Erotic conversations can be scary
If you’re like me, then you find new things exciting but also a little off-putting simply because it is NEW. You might be worried about disclosing sex secrets in erotic conversations. Phone sex can make many people nervous; especially if you are a horny but shy guy.
I try to think of what it is like for you to call someone and tell her your most intimate sexual secrets and sex fantasy scenes. This might actually be a plus. You know the phrase “stranger on the train” might apply here. It’s often easier to get intimate with someone that you don’t see face to face. It’s like a confession without face to face feedback or worry.
Do you wonder if Mistress thinks you are weird or creepy? Do you worry that we’re not going to be a good match?
I think these are all valid questions so let’s talk about this concern here. I think it falls into two main categories: Will she like or understand my phone sex needs AND what do I do if the phone sex session isn’t going well.
Will my phone sex Mistress like my sexual fantasy
We both know that phone sex is often about more than sex which is one of the reasons why I talk about other interests here on my main blog. If you want to find my blogs about your interest, put your fantasy in the search box or look to the left for categories and see if you can find your fantasy. You can read the posts I’ve written that are specifically about your interest or cruise around reading a variety of posts to get a “feel” for the way my mind works.
What to do if I don’t like my call.
This is a bit more complicated so I’ll give you suggestions in tomorrows blog post.
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
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Ms. Olivia you are so right in this very thoughtful post!
When someone is new to phone sex or is thinking about talking about a hidden fantasy that has never been shared with anyone ever, yes, it can be daunting.
This is why I LOVE LDW! Everyone I have met here is not only sexy and open to kinks, but they are also such good listeners. I really enjoyed this post. Thanks!
Ms. Delia
Thanks Ms Delia! I like doing a mix of blogs …. some sexy, some informative, some flirty, etc. We ARE lucky to have such fun ways of communication!
I’m turned on looking at that picture of you Ms. Olivia! *adjusts erection, then copies picture to hard drive*
Is it because of the flirty skirt flirt peter? You are such a FUN tease toy! So very …. ahem …. R-E-S-P-O-N-S-I-V-E …. just sayin’.
*squirm* Ah, well that would be because I do find you to be a most stimulating woman, Ms. Olivia!
~laughs~ Stimulating is so right … and you know, in your own way, YOU are stimulating as well …. I’ll admit, I do like a tease toy! ~smiles~
*squirm* Why thank you Ms. Olivia! I do like to arouse your senses ….. amongst other things …. *adjusts erection*
Oh MY!
I am just scared you won’t let me cum ever again…please please please Miss Olivia
How can I say this?
Hmmmmm……
~thinking~
NO.
~laughs~
I don’t see how anyone could be afraid of you, Ms. Olivia. You’re so warm and friendly and kind and generous….and you *always* allow every one of your stroker pets to cum, right? 😉 Well, maybe the last part isn’t quite as accurate as the rest, but I’m sure you put every one of your phone sex partners right at ease!
~laughs~ MOI ? Ohhhhh Ms Piper would I EVER put someone in chastity or deny an orgasm? hehehe We both know the answer to that, don’t we?
Ms Olvia…great topic. I remember back when …. ((( I love this comment so much I want to turn it into a blog post! ))))
I loved this comment plunger boy! Look for this in a blog post this week!