Mistress knows when you need to be a sissy in chastity
Sometimes, a Woman in Charge REALLY needs to take charge. I get excited when I have a smokin’ hot, sexy, and slutty sissy in chastity. We can do so many things as your feminization training goes to the next level.
What will you do for your Mistress?
The conversation about whether you are ready for chastity is fun and intimate. You’ll hear some of the considerations in our BDSM podcast, The Weekly Hot Spot: Chastity Interview with Mature Metal. Think of all this as foreplay!
I might lock you up as part of your sissy training. Remember, chastity is just like any other kink play – it can be sweetly sensual to mean or cruel depending on the Mistress, the scene and the goal.
No matter how others do their chastity program, yours will be unique. One thing that is common to most chastity pets is that they are encouraged to focus on the things that really matter.
Turning this part of yourself over to the woman in your life is a tangible expression of your words when you say you’re a submissive. This also deepens the bond between a pretty girl in feminization training and her Mistress. MY special sissy in chastity says:
“I feel more submissive towards my Mistress and in general. I’m willing to do more for her and in that way put her needs before my own.”
This is the challenge and joy of being locked up. Make no mistake about it, if it were easy it wouldn’t be a challenge. Being challenged is a huge part of experience. Sometimes orgasm denial will make you sad, but praise and encouragement from your Mistress will help you.
This is elite BDSM power exchange. Chastity might be the ultimate in submission, especially when this is combined with sissification. This sissy is smart and reflective. These are perfect questions to ask your Mistress.
“From time and time I do ask myself why I do it because who doesn’t like to orgasm and cum?”
What’s wrong with me to like being sexually denied?
Ahh, my dear, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you or your feelings. This is the paradox of BDSM and kink. Sometimes I ask myself how I can be a mean or cruel Mistress in a scene when I’m a kind, loving person. Personally, I think these kinds of insights are part of what make BDSM so much fun. (The clothes are fucking hot too.)
Locktober and expectations
Locktober was originally created to mean a challenge to stay cock locked for the 31 days of October. Some will say it’s cheating to go less than 31 days. I’m not that limiting.
There will be some that are just starting their chastity journey, have home or work commitments that mean the cage has to come off, or some other valid reason. I follow the intention of the challenge. For some of you, staying locked for a week will be a huge accomplishment (unless you’re into SPH, then it will be a small accomplishment).
What are YOU doing for Locktober?
I love how far we have come together ♥️ I love to be yours ♥️
We HAVE come a long way together — you always make me smile, laugh, think and …. mmmm …. more. xoxo
Being unable to find a woman to put me in chastity I put myself in chastity . I purchased a pink plastic cage in July and have worn this 24/7 since . Until a week or so ago I let myself out and started looking at various things on the internet. I fingered myself and jizzed 3 sometimes 4 times a day. I was so horny looking at cock!! I went to the hookup spot in the woods behind the beach looking for cock. Determined to suck one or two or more. I checked the guys out looking at their bulges . I seen a guy walking towards me . He was grabbing himself Michael Jackson style that is the signal for play . I was walking along pinching and pulling my nipples. We stopped and chatted and I felt his bulge . Nice dick. He felt my nipples and asked me to fuck him in the ass 19 year old virgin . I told him I was a limp sissy. We went to a more secure spot and I took his cock out and wanted to suck it but he sucked me first . I came in his mouth . Another man was watching . He signaled and the 19 year old waved him over. I came in the 19 year olds mouth . The other guy came over and the 19 year old was already on his knees and sucked him off . I had lost my desire to suck any more cock. When the other guy came I said thar she blows. The other guy left & we had a lengthy talk about ass fucking . I recommended toys. I have the urge to go to the other gay beach where men wear g strings and thongs it is quite isolated and things happen on the beach or in the woods and in the water.Reading this I put myself back in chastity. I want to go and play . The question is I am a sissy do I need to be in chastity ?
That’s a very exciting story. Hmmm, not sure about your question – I would say, you should ask your Mistress but you mentioned that you’re doing this on your own. I think if you enjoy doing what you’re doing – then continue doing that. Makes sense?
My question was confusing but I solved it by wearing my chastity cage to prevent a man from sucking me so I could suck his dick.
That’s a great point – when you’re in chastity you will be the cock sucker and not the cock suckee.
Do I need to be a sissy in chastity? Hmm…Well Ms Olivia, you’ve probably seen all you need to see of me to opine on that poser.
You know I need to be and I know I want to be. A key…(sorry) component in long distance chastity is that trust between Mistress and pet. Is sissy locking up as they say? My take is you only short change..(again with the double entendres?) yourself if you do not adhere to the rules.
Of course, here I type on a Saturday afternoon, caged and pantied with Mistress miles away just knowing I am. (I’m sure you know who I’m referring to!🤭)
What a satisfying feeling of submission.
Now last Locktober was epic for Mistress and me, but events this year have put a bit of a kink into our kink.
