Most people in our kinky community are initially brought together by phone sex or a specific sex fetish like Femdom cock control or crossdressing. The sex stuff might get you here, but for many, the sense of community is what keeps you here. Me too!
Now, let’s be real. Even the Experienced Mistress has bills to pay and goals to achieve. So, the session part of this IS My career. I get the calls; I take care of business so I don’t worry about that on the blog or free IM chats. But, what you get HERE on the blog isn’t about *business*. These posts and our conversations bring My passions (personal, business and experience) together. I like the blog comments and taking time to have a conversation with you here! THIS is MY community too.
Our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire, was created for the community around the LDW phone sex business. The Empire, as we call it, is free. It was created because Ms Ally wanted to say thank you to all of the people who are in our community. AND, give us an outlet/opportunity to interact as a community.
One of My favorite Mistresses is Ms Layla. She is a spot on professional with calls as you can see in this post about getting to hot sex in phone sex. Personally, she’s great to work with and a straight up individual, I like that. She has a fantastic comment about about our unique world in the “What is community” thread on EE.
Ms Layla’s take on the Empire!
“I’ve often thought of EE as a sanctuary, a classroom and a circus all in one place. Sanctuary for people who’s pleasures lay a little left of center, classroom as we all learn from each other daily and a circus as we do our level best to keep each other entertained.”
Now that comment flat out makes Me laugh! She really sums it up doesn’t she? It’s the sense of someplace safe and warm yet also quirky and kinky. This combines to be very welcoming and even a nurturing space inside of all the kink naughtiness. Alice left the sweetest comment about that!
For several years now, I have been checking out the various LDW sites – usually with long periods in between, never calling because I never knew what things would really be like.
Last time I checked out the site, end of June, I saw there was an actual community, a place where I could find out what others who have the same type of fetishes are like. Not fetish groups such as this one really add to that community feeling. That so many of the Mistresses are involved and welcoming has really made a difference. Standard web forums just don’t do it. Not for me.
I love that sentiment! So, if you’re looking for a kinky community, check out Enchantrix Empire. We’ve just past the 3,000th member and we’re celebrating! It’s totally free and lots of fun. If you want a sex session that’s available and you’re an adult, you know what to do, but I wanted to take a moment to reassure you that The Empire is a actual community…..it’s not set up as simple a place to tell you to do sessions.
Okay, that was BLUNT! ~laughs~ Let’s get some reactions going on THIS post 🙂 while I answer your comments from the last post.
Like many folks, I have a very busy and compartmentalized life with a community of friends and family, a business community and our kinky community. They are all very important to me. Our kinky community is filled with interesting people who come to learn, explore, share, support, encourage and entertain. It is a warm and safe place. I’m glad I found it and just wish I had more time to spend there.
Awwwww, Jamie…..I could not have said that better! I love when you do have a minute to spend with us 🙂
The community was *nominally* created to cater to the LDW community brought together by a mutual love of phone sex ….. but, it’s WAY more than that, which is one of the reasons I enjoy it soooooooo much! I get book and music recommendations which is a way to My kinky heart! ~laughs~ Turn on My mind and you’ve got ME!
THANK YOU for taking your time to post 🙂
“Sanctuary for people who’s pleasures lay a little left of center.”
Frankly Ms. O that’s info I could have used several days ago. Too late for me but if you can save just one other poor Libertarian bastard, this great post shall not have been in vain.
Actually if you just love music you should join. It’s like a kinky Pandora with lots of great suggestions for new music discovery.
And it is kinky.
There’s currently a poll about making love to baked goods. Not kidding.
So now I got this hot fantasy clanking around in my head involving Sara Lee, Dolly Madison and Little Debbie. Correct me if I’m wrong Ms. O, but we can include Little Debbie in the delicious 5 way action as long as we clearly state on the phone that she’s 18 or older and she’s actually my stepsister.
Sweet.This is going to rock.
Prepare to put a couple of pounds Ms. O.
Hank you are such a silly poster….and you know I love it. In fact, you’ve given Me an idea for a wicked naughty erotic humiliation session! ~laughs~ Baked goods INDEED !
Actually I lied Ms. O. That place sucks but I’m trying to be a positive force in the world. Plus I don’t want to ruin your blog as you are an awesome writer. And I’m sure the Empire is very popular.
I always admire your bluntness so here is my “not going to get approved but how I really feel” comment.
