How to figure out if chastity is right for you
Listen to me read you the questions to find out if you are a good match for being the property of a Chastity Mistress.
No matter how hot you think chastity is, the reality of being locked up is different than you imagined. Each person is unique so it’s best to talk with your Mistress to see if she thinks both of you will be a good match for this kind of ownership.
Are you willing to do self-reflection?
Miss Constance, the Intelligent Femdom has a series of Chastity Interviews on her blog and this quick chastity checklist to start you out.
Are you willing obey without being needy?
Some people think being locked for a Mistress obligates her to soothe and take care of you 24/7. No. Being in orgasm denial isn’t a different kind of daily stroking. This person uses Mistress interaction in lieu of hours of stroking. The person who enjoys being denied has this sort of epiphany:
“As for frustration, I’ve found it’s rather sublime. I used to think I needed the daily physical touch of tease & denial to really ramp up the ache and sexual frustration but I’m now finding that the confines of the chastity cage paired with the teasing words and actions of Mistress create even more ache and frustration than daily stroking.”
Are you willing to follow instructions from your Mistress?
If you answer no to this question then I don’t recommend wearing a cock cage. You might want the amazing explosive orgasm but that is something that requires work. It’s like a person who wants a great body but won’t go to the gym or watch their diet. It doesn’t work.
Are you willing to trust your Mistress?
You might know what she has planned or you might be kept in the dark. Either way, I guarantee she has plans. If you follow the instructions from your Mistress, you will experience this:
“The longing of just being given the privilege to release Mistress’s cock and watch it grow to rock hard proportions cannot be underestimated. And when finally allowed to release the beast and that first touch is … WOW … like experiencing something new and magical for the first time.
It’s like one’s cock has been transformed into a completely new creature with an entirely new and unfamiliar set of feelings and sensations. That’s the magic that happens when one’s cock ceases to their own and becomes the property of Mistress.”
If you answered NO to any of those questions then I doubt that long-term orgasm denial is for you. But, don’t worry. There are all sorts of other fun things to do. Orgasm tease and DELAY is perfect for you.