Spanking on my mind
When I asked blog readers about your favorite sexual fetish I got a reply from a regular blog reader who talked about spanking. I’ll post the quote later but first I wanted to say a couple of things about anything OTK (over the knee).
The Experienced Mistress Loves paddling your butt
There are so many types of spanking! Personally, I enjoy the sounds! The slap of my hand on your bare bottom is distinctive. The paddle smack on a butt is a resounding thwack and so thoroughly naughty! Each implement is unique. The sensations and sounds are used to send you into the space you crave. As the Experienced Mistress, I will use this as a reward OR punishment.
Your Fetish
You might just enjoy the sensations caused by paddling or you might want whipping used in a more complete BD/sm session. In either case, if spanking is a turn on to you! We’ll be a good fit! ~grinz~.
You often include your erotic desires in things like your screen name or profile name on our various sites and on this blog. I ~smile~ each time I see the name of the person who inspired this blog post! Have you seen his comments in the comment section? ~laughs~ If you have then you know who I’m talking about. If you’re new to the blog or don’t read the comments, this blog was inspired by a comment by none other than WELLSPANKED ~grinz~.
Wellspanked said, “I like spanking. Being spanked, spanking someone, watching someone get spanked, reading about it, thinking about it. It doesn’t matter, it turns me on. As far back as I can remember I’ve been enthralled by spanking. I did do some digging to try to find out why, but in the end (no pun intended) I just accepted it.”
Now, it’s your turn to weigh in on the conversation and answer My question from this free erotic audio: Who needs a good spanking?
Ms Olivia
Who doesn’t need a good spanking, paddling, flogging? Of course not just on the bottom. You know me, I enjoy those naughty, aching balls slapped around as well. I would have to say that I enjoy the ball spankings just a little more than my bottom. But I can tell you that long ago when I was in my early 20s I got a stack of magazines filled with half naked women. From Victoria Secrets to swimsuit catalogs to Lowrider mags. I had a stack that reached half way up the side of my bed. I got a paddle and I rated each woman I saw from one to five depending on how much they turned me on and then spanked myself to each woman. Fantasizing of them doing it to me. If they extremely turned me on I did a extra five. When I finished a puddle of cum was underneath me, but that didn’t stop me from doing it again right then and there. I can also remember going on vacations and finding adult shops along the way and getting several Legshow mags. I would either stop at a rest area or get a hotel room and rate each woman, including the pictures in the ads and spank my balls till I couldn’t take it and jerked off. The cumming with my balls red and sore made me want to start over and do it again. And I did! Sooo yes Mistress Olivia I do need and beg for any and all sorts of spankings. Thank You Mistress Olivia may I have another??
~grinz~ Why YES my pet bumkin! You MAY have another spanking! Now bend over! How are your morning and evening spanking going. Want to send Me a photo of your red ass cheeks? ~grinz~
Dear Mitress Olivia,erotic healing and emotional healing.getting rid of guilt.i am a sissy slave property of Empress Christine.guilt comes into when a person when a person tries to line up what society expects fromyou instead of what your mistress wants from you.i love and enjoy spanking.It makes me so submissive.and eager to please.spanking teaches so many lessons.
thankyou.sincerly yours sissy slave ted
Thanks for your comment sissy slave ted! I’m glad you’re so excited about your connection with Ms Christine.
Oh, Oh! Ms. Olivia pick me, pick me (*leans foreword and waves arm eagerly*)!!!!!
~laughs~ Ohhhhhhhh…….and what would I DO with you lenas if I picked you? Hmmmm…..thuddy or stingy….or BOTH?
I think my thoughts on the subject are clear. 🙂 I will comment on that photo though. First, out of context, that is an amazingly sexy ass. In context, it gets even better. That butt, tempting me to give it a smack. How could any resist it those “just enough” exposed cheeks? But then there is the danger. The mere thought of delivering a single spank is enough to earn 100 times that from the implement in her hand. Who am I kidding though, that’s just another reason I can’t resist!
And as for answering your audio question, I’m really have a tough time trying to come up with someone who needs a really good spanking? Hmmmm? I’ll pick ME, ME, ME!!! LOL
~grinz~ I dare you to even TRY and smack My bottom! ~laughs~ Hmmmmmmm…..would 100 swats be enough? Ohhhhh…yet another sexy science experiment! ~laughs~ Seriously, thanks for providing the comment that inspired this blog post 🙂
Well since it is for science, I guess I’d would just have to take one for the team and try it. LOL man, I get myself into trouble.
