The cuckold dilemma
Listen to me read you this cuckold blog post.
I talk with a lot of people. I love it when someone calls with a cuckold confession. Oh sure, it can be super hot and sexy but other times it’s serious. Some men find this erotic play emotionally difficult. Make no mistake, it isn’t “easy” when your wife tells you that you can’t provide the sexual release she needs. You might have pretended that things are fine in that department, but when she needs someone other than you — you have to face the fact that you don’t measure up as a man. Being a cuckold is humiliating … and yet, you are here because it is also exciting.
You do want your hot wife happy.
Your wife or your girlfriend. The woman you love. The woman who might even love you. How do you feel when she says she needs to have a lover or a variety of lovers. Maybe you have a small penis. Does penis size matter? Short (literally) answer — YES IT DOES! But, that’s not all. Maybe you are a quick shooter and cum so fast you’re barely inside her. Whatever the reason and even if you know the reason is accurate, it can hurt to be turned into a cuckold.
Tell Mistress how you feel
How did you feel the first time she made you her cuckold? I know there are lots of feelings swirling around. Tell Me about the conflicting emotions because part of the conflict is the fact that it is also arousing….your dick, no matter how small, is rock hard isn’t it?
Your Experienced Mistress,
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The reality of a fantasy is more complicated than the fantasy itself. Though I have no experience being cuckolded everything I’ve read tells me it takes a lot of work and communication for a relationship to survive with the male being cuckolded. Communication sounds simple enough but it is extremely difficult for a couple to master.
You’re right Stephanie … and cuckolding is like anything in the alt sex, kink sex or fetish community …. communicate, communicate, communicate! The games are tons of fun … but only with a foundation of clear, open, honest communication.
I had never thought of myself as a “total cuckold” and not long ago did not even know the words meaning.
I have however been around girls and women my whole life and heard them talk about their desire for and respect of “big ones”. It is sort of painful and off setting but you hear it – over and over. Not “just” from one woman but from women in general. I think you have to somehow accept it. I think there is something in men that wants women happy – almost no matter what. I think you sort of suspect who you are and she probably does too.
~laughs~ NOW you’ve got it little mikey !!!!!!! ~laughs~
So funny, Ms Olivia, I had never considered the feelings of the “poor cuckold”. I only felt for the long suffering sexually frustrated woman who was finally getting what she needed when she went out and found her well hung bull…I suppose those cuckolded men have feelings too. *snicker*
laughs …. that’s right Ms Rayne … awww poor cuckold, they might have feelings but should we care. Hey that might be another blog post! 🙂
If I might, respectfully, I’d suggest that cuckolds do indeed have feelings. A confused constellation of feelings swirling around making rational judgment pretty much impossible.
((( a delightful and very thoughtful cascade of words that thrill me so much that I’m going to use them in future blog posts and leave my comments on the blogs — look for these))
But of course, all of this is pure speculation. I really have no experience in the matter. None. Never ever crossed my mind, I just want to be sure you don’t get the wrong idea here.
Oh, and Mistress … I’m having trouble matching up to your call schedule but I really think you’re going to like the panties I bought. They’ve been in my drawer for quite awhile now waiting for our next call. They’re for my girlfriend of course …
I love your thoughtful blog comments …. this comment has so much MEAT in it that I’ve got to highlight this in a blog (or several) and do specific comments there …. but here’s a quick comment since you inspired me to consider meat … a cuckold doesn’t meet expectations and therefore there might be a meeting of the minds but not loins … that is left for a Real Man, a Superior Man a Man’s Man.
That’s also why you’re in panties! We can always schedule an appointment if you like 🙂 My workout schedule changed to mornings outside since it’s pretty out but we can work around that in an email.