The internet has made it possible for all of us to easily explore various all sorts of things. Sex is just one of the many topics googled. Fetish sex is popular and, if you’re here, chances are you put something like Mistress, Femdom Mistress or cock control in your search. Welcome!
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I got this letter recently from a man new to phone sex sessions and he’s asking a variety of questions that I think many of you might have. One of the things anyone new to phone sex should know is that this service is different, we have a Satisfaction Guarantee which means if you don’t like your phone sex call, then you don’t pay for it. Amazing phone sex satisfaction guaranteed! This particular phone sex newbie has very kindly allowed Me to print his questions here so I can answer them on My blog:
question from man new to phone sex
“I’m quite new to phone sessions and the like.
I haven’t experienced anything in real life related to this sort of experience but its been a strong interest of mine ever since I became of age and more and more I want to explore it and/or understand it. It seems the more time goes on; I NEED to. Phone sessions seem like the tip of the iceberg.
I’ve visited your site and read some of your pages. You are ridiculously beautiful and your voice sounds amazing. However, I suppose you may be tired of hearing such things from submissives.
How did you discover that you liked to be in control? Every woman I’ve met has always wanted men to be the dominant. I have sufficed, I dare say effectively but a woman like you seems mythical!”
Does Mistress like hearing praise from male submissives?
Your compliments are always appreciated! I love compliments (who doesn’t? ~laughs~)! I love it when you take your time to leave Me a wonderful phone sex review. I love when you write tributes on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire, like a recent poem by Alice Wonder! Awwwww! Thank you! Most of all, on My blog here, I love our full bodied conversations in the comments section!
So, the very short answer to your question about, Do I ever get tired of hearing praise from a male submissive? Short answer NO! Longer answer means that I cherish and adore your Gift of Submission to Mistress Olivia! I take your Gift of submission seriously and I enjoy you up one side and down the other.
I’ll answer your question about “most women wanting the man to be Dominant” in the next blog post. I’ll also give more of My thoughts about Domination phone sex.
For now, I’d like your comments on his first question. Do you wonder things like his question? If so, what do YOU wonder?
~kisses and …. more ~
Ms Olivia
If he thinks your voice is amazing now, just wait until he actually talks to you. I still find it mind boggling how a voice is clearly recognize-able as the same yet so much better with actual real time interaction.
The things I wonder vary from call to call. I tend to have better calls with someone in my own age bracket because of common experiences growing up (music, pop culture, etc.) that help shape who we are, but some of my most amazing calls have been with people in different age bracket simply because we found something common independent of age.
That’s what I Alice Wonder always wonders. Will the click happen that just lets me open up? I know there’s the guarantee but I don’t want to use it just because there wasn’t the magic moment, I only want to use it if she was really bad (er, bad not in a good way) and that has never happened with LDW.
The two calls that didn’t click for me – One I plan to call again anyway at some point because she really intrigues me anyway (and I suspect there will be click next time – LOL – I want to click with her so bad I can taste it. Mmmmm, cherry) – The other I may try again at some point, she rarely blogs or interacts around the empire but I look for her just hoping to see something that gives me that ‘Aha’ moment so we can. Maybe something even as silly as her favorite movie or book from when she was growing up, there has to be something.
One of the things that helps me find that click is to communicate before the call. e-mail like this new caller did with you can really help me find something about her to click and I’m guessing can help the Mistress figure out a way to make it click with me when the phone rings on her end and it’s me.
I’m guessing it’s not just the callers that like the click to happen, the Mistresses like it to.
Hey baby, I like your style, wanna click? 😉
~laughs~ Yeah you sweet thang, I’ll *click* with you!
Awwww, seriously THANK YOU so much ….your words are so sweet and encouraging! Thank you!
Now, your comment about the *click* is soooooo important. I’m actually going to use this for a whole blog post because….phone sex is exactly like real life sexual attraction in that there is an ineffable *something* that happens and then …….
Alice, as always you give some really great examples of how and why the *click* happens. I love that! Thank you for leaving your comment and being an inspiration for more blog posts! 🙂
“You are ridiculously beautiful and your voice sounds amazing”
Can’t speak for you Uber Domme, but hearing those words never gets old for me. I guess that’s why closing time at the Hooterville Keno Parlor holds such a special place in my heart.
Mostly I wonder why I have no desire to explore a lot of fetishes/kinks in real life but find them so interesting/arousing when other people engage in them. My interest in female domination seems to be mostly voyeuristic.
