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What is a sexual fetish?
I have had the most amazing phone sex the last couple of days with a variety of callers, talking about a variety of topics – some sexual and some non-sexual interesting conversations.
I asked you about your definition of sexual fetish and I got a lot of very interesting comments on my sexual fetish blog post. This was inspired by a poll I did on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. There are lot of really great comments and since I enjoy language and the use of language I like doing polls about how words shape the world.
Fetish and sexual arousal
There are lots of things that get labeled a fetish …. for example, foot fetish … I have to ask, why is sucking toes on pretty feet considered fetish and kissing my lush lips not considered a fetish?
phone sex caller and his take on fetish play
I got this great comment by a guy with cum filled balls! Don’t you love his name? I do! The comment is fantastic and I had to post it so you can also see it and leave your comments.
First, I have many fetishes, such as foot and leg worship, breast worship, pussy worship, spanking on my ass, and even bare back whippings. I also regard such practices, like tease and denial, edging, and being denied the opportunity to cum, as fetishes. Nothing in this list is to the exclusion of anything else, and all of them enhance my sexual excitement.
In addition, such fetishes as allocated for certain times, which are set aside, for those activities. After all, I have many other interests, which I pursue. My fetishes and sexual practices do NOT interfere with other aspects of my life, such as employment, hobbies, reading, travel, and other pursuits. Importantly, my fetishes are conducted within the framework of relationships with certain individuals, such as my in-person mistresses and LDW mistresses, based upon mutual consent. Outside of that I would never force my beliefs, my practices, or myself on anyone, as I would not approve of anyone forcing their religion, their beliefs, their ways, or themselves upon me.
In summary, I have many fetishes; however, I have a life and many interests beyond that.
WELL SAID! I am more than a Mistress. I am a Mets fan, chef, gym rat, world traveler, book reader, music lover and soooooo much more. That list is in no particular order, since we’re coming up on the World Series I have baseball on my mind.
What are YOU besides your fetish?
My fetish is fully fashioned nylon stockings and stiletto heels worn by classy and sophisticated ladies who dress with style. I’m also a scientist (Subject matter expert in my field), STEM ambassador, Portsmouth FC fan, real ale drinker and my music passion is prog rock.
Ohhhhhh I haven’t lured you into a blog comment for some time! YAY! THANK YOU for leaving a comment! Do you remember our call when the CAT met the ……. ~laughs~ …. OH that reminds me, I’m also a lover of the pussy! Yeah and I like feline cats too! ~grinz~ I think there are European baseball clubs….do you like Baseball?
For me fantasy is reality. I have other interests besides dressing and getting off. I’ve started playing competitive tennis and that take most if not all my time. It’s full time commitment. Also I workout 7 days a week with weights/cardio. I’m doing lighter weights more reps. I don’t want bulky/fat look. I want to keep lean ripped look. This way I look and feel better so I can fit into my clothes as well as women’s clothes. Other interests huge fan of atp tennis,minnesota pro sports teams. Balance is key as difficult it is.
Hey that’s GREAT peter! I never really got into playing tennis but I love to watch the tournaments when I have time. I know your body and tennis is a perfect sport for you! Ahhhhhh, yes, you’re right balance and patience…my two personal bug a boos! I think some of these things are goals that are simply part of the human journey! I don’t know of a single person who is able to do ‘balance’ well ….. some are better than others but all of us sure struggle with this.