Acceptance as a crossdresser
Listen to my voice tell you about acceptance as a crossdresser.
Do you yearn for acceptance when you are en femme? If so, then you’re not alone. For the crossdresser who wants to share the experience with a woman, this is always the dilemma, isn’t it? When do you tell your partner? Should you tell your partner? And … of course … the biggest thing: IF you tell your partner, what will she say and do? I know this is the quintessential dilemma of a crossdresser.
For the lingerie wearing married man
This blog post is inspired by this quote I got in my blog comments:
“Most of us never opened up before we married making the revelations years later more difficult and for some of us its not just the dressing but the gender identity which adds to a SO (significant other) fears and concerns.
Today modern women are more open and aware so perhaps more accepting but in the older generation they had no more access to information then we did.”
Fetish experience versus gender identity
Your desire to talk with the woman in your life about the woman in YOUR life probably depends on a lot on whether you are wearing lingerie for the fetish sexual experience or if this is an expression of gender identity. Remember that gender identity, sex, fetish and arousal are usually fluid ways of being. At various times you might want to be a sissy or crossdresser … or you might consider yourself transgender.
Connection for all the girly girls
The internet gives us all a way to connect. That’s a good thing! You know you’re not alone. Our phone connection is also a way for us to connect. I DO adore my femme girls!
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Coming out of closet to my massuse was best thing I ever did! As stated in past calls she had questions if I liked guys/was gay and I honestly said no. Then she asked if I liked makeup/sleeping in lingerie and I said I did. Then she asked why I waited so long to come out and I told her I didn’t want her to dump me as client. She said she was non judgemental and was prone of me being honest & open. We had emotional moment where she said I must take care of myself and stay healthy. I said I would as there wasn’t dry eye. Then she asked if I like purses and I said yes. She then wanted to know if I wanted to buy old coach purse from her and I said I would. It cleared the air as we had girl talk. She noticed my maroon bra and said she had same bra in black from soma. After waxing she said she wanted to fit/measure me and that was a thrill as I had my panty on while she did this. Once she did this she told me to keep my bra on all weekend which I did. The following week she told me to come over to her place dressed/bring my lipsticks which I did. Once there she told me to go into her bathroom and try them on. I had red shade but with my skin complection it was orange. She said I need burgendy/red shade. After I did this she had me model 2 shoulder strap Michael kor purses in pink and brown which matched my outfit of leggings/women’s off white turtleneck sweater/wraparound scarf. She said I looked cute and adorable, then she took me into bathroom and sprayed me in Ralph Lauren midnight romance/romance perfumes layering it with same lotions. I told her being dressed up in lipstick/modeling purses/perfumes/lotions I look and smell like a girl and she said this is what I wanted and who I am. I agreed with her and we had lunch/great conversation. Since then we’ve gone to bar for drinks/conversation. She’s had me buy 4 more purses along with using same facial lotion as her. This past Friday she told me she had party with all women as she has clothing line and said she’s going to buy dresses and she wants me to do same. With this happening she’s accepted my crossdressing along with firmly digging her nails into me with no intention of letting me go. Even though she married I officially believe I’m her cream puff boy toy which I’m fine with as she can expose me now that she knows I like to wear women’s clothes/bras/lipstick. I will do what ever she wants. I’m
In long team/lifelong relationship with her. I’m so glad she’s accepting of my dressing and she wants to take it further by having me buy dresses and I’m sure she will want me to wear them for her. My life has changed forever as what I always wanted has finally happened. I’m her cream puff sissy girly boy toy forever.
Thanks for sharing that petey cream puff.
Oh my, this is such a tricky subject ((….))
I’ll post this in a blog post.
Oh sara, this is such an awesome comment! I have to highlight it in a special blog post.
Just curious Ms. O. Is the Puff available in Cliff Notes or A Reader’s Digest Condensed Version? P.S I sent you a giant red inflatable ball because nothing says “You Rock” like a giant red inflatable ball. Keep up the good work!
laughs and laughs and laughs … get out of my head!!!! laughs again
I imagine the modern enlightenment and open mindedness makes it much easier for today’s crossdresser to discuss their inclination with their female significant other. I definitely feel for those that had to suffer in silence in days past.
Thanks Ms Rayne ! YES! I feel the same … I think any kind of “outsider” has more options today … that said, the judgement of someone still stings.
Your Reehut Anti-Burst Core Exercise Ball was delivered to Ms. Ally’s mailbox on Friday. People may try to burst your bubble Ms.O but they will never be able to burst your ball.
laughs and laughs and laughs !!!!!!! You ALWAYS get me smiling! And, THANK YOU so very much! I do love a big red ball! Yeah, it’s for exercise. Yep! Already I’m looking at it thinking …. hmmmmmm …. but then again, I don’t want it sticky that way when I actually use it for exercise! Thank you and I will think about you when I’m using it 🙂