crossdresser en femme
I often post a blog for the girly girls here on my main blog, Some things will be fun stuff like the debate about stockings versus pantyhose for crossdressers. Other topics are more serious like issues about gender and loving a crossdresser.
Crossdressers and love
I think that finding love or a relationship that works is tough for anyone … I mean how many people have a perfect track record with relationships? Â When you add in sex, sexuality and kinky fetish fun then some people think it might be even harder to find a loving relationship. Â I disagree. Â I think when you tell someone your sexual secrets you weed out the people who aren’t going to be right for you in the long run anyway.
Feminization journey
How did you begin your feminization journey? Â Did a girlfriend decide to put you in panties? Â Are you a cuckold who ended up as a sissy cuckold? Â Are you a girl inside and you’ve always known that you need to wear women’s clothes to make sure that girly girl gets her time as well? Â Are you a woman — not matter what your body parts might say?
Sexuality and gender
Do your sexual fantasies change? Â Sometimes a particular scene makes me so fucking hot and then other times I want a different sort of fetish. Â Most people are like that, including femme girls (not matter your gender).
I’m curious about everything about you….tell me more!
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
I am not even sure if I am on a feminization journey or not.
Sometimes I am allowed to go about my ways as a man – sometimes I wonder how I how I got it the mess I am in.
‘The mess’, I find myself in is panties, stocking, garters, shaved legs and painted toe nails.
Somehow My Mistress bit by bit adds to my training (She uses chastity as well) until I am a dolled up slut for Her.
When I am a dolled up, aching, hungry slut we have a lot of fun and I am allowed release – with conditions.
Within days, I am hungry for more and more eager to be more of a slut for my Mistress.
I need ‘The Experienced Mistress’ to help me!!
Ohhhhh chastity will make a man willing and able to do anything for his Mistress! I would love to connect with you TeasedM.
I think I told you how I started but I’ll tell you again. There are 3 times that make me a cream puff sissy boy. ((( content removed by Ms Olivia ))) It was then I realized women have the power and I was helpless and weak.
Another time was (( content removed ))) Needless to at I was outnumbered and over powered.
The final time is what got me hooked forever. I was living with my room mate and his girlfriend. They were out of town and I had to do laundry but both machines were full. As I walked out I noticed bra in basket. I grabbed it as it felt so soft. It was 34d but I put it against my chest and went into bathroom and there was lipstick in there and I put it on. I was hot, wet and hard. I went into my room and got off. From that day on I bought bras/panties/makeup/perfume/lotions/dresses/heels/boots. That was 1998 and it’s been 17 years I’ve been dressing. I’m not going to purge as this is only way I get hard,wet and off. I’ve never had girlfriend but if I do she will have to know. How do I explain this? I think I should either get caught or come clean.
Peter, please keep all comments over the age of 18 ….. I think I’ve mentioned that before … so let me mention it one last time.
Great blog post Ms Olivia, Regardless of why a guy dresses up I enjoy it. It is amazing how many men know how to pick and match their panties and bras and pick out clothes that really fit their body type. They love the feel of silk and lace against their skin and have their own reason for why they dress up. Now lose the blue eye shadow and it just may be perfection
~laughs~ I agree Ms Cooper …. there are only a few people who can pull off blue eyeshadow. Maybe Katy Perry? Most crossdressers look silly in blue eyeshadow … but I’ve seen a naughty sissy pull it off! woah!
Yah I have never been able to figure out the blue eyeshadow. Has to be a 60s thing. Genetic women do not use the stuff. Subtle shades can make your eyes look amazing. As far as this being a journey well I kind of stopped at my wedding or prom depending on the day 🙂
xxx
yvonne
Well, genetic women tried blue eye shadow in what, the 60’s or the 70’s …. right? I think it’s kind of reminiscent of that stylized femininity of that time. ~laughs~
Probably something to do with Honey West lol!
Honey West! ~laughs~
Mimi on “The Drew Carey Show” rocked a mean blue eye shadow back in the day. Currently Jennifer Hudson, Heidi Klum, Taylor Swift and Jennifer Lopez have all sported blue eye shadow. Joan on “Mad Men” is a great example of the retro look from the 60’s.
Nicki Minaj wears it a lot.
(Hope this helps Ms. O. Trying to step up my game by keeping my comments more on topic.)
LOVE it John …. you’re so right that some women really CAN rock the blue eyeshadow.
Great insights on the transgender and girly girls who call us Ms. Olivia. I love your comment about honesty with your partner or potential partner. Weeding out the people who won’t or can’t accept us for who we are is as important as finding the right one. More important when you choose to include kink in your sexual repertoire.
Cross dressers, transgender and girly girls are so much fun to talk to, like you I love to hear their stories, especially the one that sparked their interest and started their journey.
The same can be said for those of us who do sex work … when I got together with my guy I HAD to have the conversation of ‘this is who I am sexually” because I do phone sex as a career. Hey, I had to have the conversation and it was still scary …. so I get it when the girls are scared, I really do.
OH! Do tell! ~smiles~