What is WICKED to you?
You know My love of words so this also becomes a way to talk about what we all consider wicked. It’s sort of like the blog post I did where I am asked if I think erotic fantasies are creepy and then examine the word pervert itself.
My pet bumkin points out
“I would need a definition for wicked thoughts. Mainly because what was once considered as may or may not be “wicked” are more like Normal for me now. I kind of thought maybe the stick shift was directed at me since i know that You want to “shift” my 10 gears…was that a “wicked thought”?
What’s wicked — anal sex?
There are some people who think anal play is off limits. They don’t like it and it’s off limits for them. Sometimes something might be off limits for a time and then you get curious about it. Anal sex is often like that so it’s important to find out if anal play is for you.
Dominance and submission — is that too wicked?
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Let’s hear from you….what do YOU think of the term Wicked Thoughts?
ps YES bumkin, that comment about how I want you to “shift” all 10 gears IS aimed at you! ~grinz~
MsOlivia, I’m from New England so “wicked” is an adverb. 😉 But I can say that all sex is wicked awesome if all parties are happy with it.
~laughs~ you’re the BEST magnus! ~giggles~ Oh yeah, I know you wicked people from New England! ~grinz~ Y’all bring wicked into a whole new definition! ~smiles~
Dear Mistress Olivia,thankyou for the intelligence you bring to your blog ,thankyou
sincerely yours sissy slave ted
Awwww, thank you sissy slave ted!
Mistress Olivia, i agree with magnus that wicked can be an adverb, or an adjective like the Wicked Witch who wants to do bodily harm to her victims,oh wait, bad analogy. 😉 Being a bit of a stickler for semantics myself, evil was the first thought that came to my mind and thus began a progression of differing meanings of the word “wicked>’ i believe Your usage is as a synonym for kinky, naughty, or salacious. i also believe kinky is a relative term. In Your usage, i think each person has their own definition of a wicked thought. For some, coitus in any other position than missionary may be declared wicked. When i used to crawl under my older brother’s bed to look at the naked girls in Playboy, i thought i was wicked. Now however, experience has taught me that many of the wicked fantasies i used to have are much less nasty than my prejudice led me to believe. For me now, a wicked thought is “what will my Mistress have me do for Her this time to top the last session”, or which new road, or side road of one previously traveled, will She choose to expand my horizons, extend my limits, or explore those unseen galaxies where no man has gone before. i fear my precious memories would be considered extremely wicked by some who lack the courage to try them, yet secretly crave for a willing partner to compel them to begin their own quest for what else may be out there to bring such bliss and euphoria as deep submersion into subspace, or for the other side of the coin, the ability to soar into the outer limits of the atmosphere of their Domme’ space.
Well said kneel! And, one thing to remember is that some people want to explore those outer reaches and others don’t….it’s sort of like travel…some people like adventure travel and other like the same vacation at a familiar hideaway. It’s totally depends on the person and it’s not about courage per se … rather it’s about what feels good and right. Does that make sense? YOU m’dear are totally an adventure traveler (as am I ~grinz~). As an aside, I also want to mention that I have personally had the BEST time expanding your horizons and mentoring you about Dominance and submission, kinky play and much more! YOU have also taught Me many things and I’ve seen where I’ve grown as a Domme inside of our relationship. It’s delightful!
Dear Ms. Olivia thank You for the kind words regarding our relationship and how we have grown together. i know of no greater compliment than for the Experienced Mistress to mention in public forum that a subbie with an open mind and willing body can provide educational opportunities for Your growth as well. i confess that it has truly been a pleasure thus far in our adventure travel and i can only yearn to see where else we might get to go together and explore more wicked thoughts and yet unknown fantasies.
i love Your analogy about adventurers and those who are sated with familiarity. i guess that my initial comment was based more on my A.D.D. and how quickly i grow bored with monotony. i understand that “lacking the courage to try” may not have been the best wording to use in application to all. Different strokes for different and all. Thank You for reminding me that some people enjoy when their fantasy becomes reality and never seek anything beyond it. i guess once my brother switched from Playboy to Penthouse and then to Variations, my curiosity was piqued to explore much broader horizons than just Missionary position once a month with the same person for my entire life. Before i met You, i had always considered monotony and monogamy as synonyms. Now i crave to serve a poly amorous Mistress like You where i know monotony will never be a problem since our “wicked thoughts” are both similarly eclectic and eccentric.
~giggles~ I loved your comment kneel, thank you! And, just think about it….ANYTHING can get monotonous! Even huge amounts of variety can get monotonous. I think that’s where things like a perfect match comes in … it’s not that any particular way of being is right, it’s more important that the person (people) involved are on the same wavelength …. that’s when the energy really sets off more than just a spark! ~smiles~
You say anal for some people is off limits and for me for the longest time I would say yes off limits, but off limits term would be “Taboo”. So back to the drawing board. I would have to say “Wicked Thoughts” , for me, are all the thoughts, fantasies and visions that make me horny. Even some that were once taboo or off limits have now (Thanks to You) been turned into all sorts of “Wicked Thoughts”!!! Thank You Mistress Olivia
~smiles~ Ahhhhhh, how lovely! What a wonderful example of how erotic fantasies can and do change. It’s the same with Me so we’ve got LOTS to explore together! And, how great is THAT!? ~smiles~
awwww, thank you bumkin! How are you feeling?
Well lets face it our whole wedding is totally wicked!!! From the engagement party to the bachelorette party to the wedding and reception itself 🙂 It just gets wicked and then gets kicked up a notch. It is all in fun and that is what it is all about anyways right?
You’re so right yvonne! Wicked combined with white lace are YUMMY! ~giggles~
she is regal, beautiful, maternal, sexy and well kept. i am shy, timid, enamoured with her beauty and confidence. i have been hired to do work in her house that day. to my suprise she invites me into her bedrooom. she tells me she’d like to talk and we sit – her confident, me even more nervous now. on the bed are panties, a bra and a soft camisole slip. we sit for a moment and she lets my nervousnes build. she does not, directly, even mention the garments there. they just sit there prominently displayed making me oddly nervous. she proceeds into a discussion which is more like a lecture. she talks to me about guys and girls and how some guys are very manly and some are just, well, much less so. “Aren’t they”, she says? “I’d like you to unbutton your blouse for me”, she says. She calls it a “blouse” even though i think of it as a shirt. It’s subtle but suggestive. why, i am not sure, maybe it is her tone, maybe the safety of her big room, maybe i am afraid not to – as if in a trance i follow her instruct. i am almost disconnected of the embarrassment of what she is having me do. i am, finally, almost naked, “Let’s start with the panties”, she says softly. I feel deep shame. I cannot believe i am doing this. It just feels like i have to.
That’s a wonderful description mike and thank you so much for your take on the seduction of a panty boi! ~smiles~ Some people like to be ordered, some enjoy being teased, some like the wicked bite of subtle manipulation…..ahhhhh yes…..and some, like this Mistress, thoroughly enjoy the dance of turning you into what (and who) you were always meant to be! ~grinz~