But…I am on my third (and smallest) cage, we call “Lock Less” and my sissy chastity journey is in good hands…or more accurately, “no hands”.
We do need to be tasked by Mistress, to earn our rewards.
Mine is each morning, when I lock up Mistress’s property and step into a cute pair of panties, gladly submitting to snort day of ownership.
I do know who you mean and you are in very “good hands” in that small small small cage.
Oh no…should read ”another day of ownership”. “Snort”? How did that happen?
How DID that happen lil peg?
I’m sure I don’t know…let me type it again….another.
Hmmm, nope, seems to work.
Must’ve been “Cage Fog”
That could be a thing.
It’s not my typing thumb…it’s not very big either!
hahahahahahah —- I love that term “cage fog” !! I haven’t heard that before but it really DOES ring true!
Well I love being in chastity. I have found out about the Fu Fu clip from Hunter and Rachel I have it ordered and so happy I found this life
The fu fu clip is AMAZING !! Did you get yours yet? I’d love to hear a review from a first time user.
I love the Fu Fu clip . It looks and feels like all the junk is gone and I have a pussy
So comfortable hides everything under panties. No bulge no more tucking. I haven’t had to suck cock wearing it yet.
I have sucked cock in chastity and loved it
Oh nice! Chastity helps … inspire … complete and total attention on your cock sucking.
Mistress,i love to be a sissy cocksucker and suck and swallow all of the juicy cum that YOU have!…..If YOU can, i beg You to take me as YOUR dirty sissy toilet pig and have YOU and all YOUR friends use me as their sissy whore!…….Thank YOU soo much!
LOL you sound like a dedicated and very HORNY sissy!
Open wideeeeeeeeee !!!!!
I finally admit I am a girl. A sissy. Totally. Chastity is the way for me to go all the way and start dating and pleasing men ! Also keep on my diet ! I will have no release until I get cock in my mouth from a real man and swallow the load ! That is my promise to myself and you ! I also want to get…effed and have him cum in me. I feel that accomplishes my goal of being as much girl as I can be. I so want it and need it and have been practicing ! I have had sissy cock in my mouth before but never let them cum in my mouth or at all. But now I need it and besides everyone knows I am a sissy and they think I am a gay cock lover sooo. I need to go all the way asap ! I’ll keep you posted and will beg my new man to take pictures of
Me performing using my phone for proof !
Keep me posted!
I have a question – when you had sissy cock in your mouth why did you say you didn’t let them cum in your mouth?
Do you lick up your own sissy cummies?
If you don’t – you should start cum eating training immediately!
You ladies live the life.. I heard you and Erika liking on the big cocks . Admiration but later Miss Olivia was talking them in silk panties lol next big locks on big chastity cage next shrinking them all 😂
LOL — we do have a very good time on our kinky podcast!
It is much better sucking cocks in chastity. I thought that having a little dicklet I would not get my dick sucked. But I have walked along the beach and would just see a guy sitting nude in a beach chair lower my panties near his face and he just opened his mouth and we didn’t even exchange email or anything. I do tell them about the Misstresses of Enchantrix Empire while getting a blow job
WOW that’s quite the story April Nicole!
I am looking forward to my next beach adventures
Right now it’s been a little cold to go to the beach. I am having numerous cock sucking fantasies about how the next cock will be like.I have always preferred smooth shaved and circumsized dicks.About 2 years ago I had worn some beach attire That was open in the rear
They were kina sexy. When I started to walking back from the beach I started to go through the woods behind the beach. That is where a lot of action is.There was a man quite dapper looking . He was focused on my ass with the cut out in the rest. He pulled down the front of his swim suit not revealing his cock. Just showing me the bunch of curly gray bushy hair sticking up above his.waist line
and I have to admit that I wanted To go back for some fun. I almost went back, And now I know maybe I should have went and tried the big hairy Dick. I have seen him at the beach ⛱️🏖️ numerous times. I have not exactly been with talking distance to him . Buy a pink g string and walking.up to him and asking him if he would like a blow job or asking him if i could suck his dick.
Which is my delema sucking his dick or giving him a blow job?⛱️🏖️😊🏖️
I don’t understand — I think of “sucking his dick” and “giving a blow job” as the same thing — are they different for you?
My delema is in asking the question to him . May i suck your dick? Or may i give you a blow job? Almost all the other times i have sucked cock i usually never ask. Almost every man there is looking for action either to suck or be sucked that is the question. Except for the newbies who haven’t ventured out yet but eventually will . Most give signals about giving or getting action hand signals like grabbing ones thing aka Michael Jackson style or pinching ones own nipples or stareing at the other mans cock or just slipping the g string or thong to the side and showing dick. You just never know who will suck or be sucked sometimes both returning favours but almost never 69 s
I love when things are “clear” but in reality much of what happens sexually (and in all kinds of interactions) is with intuition and getting the “feeling” that this or that will happen.
Does that make sense?