Mistress style: the most common phone sex question
The most common question I get is: Are you a strict Mistress or sensual Mistress? I always have a playful reply, “Oh and do you think those are mutually exclusive?” I am experienced. I play in the face to face fetish scene. All this means that I am also versatile. Chances are you and I will find many fetish play ideas that we both enjoy —and some erotic fun will likely be sensual or even vanilla! I’ve often said that vanilla is a legitimate flavor and vanilla sex is sweet and yummy. Want to hear me read this blog post? ** Listen to the Ms Olivia audio **
Sensual sexy voice with a bite
A recent blog on sissy humiliation got me thinking about this sexy topic of sensual, strict or creatively both for your erotic Femdom experience. Remember, erotic humiliation is different from being impolite. I even did an essay about how Mistress doesn’t mean bitch!
How do you like your phone sex?
What’s your flavor? Vanilla? Something with more bite to it? Something that is sensually strict or even downright hardcore mean? I’m always curious!
Strict and sensual, that’s what I like, kinda changing things up with a little mindfuck mixed in. That’s not everybody’s cuppa tea though. Some like it either or, so I go with the flow. I used to be the meany of the service, omg that is sooooo tiring so I dont advocate that anymore. Great post Ms Olivia. I didnt know you shared a blog with Emma Jane. Those sissies must be delighted to say the least 🙂
That’s funny you should mentioned that you had the reputation of being a mean Mistress. Ms Cassandra, every interaction I’ve had with you has shown me your amazing sensuality and versatility … I think you’re thrilling! 🙂
You hit the nail right on the head! Polite doesn’t mean soft, and Mistress doesn’t mean Bitch. Absolutely.
I often run into people who seem to think that because I can be polite, say ‘please’ and ‘thank you’, and don’t act like a raging cuntbeast all the time that they can turn around and take advantage of me! All the while, I’m watching them and, I’ll admit, I let them run that line out a bit before I jerk them back and set the hook (to use a fishing metaphor), and then reel them right back into place.
Never assume that because I’m nice to you via email that I can’t be just as unbending and unyielding as steel in a session. Likewise, assuming that because I’m a Mistress I can’t also enjoy giving a blowjob from time to time is a mistake, too.
We’re complex folks here, intricate Mistresses with many facets, and, well, we know that there’s a time and a place to be nice, and then there’s a time and place to be just as Bitchy as possible.
Sometimes it’s fun to hide the steel under a veneer of polite, and then surprise the ones who make assumptions about us. Bless their little heads.
~laughs~ I’m loving that fishing image Ms Harper! I like being complex and I like being around complex people! While I, like you, will hide the steel under the veneer of polite … that is NOT passive aggressive … I can’t stands the “sweet sounding” person who stabs in the back … now that there just plain sucks! It’s possible to be straightforward AND multifaceted … polite AND strict … complex and simple. THAT is part of the paradox of what we do and how we are that we are that can do what we do. If that last part of the sentence made sense you ‘get it.’ LOL