(( This is part 2 of a chastity guest post by my friend and fellow LDW Group Mistress, Ms Constance. I love her for many reasons. The Intelligent Femdom Ms Constance is straight up about what she likes and she does not like to do with you on phone sex calls. She is known as a Size Queen and she loves chastity. We all know that not everyone is a candidate to be cock locked so Ms Constance has this chastity checklist that continues here today with this guest post by Ms Constance:
Ms Constance says: Avoid Chastity if you require
You should avoid chastity if you require 24/7 attention because simply put in our situation doing chastity phone sex all though I may be one of the most supportive and attentive Mistresses here I am not able to be here 247 for you. I have many things that can happen spontaneously in my life that may take me a way for a day or so……the last thing I want is for you feel alone or neglected.
Be honest with yourself and your expectations and avoid being in lock up if you think it might make you feel lonely or left out.
These are just a few reasons why chastity may not be for some people the list is endless really and each person is different. If chastity is what you crave and enjoy but you might not want to do it for any real length of time talk to your Mistress work something out that will work for both of you.
Never forget that you not being able to handle chastity is not a bad thing, doing it then backing out or throwing a fit because of the denial and lack of control is a bad thing and you are best to avoid it all together.
Ms Olivia says: Orgasm Denial is FUN!
I totally agree with the cautions about denial as outlined by Ms Constance. She’s right on target. BUT …. if you are intrigued by the ultimate in being cock locked then you can always send an email asking for more information … or better yet, call 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Ms Constance!
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
Interesting blog….A lot of warnings a caveats. I would like to see a blog about what the are reasons to be in chastity
Hey, that’s a good point mike! Let’s start with you …. are YOU curious about chastity? If so, what appeals to you? Each person is different so I’ll start putting together a blog post. Looking forward to your comment!
Definitely words of advice! The idea of long term denial can appeal to many, but once it starts in real life you have to be prepared for sure. Devices I think can make a big difference, too; in terms of comfort and being able to stay locked up for a while. 🙂
I love advice from Ms Constance! Wow, Tiffy, you are so right about the comfort of a chastity device. There was a guy who …. ahem …. disregarded his chastity protocol and wore in constantly from the very beginning and …. ahem …. got sore. Well, no kidding! They always way WEAR the hiking boots before you hike across country in the suckers! ~laughs~ The details of chastity have to be ‘handled’ in order to have the EXPERIENCE of chastity. Thank you so much for your comment!
Mike I think chastity is so serious there should be warnings and such just so you aware of what you are getting into…but I love your idea about the good side of chastity and the benefits and I am sure that Ms Olivia will do a wonderful blog post that I will most defiantly be checking out in fact I may write one of my own as well!
Ms Constance, you just WAIT until I post a blog about you featuring what Mike wrote…..awwwwww, it made me smile so big. Okay, ya know I’ve got this huge damn girl crush on you right….huh, right? And guess what music just popped in my head? Usher YEAH! Ya make me wanna holla YEAH.
Oh and yes the benefits of chastity would make a good blog post.
~laughs~ at the disparity in those two sentences.
I think that being put into Chastity is something that helps the connection between Mistress and Slave. When you find the right woman the feeling of handing over TOTAL control to her is insane. I’ve handed control over to one or two woman with regards to my organisms and that meant much more powerful orgasms (when i was allowed to cum, as you know Mistress), it meant my mind was more focused on other things, and it meant I more attentive. So when your cock cant even get hard its SO frustrating to start with, and yes a little bit painful, but when you are finally let out of chastity youre going to have the most powerful hard on of your life and it will feel fantastic!
Fantastic comment Jake! Have you see my tumblr – phone sex Mistress Olivia ? I think you’d like it AND you’ll get to see part of your comment as a quote on my tumblr! ~grinz~ LOVE IT!