Behind the scenes of phone sex
In every profession, there are tips of the trade or behind the scenes stuff that I find interesting. I often talk about how to find the perfect phone sex Mistress for you.
I love watching documentaries to see behind the curtain. I’d be the one running up to the Wizard of Oz going yo DUDE how does all this work?!
Questions for Mistress
So, this is your chance to ask me questions my life in general, bonding with a Mistress, the difference in LDW Group’s superior phone sex or anything about me – the Experienced Mistress. Remember, you can also ask questions on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.
I’ll get us started with two categories: technical and technique. I think the technique is the one that will get the most interest so I’m going to get the technology out of the way by talking about phone quality.
Phones and phone quality
I use a landline and a corded handset for my erotic conversations. I don’t use a headset. I have a day bed in my office and will often head over to the daybed and simply curl up in bed with you while we have a long conversation. For short calls, obviously, I stay seated at my desk …. But the longer calls are the ones that …. Ahem … inspire all sorts of movement, so to speak. I tried a headset at the beginning of my phone sex career and I didn’t like it. I don’t use cell phones or wireless handsets because of the sound quality.
Mistress technique
A good Mistress is always learning more … more about being a Mistress and more about creating an amazing phone sex session. Since I play in the real-life fetish scene, I go to fetish events and some of those are like any conference, there are CLASSES! Yes! If you’ve never been to a fetish class it’s pretty funny reading the conference literature descriptions:
Anal play: safety and sensuality while you sodomize
Female Ejaculation: squirting – not just for the guys
Nipple play: points to success
Okay, I made those up, but the real-life descriptions are fun and funny.
YOUR sex questions.
What questions do YOU have about phone sex, the Experienced Mistress or anything else? I might just take your question and turn it into a blog post or sexy audio.
Erm, er, what’s it like playing with Miss Meredith’s *squirm* nipples Ms. Olivia? *adjusts erection*
Couldn’t you like to know! ~laughs~ Awww, poor peter tease toy!
*squirm* She does have nipples that appear to need a lot of attention Ms. Oliva!
oh peter …. ALL nipples need attention!
Oh Ms. Olivia, I’d be more than happy to apply all the attention your perky nipples need! *licks lips, then adjusts erection*
Oh MY I do love having my nipples worshipped ….. ~smiles~ … thank you so much for your offer peter tease toy!
*squirm* You’re welcome Ms. Olivia!
I do want to make sure that your nipples always feel worshipped and adored … and perky! adjusts erection*
Apparently my NIPPLES aren’t the only body part that is experiencing a certain amount of …. ahem … perkiness!
~giggles~
Oh, er, well, *adjusts erection* you do have a certain effect on me Ms. Olivia!
~smiles~ at peter tease toy….. I love having that certain effect on you! ~grinz~
*squirm* Well, you have become very skilled at creating it Ms. Olivia!
Oh MY peter tease toy! Thanks you SO MUCH for your surprises ….as you know I love gifts and surprises! The body wash is my absolute favorite for after the gym and the Bettie Page video is perfect for my collection! THANK YOU !!!! ~smiles~ You don’t get to cum though …. your Mistress will tell you that! ~laughs~
*squirm* Great, you’ve got them! You’re welcome Ms. Olivia!
If you want any help using that body wash in the shower or you want someone to watch that video with, I’d be more than happy to join you! *adjusts erection*
Oh, I don’t Ms. Olivia?
Ohhhhh…..now if you were helping me to use that body wash in the shower or in the tub …. I do believe we would get … ahem … sidetracked and you might get in a LOT of trouble with your chastity Mistress! ~looks innocent~
Actually, I think she enjoys the fact that I can so easily be, erm, sidetracked, Ms. Olivia! Just as long as I don’t get OVER excited when I do!
Of course, you can get as excited as you want to, no matter how HARD I find the situation! *adjusts erection*
Awww, you get sidetracked and excited? Pshaw peter …. surely you jest (don’t call me Shirley). You just adjust that erection one more time while I lift up the front of my skirt and give you just a glimpse of my panties. OH!
I think that it will be very obvious to you that I’m very easily sidetracked and excitable, when we are naked in the shower together, Ms. Olivia!
Well, erm, *squirm* yes, you’re right! I do need to adjust my erection again now you’ve giving me a glimpse of your sexy panties! *adjusts erection*
I have the BEST sexy panties!
Oh oh…..did I just make you *squirm* again?
Well they do hug your erm, *squirm* ‘body’ in a very sexy way Ms. Olivia! *adjusts erection*
My body comes with this sign and disclaimer: Dangerous curves ahead!
Yes, but did you have to make the sign so small Ms. Olivia?
I’d already become addicted to your curves, before I even saw the sign!
LOL good point peter….a tease toy IS addicted to those curves!
*squirm* Well yes I am Ms. Olivia! Your curves are so …. curvy! *adjusts erection*
LOL from the curvy one! 🙂
*ogles and squirms at the sight of the curvy one’s curves, as they jiggle as she LOL’s*
No limit curves ! That’s my future tag line!
And I thought it was your legs that had no limits, Ms. Olivia!
Oh my stars peter …. my legs DO have limits. ~lifts skirt flintily showing sheer panties~ See? My legs go all the way ~points~ HERE. ~grinz~ and ~lowers skirt with a wink~
Well, *squirm* thank you for pointing that out to me so clearly Ms. Olivia!
You have certainly given me something to think about! *adjusts erection*
~laughs~ Always very happy to give you something to … ahem …. THINK about!
Well thank you Ms. Olivia! I always find your viewpoints to be most, er, *squirm* stimulating! *adjusts erection*
~laughs~ Ohhhh NICE!
