Do you sometimes feel like your hands are tied?Β Like you’re trying to get things done and you are wearing handcuffs?
I know the feeling!Β ~laughs~Β So, that’s what the old YIM name was doing so I have a new YIM name, EnchantrixOlivia.Β Please delete the old YIM name of empress.olivia.Β If you’d like to instant message with the Experienced Mistress, then please use EnchantrixOlivia.
Now we can both get into the FUN part of being bound up!Β Tell Me, do you enjoy being a knotty boy or are you more into simply being naughty? A little (or a lot) of cock teasing and cock control might be in your future.
And, to take the question just a little farther — because you know how I like to push boundaries — what is your *flavor* of naughty?Β What do you like to do on your phone sex calls?Β Are you a lovely sissy or crossdresser that yearns to be coerced into all sorts of wicked behavior?
Tell ALL to Mistress and we’ll…..ahem…..discuss!Β ~wink~
Ms Olivia
Hi MsOlivia!
Umm, well, yes, I love bondage. Not that I have been able to enjoy it as much as I’d like, but I do take what I can get. π Essentially it comes back to Our favored topic of power exchange. Letting someone tie me up is such a submissive feeling for me. Letting someone else do what She likes to me, giving up that control… talk about an intoxicating experience.
I guess I would have to say that I also like the feeling in general. That’s why I made those chainmaile cuffs I put up pics of on my EE page. They’re easy to put on and take off with the dogbone connectors. I’m also sure I look good trussed up in them, but darn it, I just can’t set the camera timer when I’m in them. π
hey magnus …. can you talk with Me a bit about the X-rated audios in the audio store. Doesn’t matter if you haven’t heard them. I’m curious if something like self bondage combined with an erotic audio on the topic would be ….. ahem…..exciting. I’m on the phone so much I know a lot of the guys who want to do a phone sex call with Me get frustrated (not in a good way LOL) … so I’m wondering about the interest level of the X-rated audios.
Can you talk here about the difference between an intimate, personal session and a sexy audio that isn’t personalized but does trigger your fantasy.
Is the more general thing *enough* …. especially when it’s well done…the quality that I’m famous for.
Hi MsOlivia, I’m not really sure I’m the best person to ask about that but I’m happy to offer my 2 cents. I do enjoy listening to the audios that I’ve heard. That’s always the case, and if it’s a topic that is my thing, I can visualize myself as being the person being spoken to and being in whatever situation the audio creates. As for *enough* though, obviously that depends on the person, but an audio lacks interaction. So once it’s set in motion, that’s it and the recorder can’t change any of that to suit the mood. I have heard many times here, and I am sure that You have encountered it, that it’s often the case that a call starts out one way and then goes in a completely different direction whether that’s because the Mistress misunderstood the caller’s wants…. ahem, I mean the caller wasn’t clear enough… π … or that natural conversational interaction brings both parties to a different place than either had expected.
I guess also it could depend on how the audio is structured. Going back to the self bondage aspect, I’ve not done anything with audio input, but I think that would be hot. I’ve blindfolded myself, but it would be very interesting to be listening to an audio then having to do with bondage or the Mistress enjoying watching my bound squirming or what have you. I might be liking this idea too much. I need a moment now. π
Anyway, does that help?
@ magnus I totally agree with you on the dynamic quality of calls……that’s part of the JOY of phone sex, it’s the opportunity to connect and then create. AND, I do think the paid audios that are explicit sex audios will fill a need …. perhaps the middle ground between a call and the free erotic audios that are a tease only. I hadn’t thought of hooterville John’s comment that audios might work for those who want to explore in an explicit manner but are too shy right now for a call. OH and My call volume is pretty high and it can be difficult to get Me…..for those folks the custom audios or the explicit audios are perfect! π
And, can you tell?…….I rarely, hardly ever, almost NEVER, misunderstand a caller’s needs. If he’s willing to talk with Me on the call a bit before the scene I can and do get ALL his secrets and desires. Well, maybe not ALL…..that’s where the real skill comes in….it’s called Active Listening and I’m a master at that…..OH, the Mistress is a master…LOL for the gender bending fans π