his is probably because these subs know that their Domme’s true power is reinforced in a chastity situation. Having control over a man’s cock is a powerful thing. Knowing that the cock control is entirely in my hands is a potent aphrodisiac for a woman, even if she doesn’t realize the full extent of her dominant power. You really should listen to the BDSM kink podcast that I do with Ms Erika. Start with the episode called: How do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Ms Erika and I both LOVE and recommend Mature Metal chastity cages.
Did you hear how excited chastity makes the dominant woman? Personally, it makes me, for example, feel very sexy and sexual. And the more sexual I am, the more the chaste sub desires me, which in turn causes the chastity to be even more potent and effective! It’s win- win for us both!
Exploring Your Chastity Desires
So if you’ve been curious about chastity, Locktober is the perfect time to explore those desires. Locktober chastity with me is all about seeing what works for you. If you’ve never done it before, we can take baby steps! If you have, we can work on extending your time in chastity to see how that goes for you.
If you’ve been playing around with orgasm denial and enjoying it, chastity might just be the next logical step for you. At the very least, it’s something you could consider trying. If you happen to like it, then great! You’ve discovered a new kink! If not, also great. You’ve tried something and decided it wasn’t for you.
So, guys, are you going to be doing Locktober chastity with me? I sure hope so! I love being a keyholding Mistress, so if you would like to discuss it further, why not give me a call? I would love to hear your thoughts on the subject of Locktober chastity! And if you don’t have thoughts you can simply moan, gasp and beg, that’s fun too!
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
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My goodness Ms Olivia I cannot even describe how glad I am that chastity has become my new abnormal. Sure, I get why a guy doesn’t want
his cock locked away and inaccessible.
Now let’s look at me. (I KNOW you have Ms Olivia!🤭🤏)
I can’t say that I actually have one!
Of course locking up my …oops, Mistress Erika’s little peanut is a must. Every waking hour I am fettered and frilled and thrilled to do so for my Mistress.
I do see myself in that category of sub who wants to remain locked. Since I’ve learned I can dribble while caged it seems pointless to remove my little security blanket!
Mistress is very generous with her pet.
It’s quite exciting to hear how Mistress’s ownership of what’s in my cage, however meagre, pleases and also excites her!
This is the month lads, if you’ve never tried this, heed Ms Olivia and submit to your chastity desires. Locktober? It’s no trick, it’s a treat!
Thanks Ms Olivia❤️ Maybe I will wear my little salt shaker tomorrow cuz I know it made you chuckle!
OMG calling that tiny dick a lil salt shaker …. EPIC!
hahahahahahaha
you do have a way with words!
Thank you!
Ms Olivia…how long is it medically possible to blush?🤭🤏. Well…ya gotta call ‘em as ya can’t see ‘em!
laughs and laughs and laughs
well, you’ve apparently been blushing for years — so it’s a LONG TIME!
oh oh Im lock for ever not just Locktober, blushes
Ohhhhhh are you?
How long?
Goddess O:
I’ve been locked up for approximately 2 and a half years and have loved 🥰 every minute of it. From the first day I was locked up I knew it was the perfect place to be and yes it has made me feel more submissive and feminine. I recommend it for all sissy subbies.
Sissy Jizzelle
You are a fantastic example of just how submissive and feminine being in chastity can make you feel.
Not just feel that way in the moment but also want to be MORE feminine and submissive.
And look! You have the perfect partner don’t you?
See?
Mistress always knows what’s best!
Fall is awesome as I can wear bras/c cup breaks forms underneath my sweaters/along boots/panties/leggings!!! I’ve never done chastity before-but it’s hot seeing sissies in bras/panties/heels locked up by hot women like you!!!
Speaking of locking — you’d be super fun in a locking maids dress! Ohhhhh how cute is that for any sissy or subbie girly girl?!?
how fun!
Hello, Ms Olivia, I think every single call I have ever done with you ended up with me wearing a chastity belt and a pair of ladies knickers! And so, to answer the question in the title of this blog, yes, Ms Olivia, you have me completely cock-locked!! I should probably sign off with ‘Yours securely’!!
laughs and laughs
Henceforth every chastity pet must sign off with “Yours securely” !!!
That’s a great line.
Yes, Ms Olivia, yes ma’am, your orders are noted and will be obeyed. I will sign off all correspondence with you as ‘Yours securely’!
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Yours securely …. hmmmmmmm you could even change that around ….
what else might you say?
I’m thinking perhaps something about tumbling down the stairs to the basement.
Dear Ms Olivia, I can see that you really do relish judo-flipping me back down into the basement!!
I do thoroughly enjoy judo flipping you back into the basement.
