There are many pre-made chastity devices. You can buy various types, just go to any BDsm store and take a look around. If you’ve got money and time to burn then try a variety of devices and see what feels good ….. well, feels good in that “ohhhh, this feels bad but good” kind of Dominance/submission kind of way. This dance of desire is what makes a Femdom Mistress so very seductive.
My personal suggestion is to get a hand made cock cage that is fitted to your exact measurements. I like the options and customer service from Mature Metal. Plus, some of the cage names are wonderful! ~laughs~ Imagine just how excited you’ll be when you send in your penis measurements to order something called a Queen’s Keep, Pet Trap or Watchful Mistress! Aren’t those great names? You know that cock control is playful in a wicked sort of way. Chastity is just the logical extension of those games and bring you to the next level of extreme cock control.
So, to get the right size, you’ll need to take a variety of measurements. Obviously, don’t measure when you’re stroking your hard cock! Naughty boy! THAT is why Mistress puts a naughty stroker in chastity! For accurate measurements, your penis needs to be soft but not shriveled. Measure at different times of the day. When you report your measurements in your phone sex call with this Experienced Mistress I will make the final determination of what sizes you will order.
The measurements are from the base of the penis to the tip and the diameter. You will measure your diameter using something called chastity sizing rings. When we get you all measured there are a couple of options. I can ask you questions or you can show Me your cock and balls via skype when we’re doing a session. I’m making a decision on how big the gap between the rings will be. It can be anywhere from about 1/4 inch to 1/2 inch. I’ll tell you what gap size to get.
How are you feeling right now? ~laughs~ If you’re interested in being in chastity for a Mistress chances are your cock is hard and THAT, my dear, is why that naughty dick needs to be locked up!
~grinz~
Ms Olivia
This is very interesting advice, I don’t know that I’m ready for one, I’ve been thinking about one for a long time – I never really considered hand made, but that actually has a certain charm to it, having an actual craftsman do it to specification.
Thanks for writing Alice! I’m always very happy to be “helpful” …. ~grinz~ … and more!
YES Empress Olivia! You are absolutely right! I ordered the Queens Keep from them & They had the BEST help available! It does cost more but I wasted $ on premade devices 4 times & that would’ve paid for the custom made, perfect fit device. Mature Metal makes GREAT quality devices & I’m very happy to say that I’m a very proud owner! I also recommend Mature Metal to anyone; it’s absolutely worth it!!! Thank You again Empress Olivia. -Smiles-
Yes timm! You’re so right. Sometimes the ready made ones work just fine BUT when you want the best, why not GET the best! ~smiles~
I forgot to press how important the sizing rings are; Trust me, You WILL NEED THEM!! Speaking from experience. Sorry to post twice Empress Olivia. Please forgive me.
Thanks for posting that timm! Oh YES….sizing rings are VERY important. You don’t want your chastity device to be too tight (ouchie) or too lose (bouncy) …. but “just right.” ~smiles~ Tell Me all about being locked up and what it has meant to you (and yours).
Hi MsOlivia, definitely good information here should I ever actually take that leap into trying chastity rather than just thinking about it as I have. I totally agree on the Mature Metal. Their stuff is amazing. I heard them interviewed on The Weekly Hotspot with MsDelia and MsLayla a while back and I know they would take measurements over the phone to make sure all was correct. Of course their stuff is quite pricey so I don’t think it would be all that great for someone starting to dip his toe into being locked up. In fact price is kind of an object in general for a chastity newbie if he were to find out that it really wasn’t for him after all.
BTW it looks like comments are locked for Your wonderful boots post. I wanted to comment on that one (after a fair bit of squirming, I mean ;)) but could not.
Thanks for the heads up on the locked comments in the sexy boots post….I’m not sure why the comments got locked. I’m going to check with our Blog Mistress and correct that! I love to have comments appear even WAY after the fact! I bet it has something to do with a wordpress update.
You’re RIGHT about the Mature Metal and that being a pricey choice for a chastity newbie who might or might not like it. After all, this is NOT a sex toy that you can resell on ebay! LOL
Actually, you have given Me an idea about price cutting chastity advice! There is a way to be in chastity (sort of) without being in a cage. I’ll do that in a blog post! THANKS magnus, you’re always an inspiration!
I have actually done chastity without a cage. Although admittedly it was self imposed, I did not have any planned length of time for it and I did have some very compelling reasons for it at the time.
That’s great Forrest! A lot of people do self-imposed chastity for the experience of an increase in orgasm intensity. Is that one of the reasons you did it?
chastity is hot. I think its huge turn on how women can lock guys up. Even better if they dress then up in women’s clothes bras makeup lipstick. For me I’d love to have you do that Ms Olivia but I have no time, parents want me go go after girl who has seen me but I’ve never seen her and she’s from Greece. Wtf that makes no since what so ever. I’d love to do more calls but right now it can’t happen nor do I see it happening. As I said I’m 41 going on 4 with family. They don’t think I can take care if myself and need to get girl from Greece who I’ve never seen. I’m better shape then all of them and they want to get me hooked up. They get mad when I do what I want and say no. That what being single is all about freedom. I have it they don’t and that why they are like this. Now they want me to work everyday with no days off. If I can’t enjoy life neither should they or anyone else
Ah Peter, this sure doesn’t sound like My idea of a wonderful home life. Sending you gentle thoughts that your world improves.
Hello Empress Olivia, ask & you shal receive. Being in chastity has changed my life for the better; for example I can’t play with myself & when I’m allowed to, it is such a HUGE turn on for me! But I’m only allowed to wear it while at home; reason being I work hard & move alot, because of that I’ve had skin removed from the back of my sack. Now I’m healed & take chastity with more caution. I’m thankful I get to cum once in a while. We made rules & I MUST SAY,” We’re VERY HAPPY!!!” (Yes) she lets me call “Cock Control” & watches while learning!! I’ll be screwed in no time!! Lol Already edging my orgasms & having more ruined orgasms than pure orgasms. I love this life style!! ~wink~ Thank You Empress Olivia
YOU m’dear are DELIGHTFUL! I was still smiling after we got off the phone. I’m so glad we connected on the phone because you have a really wonderful way of describing the unique experience of being in chastity. I’m excited to read your comments and when I get back from My lovely trip, I’ll get the blog post up that you/your call inspired…Zen and the Art of Chastity. ~smiles~
Be good pet, I will ask for a report!
I’m done trying to meet women its to hard and to much work. I’m going to do my own thing and that is going to try to do more calls. Its better that way as you and other mistresses can do hot phone sex fantasies of dressing and turning me into a girl. Chastity is only matter if time. With you and other mistresses locking me up dressed as girl. Lots of other mistresses want to lock me up. How can I say no if you all have me dressed up. I just need to get card paid off and budget calls. There are so many hot mistresses to choose from that are hot and sexy that get me wet and hard and get me off that really has turned me into a chronic masterbater. Sounds like I’m set up for chastity because of that.
OH! I think chastity would be a very fun and interesting experience for you peter! ~winks~
Reading this made me ROCK HARD
~smiles~ Soooooooooo jake, are you ready for chastity? ~grinz~
Oh my yes! I’m going to get it ‘measured’ tomorrow Mistress
~grinz~ Good! Keep Me posted 😉