I have a LOT of experience with sex toy shopping! ~laughs~ Okay, just writing that in a blog post is fun and a little funny! Sex toys are a great way to make your cock control experience that much more realistic!
Save money on sex toy shopping
You can drop a lot of money of sex toys that may or may not do what you want them to do …. or make you feel the way you want to feel.
So, this is a blog post about some of the most common and fun toys to use on your phone sex call with Me (or solo….or with your partner).
I’ll do a variety of these blogs so if you’re not into anal play then just keep reading and I’m sure you’ll find a toy that you’re curious about or interested in getting.
Anal plugs for erotic pleasure
There are a huge variety of sex toys for ass play and anal plugs are some of My favorite items. They come in a wide variety of colors, sizes, styles and materials. The only material I would like you to stay away from is glass. I have a glass dildo collection but that’s for art and display, not for play.
Mistress suggestions for assplay
Let Me suggest just a few toys for your anal pleasure. Like most of My suggestions, I’ll ask you to think about what you want to do, fantasize about or experience. If you’re interested in (but shy about) strapon play, then consider starting with a butt plug. Butt plugs come in various sizes. If you’re new to this, I suggest you start with the small or medium size butt plug. If you’d like to experiment with prostate play, prostate milking while in chastity or light anal play, try the aneros. If you want the experience of coerced bi for cock sucking or ass play, try a suction dildo that you can stick on your bathroom wall or mirror.
Sex toy shopping with Mistress
Of course, the best way to get your very own personalized sex toy suggestions is to ask Mistress during a session. This gives you personalized suggestions, instruction and playtime beyond the generalized ideas here.
What are your questions or comments?
Do you anal sex toys? Do you have a favorite? Do you have a sex toy that you’ve tried but didn’t like? Tell Me all about it!
Ms Olivia
I have built up over time with both real sessions and phone sessions, i am now the slut i always wanted to be so has to be a 8″ suction dildo as my favorite, twice size of my cock so also was purchased on advise of a LDW Mistress for that significance, mind fuck thrown in..yah!
~grinz~ Oh YES! I’m a very big fan of the suction dildo….it can be used for so many naughty things and the erotic mindfuck is just one of them! Thanks for your comment!
Olivia,
Of course, strapons are great with a partner :), but my favorite anal toy is an inflatable, vibrating butt plug. When I have that toy inserted, inflated and vibrating, there is no way to stop the impending orgasm. Unfortunately my old one broke and I have never replaced it.
PCHPlayer
Ohhhhhh no player! I love the inflatable butt plugs as well …. and then being able to instruct you to modify the vibrations according to Mistress wishes! It’s a great way to give Mistress the control during your call ~smiles~ Now, let’s get you another one so Mistress can control your orgasm with that vibrating and expanding anal toy! ~smiles~
Hi Ms
Ooooooooo prostate milking while in chastity mmmmm can you think of a better way for me to concentrate on my femininity lessons?
kissses
yvonne
EXACTLY so yvonne! Especially with you as My crossdresser bride, your chastity is very important so you can …. ahem … concentrate on being the most feminine girl ever for Mistress! ~smiles~ I have luscious and delicious plans for you my dear!
Hi Ms
I have bought a pearl choker with matching earrings 🙂 Perhaps this could be my collar 🙂
That pearl choker makes a LOVELY submissive collar yvonne! AND, you can wear it all the time, can’t you? ~smiles~
we should have a little ceremony. I will wear one of my wedding ball gowns and you can make me yours forever 🙂
xxx
yvonne
You would be lovely in that pearl necklace, yvonne!! AND with one of your beautiful gowns it would absolutely the most gracious, feminine and important time, wouldn’t it?
I cannot wait to find out what plans you have for me Ms 🙂
~smiles~ at yvonne! I just took a lovely femme girl shopping for some of her first sex toys and she absolutely loved it! 🙂 I think you would love it too!
oh my now that sounds intriguing!! I have never really explored the sexual side of this. It always kind of scared me 🙂
Really? Why not yvonne? I think ALL of us have a sensual side as well as a sexual side that is AMAZING and delicious!
I experiment with anal play from time to time and have a few toys for this purpose.
