Sex music sets the scene
For those of you in the BDsm scene, what’s on your kink playlist? Music is powerful and I use the rhythm of various songs to keep pace in an in person play party. When I’m on the phone with you, I will often have music sort of “playing” in my mind as I’m doing the pacing of your story arc in our phone sex call.
BDsm playlist
If you google things like BDsm playlist, sex music or music for making love you will find all sorts of fabulous music! I have my own fetish playlists. Music for kink scenes always has a really heaving or pulsing beat. I don’t want music that will make me listen to the song; that’s too distracting. I want the beat and the background. Something like Closer by Nine Inch Nails is perfect. The beginning of the song even sounds like spanking!
Cock stroking to music
I love incorporating music into a masturbation assignment and then turning it into some wicked tease and denial. Of course, I can turn pretty much anything into a cock tease so music is just the topic right now.
Music IS sexual
Whether or not your music choices are overtly sexual, music is part of the human experience and that means it’s part of the sexual experience as well. Hey there’s even studies that back this up. Truthfully I had to laugh at this excerpt from Psychology Today: “Music can enhance sexual experiences by reducing stress, increasing intimacy, and inspiring different emotions.” The article is “Listening to music while having sex.”
Studies about sex
Okay, this reminds me of a question I always ask myself when I read a study about sex. Who comes up with this idea and who will pay someone to study something that has the conclusion “music is good, sex is good, music and sex are good together.” DUH!
Question about your sex music
What do YOU love? What’s on your fetish playlist (if you have a kink scene playlist)? What music gets you all hot and sexy? Do tell!
Thanks for sharing this! “Closer” is trance-inducing.
RIGHT ??????
You should use Closer NIN as your stripper song when you’re practicing your moves in your panties!
Al DiMiola is wonderful. The trance-inducing music is excellent to help reaching subspace. When i was collared my Mistress insisted.
Listening to Yesterday right now — oh this is lovely!
I think this is perfect for aftercare and wonderful sensual lovemaking.
What song(s) put you in subspace?
Choice of music is key. As a life long cuck, it’s interesting to see an extra getting railed by another guy to some rap song with very erotic overtones, just screwing and thrusting to the beat.
OH FUCK —– hahahahahaha, yeah watching HIM fuck “your” woman.
Yep, listen to this beat cuckold husband! laughs
Jazz saxaphone PAUL HOWARD. I have to double check which cd when i find it .I am a sissy and when i take a bubble barh and shave my leggs i like to listen to Toni Braxton platinum gold collection
Ohhhhh fantastic suggestions — the jazz sax is so close to jazz SEX I actually mistyped it at first.
That makes me laugh.
Mmmmm every sissy should have a bubble bath!
Jazz saxophonist Boney James . Sweet Thing
WOW !!!!
Listening now — and this is lovely! Actually this would be amazing during the aftercare of an intense kink session. Nice choice, thank you!
Lady Gaga, “Love Game,” hmmmm, not sure what that says about me, hee!
OMG what a fantastic choice !!!!!!!
Did you get that cute lil crop top for your costume?
Hmmmmm?
Relax by Frankie Goes to Hollywood.
OMG I looked that up and the video and the history of the song —- this is an EPIC choice, thank you so much for turning me on to this!
I want a booty in my face is my favorite sex music.
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You sent me down a Meghan Trainor rabbit hole — “All about that bass (no treble)” is such a fun song and I always laugh when she sings “booty, booty”