~laughs~ Oh YES it’s for science wellspanked….you don’t think I’m a pervert or anything like THAT do you? ~wink~
I looked up the definition, just to sure. And while you may, in my opinion, pervert; you are not A pervert.
🙂
As a noun, the word pervert is:
A person whose sexual behavior is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable.
Which brings Me to the whole issue of who gets to define “normal” and/or “acceptable” behavior — sexual or otherwise. See where I’m going with this?
Absolutely. Since, to me, it is normal and 100% acceptable you can not be a pervert.
And as a mistress you get to determine what is acceptable, or should anyway.
on a side note, under synonyms, I love the word debauch. An excellent word
I tooo thoroughly enjoy the word debauch!
I have also been known to enjoy DeBarge and de-striptease and oh yes de-spanking game!
~laughs~
All puns were intended and no lemurs were harmed in the writing of this blog comment.
(You get EXTRA points if you know where the lemur line comes from — hint: not Me — but it’s damn funny, don’t you think?)
People who get on a Lamborghini forum to comment about how great their Honda Civic is.
I’ll let it go this time. #crypticandcivilsuperhero.
~snickers~ That there is just plain funny, I don’t care who you are! ~laughs~ THANK YOU! 🙂 ~giggles~
Hi MsOlivia, while of course You know that spanking is not *my* favorite fetish it is a nice one. I think that for a number of reasons which I’ll gladly list though not in any particular order a discerning reader might ummm discern. For me it’s that spanking can give just the right amount of pain. I like pain but I don’t love it. Spanking, as You said, can come in different varieties. I like a nice sting back there and a little redness and..I’m good. If I can’t sit down then that’s too much. Red and warm and no welts, TYVM. And no big black bruises either. Not for me anyway.
Then there’s the positioning. I find it soooo sexy to be squirming on a woman’s lap. Ahem, held just so. And not to mention one can add a bit of bondage to the mix too. Or perhaps getting spanked while performing a service, both in a sexual manner maybe or just walking about feeling a slap on my way to fetch something as an example. Yes, all good and something for everyone. 😉
Oh YES magnus! I see you over My lap….bare legs and cute bare feet planted firmly on the floor as I pull you over My lap for your sensual spanking. ~grinz~ Ohhhhh you’re squirming! I like that! ~grinz~
I like that mistress pulled me by ear and put on her hot lap for spanking . Would you like to put me over your hot sexy lap???
~laughs~ I love putting a delightful submissive over My lap for a bare bottom spanking.
lol. The “I love putting a delightful submissive over My lap for a bare bottom spanking”, sounds best to me.
But I’ve never done that. I think I would probably fit very well across Your lap. 😀
xxx, Jenni
~grinz~ I think you might like that Jenni….a sensual bare bottom spanking with lots of stroking and cuddling. There are many variation to spanking play and I sure don’t see you as a pain slut….you’re more sensual. ~smiles~
Would you consider giving spankings on a slaves balls? May be have them tightly bound before administering the punishment?
Absolutely george….I love CBT! there’s something about tying up a slave balls and then ball slapping that is delightful for us BOTH apparently! ~smiles~
I like a dominant Female who knows when to use both types of spankings. Males are brought up conflicted in many ways. They can be submissive but taught to not be. When under a dominant Female control that conflict may cause them to be slow or hesitant in obeying especially if the command tells them to do something embrassing out of sight of the female.
That’s when a corrective spanking is needed to show the submissive who is boss.The spanking should be hard and long so submissive won’t ever want to be slow or hesitant again.
On the other hand if the submissive does a great job in obeying quickly in a diffricult command a nice soothing spanking would reinforce the good behavior.
Well said tinamarie! Often it’s the combination of reward and punishment combined with the Authority of a Dominant Woman that does the trick and …. ahem … gives the treats! After all, if it wasn’t fun we wouldn’t do it now would we? Tell Me tinamarie….have you been a good girl or are you being naughty? ~grinz~
May i please have 100 spanks done to my bare butt then 100 more with each differnt implement you have i want find out if your really hard spanker.then you can show me your white butt then make me show you my well sore deep red butt. telling me your butt never get spanked or smacked
Go over and fetch the paddle! Bright the paddle to Mistress. Now ……..
ok ok i will fetch paddle and bring it to you i can tell by Now your serious and iam going get GOOD HARD PADDLING SPANKING
Bring me the paddle!