As you may know, I will be the Featured Mistress on Friday, June 15th.
That means you get an opportunity to talk with Me for 10 minutes for free. It’s an unheard of offer ….I rarely give away free calls! You can read the details and My Featured Mistress Day schedule. For now, let Me further entice you to take the plunge and call!
So…..before you ever make the first phone sex call you often want to know things about Me…or want Me to know things about you. Let’s talk about that here. You can also ask the lovely Ladies on our phone sex Live Help Desk about this Experienced Mistress.
Mistress is articulate
I read and learn. I enjoy learning simply for the sake of learning. I especially enjoy learning from you. One caller turned me on to morel mushrooms and Shiraz wine. Another caller got me into the exciting and creative world of comics and superheroes. Which ended up being some of the funniest blog posts here where I asked the question about the link between Fetish Kink and Super Heroes. I talk music with a variety of callers. Some call to talk travel, current events, history….really we can and do talk about anything.
Mistress is experienced
Ms Olivia 1-800-601-6975I am an experienced communicator. I know how to ask questions and more importantly LISTEN to your answers (words and the nonverbal cues). I am used to being the one in charge so it makes sense that I would be a natural as a Mistress doing domination phone sex. Just like other passions and things that interest Me, I READ about kinky fetish sex. When I talk about enjoying cock control, I really enjoy it! If I haven’t done it I will tell you, but chances are, I’ve done it! One fetish that I didn’t know until coming here was the Giantess Fantasy. Now I am such a fan!
What are some of the attributes you’re looking for in a sexy Mistress?
Post your comments and we’ll discuss it here. I’ll post the second part of this post tomorrow and we’ll keep talking.
~smiles~
Ms Olivia
It took me a long time to figure out what i was looking for in a Mistress, i knew i wanted someone to take charge, and have a sexy voice but after years of searching and talking to hundreds of phone Mistresses, i just couldn’t put my finger on the missing element. That is until i came across LDW-it was like walking into the ultimate candy store. The first few LDW Mistress i spoke with were fantastic, i thought to myself “are they all like this?”, i soon found out that they were, and i also discovered the missing element-and the most imporatant attribute for a Mistress, the ability to see into my mind and connect with my deeepest urge and pull it out into the daylight to be thoroghly examined and analyzed. i have found that all LDW Mistresses posess this ability but there is an extra special connection when you find the right one for you, it’s hard to explain, you just know it when it happens, like it did with me and my current Mistress.
That is well said, Jolene! And, knowing your Mistress the way I do I know for a fact that you are very special to her.
I think that is one of the things that we (the Mistresses) bring to the phone relationship that makes LDW *different.* YES, this is a professional service and we weave erotic fantasies…BUT, we also have relationships that are very REAL.
For example, I have had callers who want to be collared as a submissive slave and I don’t do that because the Domme/slave-sub relationship isn’t there. I know your Mistress doesn’t do that either. So, that is why I’m remain so touched as a Witness to you both.
In the more than four years here, I can count on one hand the number that I’ve developed that sort of deep relationship with a submissive caller. It’s a nuanced dance I do of being truthful/honest AND staying within the appropriate boundaries of the LDW relationship (that means we never meet, you don’t get my private info, etc.) BUT you do in fact, get ME. The real me….not some fakey fakey ohhhhhhhh hear me cum ~squeal noise giggle~ kind of response.
Actually jolene, I often wonder if the relationships that I am having with people over the phone are actually more *real* in terms of accurate intimacy than the in persons interactions with the posing, games, hidden agendas, etc. What do you think?
i agree with you, jolene “when you find the right one for you, it’s hard to explain, you just know it when it happens”. This is how i feel, Mistress Olivia and i can say it here with pride.
The right Mistress, i believe, is One with whom one can go beyond the surface and get into a deeper level of connection. This is like a Journey that B/both embark on and as they progress, T/they get to learn things about each O/other that will permit the relationship to move even deeper. The Mistress, knowing more and being comfortable with what She finds can lead the way and orient the Journey into the right direction.
And to comment, Mistress, on Your question “wondering if relationships over the phone are actually more *real* in terms of accurate intimacy than with the in persons interactions”, i would say that it may often be the case but, probably not in all cases… (there are always exceptions…)
This is actually something i miss as i would love to have these in persons interactions with You, Mistress but i understand the rules and i accept them, while i am not more sincere, more thruthful, more honest, because w/we are not to meet and because i do not know of Your private info.
In fact, i could meet You and be the same (somehow, i know it) but the fact that W/we are not to meet may play something into the relationship as it somehow keeps it in between a pure fantasy and a in persons relationship and this is a land where many beautiful things can happen and a land where intimacy can be spelled with great accuracy, i agree with You, Mistress and this is probably because what W/we are in the relationship with is O/our inner self, O/our thoughts, O/our ideas, O/our feelings which drive O/our communications while the physical interactions are somewhat limited by the very nature of the relationship itself.
W/we have not been in a “relationship” for very long, Mistress but long enough for me to know that You are the right One for me and to whoever is looking for an answer to the question: “Who is Mistress Olivia”, well the answer is very simple:
She is an Outstanding Lady
Thank You, Mistress
oh MY! Thank you soooooo much sweet pet! You sir are a delightful submissive and, yes, you’re absolutely right! We have and are sharing an intimate journey that encompasses many things! In your case, it certainly is the very realize experience of being owned by a Mistress. I don’t do such owning casually —- just like jolene was talking about her Mistress. This type of relationship is something that I enter into only with the right submissive.
Ms Olivia,
i think You are absolutely right, in my case, my Mistress knows me better than anyone in my “real” life. She is the only one that has seen both the “real” me and the “fantasy” me. Since She knows the total me, we can talk about absolutely anything and that feels very liberating.
Ah Jolene! YES! There is something so VERY powerful about being fully *seen* and *known* and loved. That experience of being fully loved for who you really are is very powerful…and yes, as you said, very liberating! I know, from the Mistress side, when I have the opportunity to have that type of relationship with a caller who becomes a cherished friend I am equally enriched. Remember, you had at least two of your Mistress witnesses crying during your ceremony….tearing up because we understand the import, impact and sheer joy of the experience. ~smiles at the memory~