Ms Hunter and I need to discipline you again!
Wow Mistress Olivia, I never heard of mature metal chastity cages. I just don’t think permanent chastity is do able especially if the male is a virgin.
As I’ve said … I’m not sure permanent male chastity would be the way to go for a virgin … but, then again, it depends on the person and our relationship.
Oh yes!!!! It is so I keep focused on my femininity. I want to be a complete woman at least in my mindset for our wedding.
xxxxxxc
Yvonne
nods — chastity DOES help with reinforcing your feminine journey AND, of course, focusing your mind on the proper things.
Yes Mistress Olivia, I am in chastity for Locktober and beyond.
Mistress Tia was kind enough to allow me a release at the end of September after only 14 weeks of chastity. She usually makes me go longer and I was very appreciative that She allowed me a release so soon. She has been in charge of my orgasms for years now and I am very happy to be Her chastity pet.
I’m bummed I missed your release from chastity by Ms Tia. We just couldn’t get the time organized fast enough. That said, I’m thrilled you have a fantastic chastity Mistress and are now back locked up!
I was in chastity I had a pink chastity cage but now I am so limp and tiny and would need to get one of those flat nub devices. I am hoping one of my female neighbors will have me in panties and put me in chastity
Those little nub chastity cages are perfect for a sissy!
My clitty has shrunk to a 1/2 inch.
No longer able to fill my tiny 🩷 pink chastity cage. So last night I googled Tiny penis Sissies in chastity and found a site for micro penis chastity devices so I ordered the device that is called The Eunuch so I will be able to have a Happy Locktober
Awwwww, sissy is so tiny even a small chastity cage isn’t small enough.
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I love the look of The Eunuch chastity cage … when do you get it?
I’d love a report once you wear it for a bit.
I wear the Eunuch or similar
It has a large ring and the flat front so the clitty is back inside me .I wear at the beach to feel more submissive. Women often 😊 😁 smile at me and I wonder if they know or secretly laughing about my clitty ””⁵
Those flat-front chastity cages are very popular for sissies, especially those who want to shrink their clitty.
Shrinking my clitty is exactly what I am doing without hormones. Mistress Hunter recommended soy products. I have hair growth slowed down on legs and skin is softer and penis is shrinking.I can fit in S(3-5) women’s thong panties
Ms Hunter is correct and soy products – natural estrogen – plant estrogen is similar to human estrogen.
would you like a picture?
I always tell people to save the photos for a session, that way we can share the interest together.
I’d love to do that with you at some point.
I think 🤔 I got 2 months ago
ordered a flat chastity cage without a 🔒. This one has a 7 mm nut head machine screw that bolts the cage instead of a 🔒.lock Since I can’t get a 🗝️ hold er 😭😞 or could never find a woman to actually put me physically in chastity. Even though numerous women on the Internet who have seen my clitty told me I belong in women’s panties and chastity. I purchased a longer 7 mm machine screw that makes easier to attach the flat plate to the ring
You know that we do long-distance keyholding, right?
Did you work with a Mistress here?
This practice is new and fascinating to me, and I have a few questions:
1. Can locking my penis up actually ….
(the rest of these questions will be a blog in No Nut November so look for this!)
GREAT questions!
In fact, I think these questions and answer might end up in a future podcast. This would be perfect for The Weekly Hot Spot BDSM kink podcast.
Of course we love Locktober — and for chastity fans who want more, it can and often does lead right into No Nut November!
Can you stand it?
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Thank you, beautiful Ms. Olivia! I’ll be looking for them and listening to your podcast as always.
That’s fantastic, thank you so much …!
so, for me it all started as some kind of joke and having fun when i bought my first pink plastic chastity cage in locktober 2021. My thoughts were, let’s give it a try and we’ll see how it turns out.
But soon enough i discovered it was realy what i’ve wanted and even needed to make my feminin feelings, i’m a pre-op M2F by the way, even stronger. after one month or so i asked myself why i have waited so long to be in chastity.
from that moment i’ve been in chastity 24/7 and replaced my plastic cage with a stainless steel ‘sissy keeper’ cage.
offcourse it only comes off for cleaning every week or milking within 30 seconds every two months.
i’m a very happy sissy right now and people noticed i became more relaxed and less stressfull. only thing i need right now is a very sexy and understandable female keyholder.
I’m so happy that YOU are a happy sissy!
I always tell people that chastity isn’t for everyone … but those who do like it REALLY love it!
Oh oh oh …. did you know that Ms Erika and I do a BDSM kink podcast called The Weekly Hot Spot?
We have lots of topics … some that will apply to you and others that won’t but you might find interesting … check out the Sissy Chastity episode and tell me what you think?