I have also been toying with the thoughts of prostate massage as well. One day I was in my favorite adult store and buying what would have been my first prostate toy. Now the woman that works there is some one with whom I feel comfortable talking with so when I was a the register I made the comment that I was buying the toy for personal experimentation. She started telling me that it was not really a good way to start and gave me a lesson in prostate toys, prostate massage and how to locate the prostate, the importance of lube, the reasons to clean out the anal cavity prior to play and lesson in proper anal douching. I ended up not purchasing my initial toy but got a pack of anal toys that included a small plug, a set of anal beads an this odd shaped plug like thing that is a bit wider at the base. An anal douche bulb rounded out my purchase that day.
I find that I enjoy anal play as a break from stroking during a long session more than as something I start with, but of course this is all personal preference.
THANK YOU so much for telling Me about this part of your anal journey! I love that you feel comfortable enough to talk with her and that she feels comfortable enough with you that she’ll make suggestions and be a teacher in a sense. Part of the call that I really enjoy is when I’m guiding someone to explore something that is interesting but totally new! This is also really important because sometimes the first time or two can really determine how you relate to something. For example, a friend was curious about anal but was with someone who tried a large strapon too fast and now all he remembers is the pain. That’s NOT good! I still think he’d enjoy anal but now I have to undo the damage of that first encounter. Sounds like you’re doing your anal play right and I’m very excited to hear all about it! THANKS Forrest!
Well said Ms. O.
Our town did a “No Glass in the Ass” public service campaign last year which reduced visits to our emergency room by 72%.
It always bears repeating:
Not all household objects/adult beverage containers are sex toys.
Keep up the good work. You truly rock in a transcendent way.
~snicker~ Now THAT is an ass-tounding PSA Cletus! WOW……72% of emergency room visit in Hooterville were from kinky play? Dayum buddy I really DO need to visit. There are apparently LOTS of … ahem … adventuresome people there! LOL!!! Thanks for your comment!
I have recently (3 months) purchased a butt plug for use with mistresses. My anal pkay with other (live) people has been pretty limited, so this was bought to…um…scratch that itch. I have had a few forays into prostrate milking, once with a partner.
I have to say, inserting and wearing a butt plug on command is on of the most submisdive experiences I’ve had. Couple with naughtiness (and nice-i-ness?) of anal play, it is fun.
Ohhhhh good for you wellspanked! I’m all for venturing into exciting new territory! You’re right about butt plugs and other anal toys being a perfect way to bring on submission! Thanks for your comment!
The first time experience with anal play it was forced on me by my first real time Mistress who crossed the line we had set. We agreed on no anal play because i wasn’t into it. Well she thought it was time wether i was ready or not. I broke her head board and had to get 12 stiches on the back of my wrist. End of that relationship. Anyway i am not afraid of it anymore but i am not sure how to proceed. I guess my question would be does anal play turn You on? As i am sure You know by now that to me as Your submissive its all about what turns You on. There are some things that i am afraid of and You know some of them but when You are smiling, giggling and having a good time doing whatever You want to do with me it makes me happy and Proud that i am pleasing my Mistress. So if anal play turns You on Please Mistress Olivia Please teach me to please You. Thank You Ms Olivia
Ahhhhhh bumkin, I’ve known things like that to happen to more than a few people and it always makes Me sad to hear stories like that. Kink play and BD/sm only works where there’s a foundation of trust and something like going past a hard limit sure violates that trust! Grrrrrr. You were absolutely right to end that relationship.
That said, I DO like anal play. It’s such a naughty and fun style of teasing and torment. BUT, you know Me. I adore ‘edge play’ as well where we explore your limits and maybe expand them a bit. That doesn’t include shoving something huge in! ~grinz~ Let Me guide you a bit and sort of ‘repair’ the damage caused by her lousy behavior. I’ll guide you and show you just how exciting this can be. Gently and slowly … at first, just sort of stimulating your prostate from outside (tantra techniques) and then gentle teasing touch right around the anal ring.
Yes, I do know you love to please Me, AND it’s important to remember that power exchange ultimately only works when BOTH people are thrilled.
Can I just say you are absolutely DELIGHTFUL!? You ARE! And, I’m very happy and have CLAIMED YOU as My own! ~smiles~