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Listen to me read you this Experienced Mistress blog post.

I didn’t think I would like the kink world.  Before getting involved in the real BDsm and fetish scene, my only impression of kink was from pop culture.  I didn’t think it was for me — it didn’t feel like intimacy.  You might not know if you are kinky, submissive or sexually adventurous.  Don’t worry — it’s best to go into all this is an open … ahem … mind.

My personal BDsm origins

If you’re curious about how (and why) I’m interested in kink, take a look at this blog post: The making of the Experienced Mistress.  LDW Group also has lots of information like this essay on the difference between Lifestyle and fantasy Domination and submission.

Problem with porn and power exchange

When you watch Femdom porn you can see all the fetish outfits and the activities like spanking, CBT, feminization, etc.  What you can’t see is power exchange.  In the words of one kink friend.

“While porn stereotypes can be fine for some it’s just that… fine, at best a pleasant sort of mediocre.

To truly experience Domination and submission you have to experience power exchange.

The problem is that you can not explain power exchange. Those who have done it already know, and those who haven’t lack the frame of experience.”

This is one of those things where the experience is the only way to explain it — and once you do experience it — mmmmmmm, you’ll see.

Are you ready to experience this?

Your Experienced Mistress,

Ms. Olivia