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Let’s talk about your penis!
Do you name your dick? Many of you do. ~ laughs ~ After all, you spend a lot of time with your cock, don’t you?
It’s your friend. Your partner in all kinds of naughty crimes. It’s your downfall and your deliverance.
No matter what your relationship is with your penis, you’ve got a bond. I know! So, tell Me about your dick. I’ve also created a poll about this on Enchantrix Empire, our adult social networking site. Be sure to vote and I’ll respond to your comments here and on EE.
Does your penis have a name?
No matter your specific relationship with your penis, it is the source of intense feelings, isn’t it? Do you like it enough to name it? I knew a guy who called his cock The General. *nods* And, believe Me, the size of that monster cock made Me want to enlist! LOL
I’ve heard the penis called a lot of things. One of the best things about phone sex is I can ask you all kinds of questions that I wouldn’t be able to ask in, so called, normal settings! So, use the comments to tell Me about you.
Cock names and fetish identification
Some crossdressers also switch physical gender names …. so a penis becomes a clit or clitty or sissy stick. For those of you who don’t want to gender play but like being a man in panties when the cock tends to stay a cock even while trapped in lacy panties.
For the small dick losers (and you know who you are) you’ve been able to rationalize the feelings of shame into the rollercoaster of erotic humiliation …. and now, small penis humiliation feels really good. It’s a rush to hear a lovely Femdom taunt and tease you about your inadequate wee weeney.
No matter what you call it….you know you need cock control.
Whatever you call it…..oftentimes that member has a mind of it’s own and needs cock control by an Experienced Mistress. So, tell Me about your relationship with your penis. Does that appendage between your legs have a NAME?
I had always thought of it has just dick, but actually I prefer “Her Cock”. And Mistress will sometimes
call it Mr.Big Dick. That works for me!
~~ laughs ~~ I love the name Mr Big Dick wessypoo! Now, why is the song Mr. Postman running thru My head with ohhhh so naughty lyrics? LOL
I like to keep it simple and I just call it mine.
Sorry, I am feeling lazy today so I am copying my answer from EE:
I never saw the appeal/need for actually “naming” a cock. But I guess if you have a lot of 3rd party discussions about it… who knows? :-p
On the dick/cock debate I am strongly on the side of cock. To me the word “dick” is too often used in a negative connotation and often not about a penis at all. He’s a dick, what a dick, fucking dickhead, etc. Cock however seems to much more commonly refer to a penis, or at the very least, even when used as an insulting term, is still more directly connected to its penis roots – cocksucker, etc.
Even when the context is clear, the word “dick” in my mind conjures up dismissive imagery, referring to the penis as a simple common and humdrum apparatus, whereas “cock” captures the pride and majesty which is the penis.
If you’d like more detail than that, we might have to go to a separate post…
@ NB … eek! Good point! I never thought of dick as being ‘bad’ …. but of course, this is one of the reasons why I ask y’all these questions. I do notice that when I’m doing a phone sex call, I use whatever term HE uses. Some callers will actually say a preference. Communication always makes a session better.
Of course, I’m ALWAYS open (so to speak) to conversing about the pride and majesty of the penis! *salutes* Long live the penis!
Sometimes I wonder if I get overly hung up in the semantics of it all, but hey, whatever works 🙂
But especially with phone sex, words are power. This discussion also leads me to think about the other big semantic concept in phone sex – trigger words. Words and images that seem to have extraordinary power to excite or control in this scenario.
Also, common tropes. Even though everyone is a unique individual, there seem to be quite a few tropes or really common images/scenarios that get repeated over and over in fantasies… which I imagine are useful for Mistresses to be able to reach a fairly wide audience in blogs, audios, etc.
Another subject in similar fashion that I find fascinating is the “cold read” – its common definition would be the leading interview technique that con men or charlatans use to “fake” psychic abilities… but I would imagine that there is probably a similar kind of technique that a phone mistress would/could use for “mind reading” an evasive caller. I can recall that many years ago, as a younger and less communicative person, there were a few times I had called a phone sex mistress and was typically evasive about what I wanted, and yet she nailed me in a few minutes. So either lucky guess, or verbal skills? 🙂
FANTASTIC comment NB …….
There are so many things for Me to get really GEEKY about! LOL Which you KNOW I will 🙂
You’re right……words have power and words ARE power. I think that is true in real life and certainly true is phone sex. Trigger words are fantastic are amazing in calls. Often a caller will actually TELL Me what his trigger words are and then leave the pacing of the call to Me. Every bit of information about what really gets you aroused and what’s brings you to orgasm is useful and used in the calls I do.
BTW, rhetoric and semantics have been a lifelong interest and university area of study, can you tell? LOL
Now…..there’s the fine line about tropes. Sure there ARE common themes. And, yes you’re right, when I do a free audio I am using those the language of those common themes and images. So an audio can be hot …. but it’s never as good as a tailored call. Just like a frozen dinner is never as good a fresh. LOL
On your last point…..I HAD to laugh! Ahhhhhh yes, the silent ones. I love them! And I’m actually really good at sussing out what he wants. At least the vast majority of the time. The only ones I have any trouble with are the ones who say they want *anything* but then don’t like anything I do. LOL That throws Me off My game. Otherwise, I’m really good with the silent ones and can generally figure out what they want. That m’dear is why I’m the Experienced Mistress…..LOL……when I first started doing professional phone sex I couldn’t do that beyond My *normal* intuitive abilities. Now, I’m pretty good at it! The caller, even a silent one, can gently guide the call too ….. for example, “you don’t really want me to suck this cock do you Mistress” is a nicely put plea for the phrase “Suck that cock NOW!” Like most relationships and conversations, it’s a give and take. The caller WANTS Me to understand him so it’s to his benefit to not be tooooooooo uncommunicative! LOL
when i am not being a sissy its a cock
when I’m dressed and sissified than its a clit or clitty
@ jdlaw …. you identify what many crossdressers and sissies say. Even on phone sex calls, I notice there is usually one term for when you’re in male mode and another for when you in feminine mode. I’ve noticed some interesting commonalities and I’ll be talking about them in an upcoming post. I do like the terms clit or clitty. And, personally I love it when sissies say, cummies … very feminine and sweet!
Since my cock is in panties full time, I call it a panty clit. Unless it is encased in pantyhose which would make it a nylon slut :p It sure feels great to run a Magic Wand vibrator over it and watch the cum ooze thru the lace or nylon! Yummy!
Well, Mistress, you already know it’s not a cock – it’s a clitty. It doesn’t have a name other than “clitty”, but you surely know *you* have the authority to name it anything you’d like.
LOL sissy c ….. *taps chin* ….. *concentrates* ….. Thinking of names.
My mistress call’s my penis her cherries. She calls my stick her stem, and when it hardens, she calls it ripening. I personally prefer clitty, but then again, my cherries belong to my mistress. When I’m pleasuring with other sissies, they tend to call it “cute little thing.”
awwwww…..that’s too cute!