Do you listen to our kink podcast?

We have a lot of fun doing our kink podcast called The Weekly Hot Spot.  Each episode posts at 1 pm eastern on Spreaker.  The current issue is:  What every submissive needs to know about a Femdom Mistress.

Check out what Goddess Mandy said to make Ms Erika issue a boner alert.

All joking aside, we tackle serious issues – like this conversation from “Mary” who found our kink podcast by chance and started by listening to Phone Humiliation: sexual humiliation 101.

Mary:  “i listened to Your podcast with Ms. Erika and Ms Hunter on humiliation – i appreciate Your grounded background and perspective on dominating men

Ms Olivia: why thank you so much !!!! 🙂 🙂

Feminization podcast episodes

Eventually Mary found the other feminization podcast episodes and loves getting to know us and even getting to know herself more. Here’s our conversation (posted with permission)

Mary: “i’m a submissive cross-dressing sissy servant type of a guy – just to get that out there lol

i am married (37 years) and i have a Friend who is a female dominant to me many times, but she is very busy with her family and i just wanted someone to share with and get some additional perspective.”

Girl talk is so important with feminization

Who do YOU have to talk with about your feminine feelings?  Remember, it’s not ALL talk about clothes and such, it’s the experience of being your feminine self with another female.  Here’s how Yvonne describes it.

Yvonne:  “Girl talk is so essential. Even if we’re talking baseball. It’s like Susan Sarandon and the other girl in Bull Durham. Just two girls talking and enjoying baseball. Of course I really love talking about our wedding. The dresses, the venue, the reception and the honeymoon.”

You can get to know Yvonne in our podcast episode: Interview About Acceptance as a Crossdresser.

Feminized by a Dominant Woman

One of the things I love about feminization is that the submissive urges get more and more intense with each item of girly clothing! This can be sweet and gentle or downright coerced transformation. The Tricked into Feminization episode is one of my favorite of our kink podcast.

Here’s what Mary has to say:

Mary: “And while i have my male energy, i’m compelled to submit, serve and suffer for a dominant Woman – probably sounds so familiar i guess.”

Ms Olivia:  “Some are familiar and everyone is unique – that sounds like a cliche but it’s true.”

Mary: “Sometimes, i wish i didn’t want to wear Women’s clothes and submit so strongly . . . 

But, i not only feel a need – it’s also true that i want to – and i want to wear panties and bras and skirts – it’s just sometimes hard to admit. i think it is because of my pride and male ego

Ms Olivia:  “I think people growing up these days (some of them) are more willing to be gender fluid without it “meaning” anything per se.  Does that make sense?

Mary:  “Yes, it does – and part of that is me, but with me, obedience, service and suffering are almost a need

Ms Olivia:  “In my experience — this need or desire doesn’t go away.  And it can’t be “wished” or “ordered” to go away.  And eventually it can’t be ignored.  Many people find a reasonable way to “be” with that part of themselves by coming to a sort of peace —saying, “ok, you’re here with me and that’s okay.”

Question for my sissy girls, trans ladies or crossdressers

How do YOU get comfortable or to a level of acceptance that you have both male and female aspects?

Your Experienced Mistress,

Ms Olivia