My favorite part of the Empire was (( political stuff ))
Very welcoming. Very tolerant. Not to mention that the thought process behind said misogyny didn’t reach a level that would be acceptable on a 1974 rerun of Hee Haw.
Here’s an idea:
You guys ought to put that stuff on the front page of your LDW website, so all those(((more political stuff))).
Then the new corporate slogan at LDW could be “I’m available”
Have a great week and let me know if I win anything for “suggestion of the month.
its precisely this sense of “community” that keeps me around, Ms. Olivia. i love the in depth conversations You spawn here just as much as i love the foolishness W/we seem to generate on Twitter, lol. its a matter of a time & a place for everything under the sun. i haven’t conversed (somehow) with every Lady, but enough of them to be continually impressed with EE.
i’ve only managed on phone call & that was in the late spring. that hasn’t impacted the acceptance i feel here & i’m certain, that when prospects do change, my calling habits will too!
@ coffeeboy Thanks ! 🙂 You know I like the smart along with the silly. The sweet along with naughty! I like the ALL of it! 😉
ah Ms. Olivia, dealing with You is like experiencing an intellectual potpourri!
awwww, thanks coffeeboy!
Hi MsOlivia! I very much agree with You on all points here. I think the internet in general has brought people together in no way like it before in history. Suddenly we have a way to find that hey, we’re not all alone in our kinks and fetishes. There are others like us. EE goes a step further than that by going out of the way to be an accepting “home” for all. A place where we can all be ourselves and get to know people better, to laugh with them, to ask questions and share things. A true community.
*nods* exactly magnus! And it’s got the best of community….the ALL of it!
Note to self. Super-secret message feature to Miss O apparently does not work. Next time use invisible ink.
((( all sorts of stuff that might or might not be private )))
Anyway, you still rock Ms. O. Keep writing!
And no I don’t have a freaking clue why I invested any of my life-force is this matter.
Probably just batshit crazy.
Dropping pants and heading for door.
erm…….I’m pretty sure I know who this is….and, you know I ADORE your sense of humor…..so, I was assuming you were joking. But, now I’m not so sure. Can you please clarify this? Did you experience a problem with EE? Are you kidding around are trying to tell me about a problem. Please send me a direct email …. olivia AT enchantrixempire.com
THANKS!
Hi Ms. O,
Hank the Troublemaker just sent you an email.
On a more positive note, I noticed there were 8 LDW mistresses hard at work cranking out the spankings before 8am central this morning. If we all follow their lead as motivated, productive American entrepreneurs the economy should grow and that zillion dollar deficit should start going down.
~laughs~ Yeah Hank! They should turn the LDW Mistresses loose on Congress and we’ll get things ship shape in sort order! Oh wait…….never mind……~laughs~ …. you inspire SUCH naughty thoughts! HUGS ! Look in your email, I sent you back an email right away 🙂
This is an interesting post. I never knew what to expect with the community, but I have found it is an incredible place with amazing people who share similiar interests to me, and who have at one point in time been labeled “not normal” when in fact we are normal just different. When I first called I called because I wanted phone sex. I have to say something interesting has developed. The last 5+ hours I have spent with a certain Mistress have not been at all about phone sex. I have found that she is an incredible woman in so many more aspects that just phone sex. And I know she takes a ton of calls a day that mostly deal with phone sex, I want our calls to be different. I want to put a smile on her face more than I feel the need to pleasure myself. Making her happy makes me happy 🙂 I really never expected that at all from calling a phone sex hotline.
That’s a GREAT point Matty! We certainly ARE different. That’s a wonderful way to put it. You’ve taken it totally outside of the “normal/not normal” standard which is moralistic and just plain not workable. I love that! Thank you so much for writing and you’re also right…..the Mistress is MUCH more than merely phone sex. We are counselor, confident, friend, playmate and much much more….which is what you’ve found out, isn’t that so? I’m thrilled you’re here in the comments community!
Well the ladies at LDW are just fabulous…especially you Ms. Olivia. Thank you so much for being there for us 🙂
Thank you so much Matty! The LDW Ladies really are amazing, aren’t we? I have made true friends here! While I got into phone sex as a fluke, it’s the quality of the Ladies, our community and My callers that keeps Me coming back…..oh and that keeps YOU cumming. (~laughs~ that pun simply HAD to be said!)