The key part of T&D is orgasm denial
Listen to me read you this post about your orgasm denial.
Okay, I’ll admit it, I love being a cocktease and a wicked damn Femdom — One stroker slut recently admitted, “I needed so badly to rub one out.” Â Mmmmm, have you ever felt that way? Â ~laughs~
Oh, the tease is so much fun but the denial part is the key. Without denial, it’s just a long stroking and orgasm edging session (not that there’s anything wrong with that!).
The art of the tease
I think of our play as performance art and YOU are my canvas. This is a creative process for me and I thoroughly enjoy putting you through your paces to clearly show my control of your cock, your body, your mind and more. Â My ideas are never “one size fits all” or one set of instructions for everyone. Â Masturbation instructions on the blog are general but private sessions are created just for you.
The artistry of denial
Every artist has “tools” that help him or her accomplish the art. Â When you are on an edging regime that doesn’t include orgasm (until I give permission) it is easiest to be locked in a chastity cage but that is not always possible (given life and travel and sports). Â I have a no-fail chastity plan without the chastity cage.
The experience of one submissive
Here’s an edging report I got from a submissive —
“I took the ((instructions))) and did as You ordered, up and down the swollen shaft two times with ((redacted)). Waited a bit and repeated. I sooo badly wanted to continue but I didn’t (i’m So proud of myself for this!).
I actually managed to continue until I started to feel ((redacted)). It took a lot longer than I thought it would and then, even so, I could still feel something so I ((redacted)) …and then even more. I even tested myself and actually tried to masturbate for real, but even though ((redacted)) it was enough to keep me from cumming.
I was so desperate that I masturbated ((redacted)) for over 30 minutes and could not bring myself to orgasm!! How incredibly frustrating!”
Ahhhhhhhh, THAT is exactly what I want. Â Good job. Â This level of orgasm denial is even more frustrating than hearing me say … REDACTED over and over again. Â ~laughs~
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
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Mmmmmmm, Ms. O! So much fun but so torturous! I enjoyed cage-free chastity – giving you all the control over your cock!
I remember when you first experienced chastity without a chastity cage …. that was a … memorable … night full of amazing dreams, wasn’t it?
I love all the ((redacted)) bits!
laughs … you do “get” my sense of humor! That alone makes me smile 🙂 🙂
I don’t think this particular system would work for me. I might backslide and that is not desirable for me or for You. Best to keep me focused on becoming as feminine as possible and embracing my blossoming womanhood.
xxxxx
yvonne
YESSSSSSSS yvonne … you do need to be totally focused on your femininity and your feminization training!
Mistress Olivia, I think orgasm denial without a chastity cage is a lot harder then with one. The fact of the matter is some males should never have an orgasm ever because of a small pee-pee.
Well with your small penis, t-bone, you don’t deserve an orgasm …. EVER !!!!!!
Ms. Olivia, I sometimes think getting a chaste sub who’s cage is locked around his needy cock to adhere to a cock control program is sort of like cheating – they can’t cum unless the cage comes off. The submissives and callers I’m most proud of are the ones who do it sans cage, just by force of will and a desire to please their Mistress.
Ms Delia I love that phrase … force of will and a desire to please Mistress …. mmmmmmm, fuck YES !