For example, I read about Delia and Jack’s real life adventures and it’s really hot but in reality by the second week I’d be hiding from the woman. “Damn it, leave me alone I just want to watch “Storage Wars.”
I guess that’s the cool thing about what you offer Ms. O. You can test drive a bunch of different kinks even if you have no intention of actually buying a Kinky Car. I’d encourage New Phone Sex Guy to explore and have fun with the Uber Domme.
BTW. Sorry I never wrote you a poem but I did make you a You Tube video starring Adolph Hitler once. That should count for something.
~laughs~ Dear John….oh my, you say you enjoy hearing that you’re beautiful? Hmmmmmmmmm……so, do tell! You know I want to know ALL your secrets — especially the zippy secret handshake for the Hooterville clubhouse! 🙂
Actually you bring up a GREAT point! Phone sex is a great way to test drive a sex fetish. I’d never thought of phrasing it that way, but you’re absolutely right! AND, I’m here to tell you that you’re no alone….LOTS of people call simply as voyeurs and have never/will never engage in any of the kinky stuff in real life.
Think of this as your own erotic movie, where you get to Direct it, watch it, and then interview the sexy stars!
Hmmmmmmm not bad, eh?
~smiles~
On the phone yellow light on.
No Uber Domme fun.
Life’s empty like cookie jar.
(Damn right that’s a haiku)
~laughs~
Didja write that Haiku on Walden Pond? ~giggles~
At the request of Mistress Olivia, i’m posting, even though it’s off topic. i noticed a photo on her Enchantrix Empire page. It was of Rhett Miller. i’ve been a fan of the Old 97s since 1998, although i’ve not kept up in recent years. my interest really has been almost entirely about their music, but … i’ve never admitted this before anywhere, but i’ve always had a bit of bi crush on Mr. Miller. It was a stunning, but pleasant revelation to see it on her photo page. The band is known but not Top 40. i am developing a new ‘forced bi’ fantasy now. 🙂
Welcome benner! I’m telling you Rhett Miller is fantasy material that’s for SURE! Dreamy hotness! ~laughs~ You’re not alone is having bi fantasies and couple that with the excellent music of the Old 97s and you’ve got a powerful combo! I love music and, with certain people, music figures in many of our erotic sessions — well, the music or the music makers! This is a wonderful quote to inspire a blog post along the lines of who would you *switch* for? LOL Now, I admit to being bi sexual so I can gladly say there are ALL numbers of musicians that I would LOVE to roll around with! *wink* Thanks for posting!
Who would you *switch* for?
Jon Bon Jovi.
There I said it. A 20 year weight has been lifted. Thank you Ms. O
~snicker~ Hmmmmmm…….Prince in a heartbeat. Sting in a tantric second. There are probably more 🙂 ~laughs~ Glad to lift that weight off you!
Olivia-I wonder which female musicians turn you on and heat you up?
xoxo
Sonali
Hi Sonali, ahhhhhhhh great question…..one that has many answers. It depends on my mood, what I want the music for, etc. Some female singers whose voices simply thrill me are (in no particular order: Neko Case, Chrissy Hynde, Susannah McCorkle, Mary J. Blige, Annie Lennox, BeBe Neuwirth, Barbara Streisand, ….. wow, there are so many! Some because of sheer innate pipes….a la Whiney Houston. Some for other reasons like moxie and balls this big, like Madonna. Some because the way they voacalize just sends shivers up one side and down the other… Some like Aretha Franklin and Carla Thomas are absolute icons.
You are without a doubt the most beautiful woman at LBW. And I too love your voice. I have chatted with you a few times and you were most enjoyable. I am a sissy crossdresser and I love to be laughed at and embrrased and humiliated by you.
Do you have any sissy tasks you would like me to perform before I call again.
Huggs,
Sissy Malissa
Why YES I do malissa! I’d like you to go to Bath and Body Works….they’re having a sale! I’d like you to get some of their body mist that has GLITTER in it! Now, don’t scare the nice clerks in the store, they’re aren’t a Mistress and they haven’t agreed to be part of sex fetish play. BUT I want you to get the Paris Mist body spray or the Japanese Cherry Blossom body spray. Get the ones that have the glitter! You can get more if you like but at least one.
Then, bring it home and give a call…..then I tell you exactly what happens to the best sissy ever! *wink*