An earlier blog post asked you if you were interested in taking your cock control games to the next level. Are you?
I asked one caller that question when I sensed that he might be ready for more. We’d already done a variety of orgasm edging calls and even some delayed orgasm sessions. These are a series of sessions over several days or a couple of weeks where he called in for some wicked tease and denial cock teasing but each time Mistress told him he was not allowed to cum until I said he could. He was able to go for several days on self sustained orgasm denial but alas, he just couldn’t last very long! Naughty boy! I was so happy to get this email from him:
“Hello Mistress, I know I have spoken about it before, but I am now seriously considering getting a chastity belt. I believe it will make for more fun both in real life and when I speak to you. I would like to know from you, if possible, what one you would advise me getting, baring in mind when soft my cock isn’t quite as large as when it is hard. I would also like to know if wearing one hurts at all? Thanks so much for your time in answering these questions for me.”
Does a male chastity device hurt?
How comfortable is a chastity cage? That’s an important question because you’re going to be wearing it 24/7. It needs to be the correct fit. When you have the correct cock cage and the right fit, it will be quite comfortable. In fact, some men report that they even forget they’re wearing the chastity cage! ~laughs~ Alas, you will remember when you are being teased by Mistress and your cock is trapped!
How to get the right chastity cage
There are various types of chastity devices on the market. It’s very important to get the right chastity cage for you. Most are pre-measured and the variation comes from the different sizes of rings used to keep the device attached. The CB series are very popular. The CB2000, CB3000 and CB6000 are all being used by male submissives. There are other brands and styles and you can get them from any good fetish or kink store. My recommendation is Mature Metal …. and I’ll tell you more about male chastity devices in a future post.
Have you tried a cock cage? What have you tried and what was your experience. If you haven’t tried chastity are you curious about it?
Oh my God, reading this has made my cock go so unbelievably hard and DRIPPING with pre-cum. I have so enjoyed our orgasm denials calls Mistress 🙂
~smiles~ Now, here’s the question for you jake….did you STROKE or are you willing to deny that orgasm!? Hmmmmmmmm? Tell Mistress ~grinz~
I have tried chastity device the cb 6000. It felt better then I thought. I put on bra, dress, lipstick, then panty, heels, OMG that was hot. If putting one on you need lots lots lube otherwise its hard to put on. Only thing missing was hot women to put me in one. It is a total thrill to be in chastity dressed as girl.
You’re right peter because there are LOTS of girly girls who are in chastity! ~wink~
I started with a CB2000 many years ago, the fixed rings were a pain to put on, I purchased rings for a CB3000 that are hinged and this made it better to get on. I then upgraded to a CB3000 and this worked well, although Miss Oliva did get me to cum while in it. The plastic was not great in the hot and humid climate I now live in. Went for a Birdlock which is easier to wear as it is soft but I could make myself cum in it so not a good device for me.
Recently I changed to a metal version, best yet, best to wear, hinged ring so easier to fit, gaps in cage good for keeping clean and good in the heat. Restrictive enough to deny me. Would agree with Miss Oliva metal is the way to go, the down side is air travel, the CB will get through airport security but a metal one will not.
I don’t find it painful when getting hard in the device but just enough discomfort to make it really exciting. Gets me to the edge and holds me there.
It may wake you up in the night when you get hard.
I would say build up slowly in terms of days, months or years locked up.
2-3 weeks is my range as I find I get bored, I love the lock up part and need to do this to meet my needs not just the denial, but that is me.
I would also say shave or get waxed, no hair makes it a lot more comfortable for longer term wear, plus is a buzz being bald for Mistress.
Would also recomend ready the “Chastity Interviews” on Ms Constance’s blog for more information.
Finally my view is go for it, Miss Oliva will look after you while drviing you to new levels of submission and when she allows amazingly intense orgasms. Good luck.
Awww, thank you so much for your comment marlow! Well put, all of it! You’re so right about the metal chastity cage and any kind of security. Be sensible.
Oh and your comment made Me smile and laugh….I still think of teasing you until you had that orgasm all locked up in Chastity! Amazing and very fucking hot to Me!
I denied myself Mistress. Waiting to speak to you 🙂
That’s a very good boy jake! A denied submissive is an aching and willing submissive! ~smiles~