Tell Me your thoughts on sex and sexuality. I’m specifically interested in where you consider yourself to BE on the continuum of sexuality? By the continuum I mean a bell curve where totally gay is on one side and totally heterosexual is on the other side. Are you all the way homosexual or heterosexual? Or are you, like most people, somewhere in the middle?
The reason why I’m asking is because I was having this conversation with a dear friend today. I know a LOT about what he likes sexually and he knows a LOT about what I sexually so we have some very fun conversations! In my opinion …. and I thought this even before I knew anything about cock control and devious sexual games … most people aren’t really one or the other. We all fall somewhere on the line between the two extremes.
Those of you who know Me know that I thoroughly enjoy women. I have erotic photography books on My Wish List. I adore doing girl on girl calls. Women are GREAT! In fact, some of My favorite erotic phone calls are with other Mistresses. Ms Carmen, who is ‘the’ kinky phone sex Mistress, knows exactly what to do with Me (and you!). Ms Violet specializes in personal pleasure calls …. yours and mine. 🙂
Many of My callers use our erotic conversations as a way to explore hidden (and not so hidden) desires. My special dear pet is one of those and that’s why we were on the subject of gradations of sexuality. He is fascinated by cum. Want to hear an erotic audio about cum …. ummmmm …. thought so …. cum here. Anyway My pet loves the feel of cum on his face. That slut will do whatever Mistress wants him to do including wearing silly pink tights like the sissy slut that he is destined to be for Me. See why he’s special? *snicker*
So….what do you have to say about this? Where are you on that line? Let Me know.
Olivia
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Very interesting, MsOlivia, and might I say I’ve missed your blog posts (not that I don’t know that life gets in the way and all that – damn life. :))
I’d have to agree with you that most people are in the spectrum somewhere in between though probably closer to one end or the other. I know that I do fancy women – their form, their grace, their being. I certainly do not give men a second glance, or even a first one really.
But thinking further, I sort of think of sexuality in the same family as fetishes. No, they are not the same, but they both have to do with how we’re wired, what we like. I don’t hide the fact here that I love sexy feet. Why? I have no idea, but I simply cannot fathom how someone else can look at feet and not enjoy them the same way I do. I *know* that not everyone does, but I can’t put myself in their place and not see them the way I do. Sexuality is like that. We like what we like because it is who we are. Other people may see things differently and that’s who they are. No one’s right, no one’s wrong.
Anyway, a bit of rambling on my part, but perhaps that’s just another aspect of who I am anyway. 🙂
Thank you magnus !! And, actually your comment inspires the next post — so look for it. I think it is human nature to focus on *extremes* of anything simply because it is easier to understand and communicate. Think of a headline saying “Plane crashes, kills all aboard” versus the more typical day of “these planes ran late, these took off on time and so many arrived safely.” Which story is the one that will get the most exposure? *nods* Of course. One of the attractions of fetish and sexual kink, for Me, is that it IS considered by many to be on the *extremes* …. still, I can’t help but wonder if people just don’t admit to liking kink…..in OUR case, the allure of sexy feet. 🙂
THANK YOU, as always, for taking your time to write. *wiggles toes at magnus*
I am still working toward the goal of being your biggest sissy ever. I am really working on my feminine side to become me more girlie. I now wear pantyhose and panties to work everyday under my male clothes. I am letting my hair grow longer so I can style in a more feminine way.
I am bi, I had a difficukt time admiting that to myself, but I am and I want a man to make me a woman.
Love, Malissa
Dearest Malissa….you ARE the biggest sissy ever! *kisses* And, your feminine *side* is really getting a workout! I love how excited you get when you call Me and tell Me about all your *adventures.* You’re a fine example of how someone can be creative with all aspects of their gender and sexual preferences. Thank you so much for writing and it was great to talk with you today. hugs, Olivia
I know im not gay but im totaly a sissygirlieboy!!!I love to wear bras/panties/dresses/lipsticks/perfume/makeup. Im not into other guys or gay. As sexulity goes im total girlie boy who wants to be forced feminized by hot women. Not sure what sexuality that is but I guess its being hot mistresses girlieboy.
Good point Bralover !!! Where would a heterosexual crossdresser turned into My lesbian lover BE on that range of sexuality…..LOL…..maybe it’s NOT so linear but rather SPHERICAL and fluid! ….. ohhhh now I kinda LIKE that imagery as well. 🙂
I love your erotic conversations as magnus already wrote,i´m one of the feet lovers.
When i see pretty women´s feet i cant control myself..
“Why? I have no idea, but I simply cannot fathom how someone else can look at feet and not enjoy them the same way I do.”
Magnus you reed my mine 🙂
I *get* it !!! ….. personally I’m more into the pretty feet category of foot worship…..pedicure, soft skin, sensitive arches (OH MY STARS!) and such ….. but I can understand how other aromas and the other non-sensual things can be arousing.
goddamn that Mags is a smart one !
fluid sexuality ?
that sounds about right .
for me, im too tightly wound to the pleasures of the female
flesh and wiles to need ween…..
BUT
with the right woman, under the right circumstances….
you just never know
hmmmm
butters I found that to be true Myself…..there are SO MANY things to do …. and so many options to do them with…..and with sexual arousal at a peak, why purt near anything can happen !….and usually DOES. LOL
thanks Ms olivia for this posts,
I don’t have any problem with sex, but I want to tell something.
you have Great ass, I love it.
I hope my girlfriend has one like what you have.
thanks alot
best regards
ROFLOL !!!!
Why thank you….and I do have a great ass, don’t I?
The ass is a highly charged sexual area. Ass play is naughty. Can be considered taboo. There are huge numbers of very sensitive nerve endings around the anus and this Experienced Mistress knows all about that!
And, for a man, anal play means prostate stimulation which brings amazing sexual release and orgasms!
Asses are FUN !
Thanks for writing 🙂