Great blog post Ms Olivia, I agree totally with you, I also use the old fashioned land line for many reasons one being it is more secure and private and the sound quality. Those long calls demand a more relaxing position shall I say and for that I love my over stuffed couch in my office. The more comfortable that I’m, the more relaxed, the batter the call. Those short calls are most definitely spend behind my desk
OMG, I remember that call we both did where we told that hot fucking guy that we were both going to … ahem …. get comfortable … I do believe that’s when things go VERY FUCKING HOT …. oh wait, I can’t type with wet fingers. ~grinz~
Hey there Ms Olivia! I know your inbox is probably already flooded with awesome questions from your loyal submissives, but I’m going to go ahead and throw my own into the hat. When you’re on that daybed during a call, do you find yourself physically acting out your speech? Let’s say if you’re talking about thrusting or caressing a smooth round pair of asscheeks for example.
OMG, I DO !!!!! Do you also do that on calls? When I first started doing phone sex I was told by Trish to sort of ‘act out’ the movements because it makes the call hotter for me AND for him …. and like most phone sex advice, she was RIGHT! So YES I do act things out …. I’ve even actually worn a strap on for a long strap on call! Ohhhhh wrapping my hand around that strap on cock….~swoons~
as always we think alike Ms Olivia I think you are my twin separated at birth or something! I too have been taking questions from those who have always wanted to know more about me and phone sex and even every day things. I love your view on learning more and that we continue this by reading and attending sexy things that keep us up to date and inspire us….and you are so right some of the topics are fucking hilarious LOL not your every day type of conference that’s for sure and certainly not boring!
I LOVE your series of blogs about questions and answers Ms Constance! Phone sex questions with Intelligent Femdom answers….fuck yeah! I’m with you…..while the serious questions are always interesting I do think some of the quirky questions are fun and funny!
Hi Olivia. I always thought you had great fashion sense. So I have to ask, what do you usually wear during a session?
Thanks for your question! Actually, I think you’re inspiriting a blog about what I wear when I’m logged in for phone sex sessions …. actually I might just talk a lot about what I wear during the day (and the night) …. THANKS!
Ha Ha Ha Olivia! Can I make up my own too?
*Clitoris* – The clit is IT,why the clitorious is so glorious!
*Nipple Play* – Tips for the nips and why they’er so hip!
*Wet Nipple Play* – Sip from the nip, milk it for all it’s worth!
*Female Ejaculation* – Female spray will make your day!
Female spray, DON”T get out of the way!
Female spray, jump into the fray!
Female cum, it’s better than rum!
Female cum, more intoxicating than rum!
Female cum, why it’s so yum!
Female cum, how to make her hum!
He won’t eat female cum? How to leverage your beverage!
*Facials* – cum on the face, the wet pearly lace
I love ejaculation! … can you tell? ha ha! ; )
You already know that of course, don’t ya Olivia ?!
…more? OK…
*Cam* – Do it on cam, Oooooh Damn!
Do it on cam, Thank you Ma’am!
*Facesitting* – Sit on my face, it’s the best place!
Please take a seat for a wet meet and greet!
*Cum Eating* – It’s more fun than Tweeting!
*Orgasm Edging* – How to keep them hedging!
How to keep them pledging!
*Tease and Denial* – Take them a mile!
Make them wait for a while!… a long while!
Erotic exile!
I think I am supposed to be asking a question? … uh… Do you get indigestion? Do you have a suggestion?
OK… What do you enjoy the most about being a phone sex mistress?
And try to go beyond the obvious answers.
Tell us something totally unexpected.
Thanks Olivia
hahahahhaha OMG….I love your comments …. you always make me laugh.
Ahhhh, now to your question about phone sex … you have asked for something not ‘totally obvious’ which will tend to create a thoughtful blog comment.
I’ve had a couple comments about my blog being too thoughtful … ~laughs~ …. honestly, with all the fucking free jackoff porn available why would anyone want MORE shallow porny porn … this is NOT a slam on porn or even shallow porn. I LIKE porn! ~grinz~ But sheesh coming to my blog for XHamster is like going into a lamborghini dealership and complaining that the prices are too expensive. ~snorts~ well YEAH!
Okay, so I did a blog post answering your question today. Scroll down because I did a couple paragraphs for the ones that don’t like thoughtful.
THANK YOU for your question that stayed with me while reading (I like that).
Oh, a glimpse into the behind-the-scenes life of sexy Ms. Olivia! I love it. I love talking to callers who want to know more about phone sex, and I equally love hearing from other Mistresses about how they take their calls. I’m sure the image of you lying in your day bed enjoying the session is inspiring a lot of bulges right now.
thanks for your comment Ms Marlena! For some reason that day bed comment really captures the attention or imagination …. curled up with a soft fluffy blanket and lots of pillows having these intimate and sexy conversations. I DO love this!
Yet another fantastic post, Ms. Olivia. Like you and Ms. Cooper, I stick to -what so many folks now think is obsolete, archaic at best- a simple corded land line. The sound is much clearer, you don’t have to worry about static or interference, and you never have to worry about your call being dropped. I have never -and will never- use a cell phone for a session. They cannot guarantee reliability in connection, the sound is markedly inferior to that of a land line, and I don’t like the idea of having to monitor the battery and keep it charged. I enjoy the freedom my “old-timey” corded phone gives me to become completely absorbed in my calls.
I know! I feel like a throwback! Now, a cell is great for lots of things but not for phone sex. OH and I personally don’t like a headset just because I like curling up with the phone …. I can STILL do hands free ~grinz~ but I sure do understand everyone who does use a headset … it’s nice to have those hands free! WOOO HOOOO What are YOUR hands doing during your sexy calls, Ms Emma Jane ???? Mmmmmmmmmm?