Question about Femdom Phone Sex
This blog is inspired by a question that many of you ask this Femdom phone sex Mistress.
I am available outside of your sessions. Hit me up on email or Skype.
My email is olivia AT enchantrixempire.com.
My Skype is: Olivia.800.356.6169.
Since I DO encourage out of session contact, it is reasonable to be unsure about what IS considered a session. Here are some general guidelines.
Femdom phone sex is more than sex
When you’re submissive, you want and/or need contact out of session with your Mistress. I agree that consistent contact is important. Having real relationships is what I love. I want to hear from you. I also want you to respect my time.
What the hell does THAT mean, Mistress?
The phrase, “I know it when I see it” applies to our interactions outside of sessions. If you’re trying to do your sex scene for free (out of session) – don’t do it. If you begin to think “I’m getting something over on Mistress” then I suggest you reconsider. You might be unhappy about my response!
I really care about each of you. When we have conversations about things other than a specific sex scene, we have a real relationship. Don’t think that you’re “less” if you want to compartmentalize the sex; there is no judgment. I’m just saying that the more we know about one another the deeper the relationship. Intimacy often equals erotic intensity as well.
If we’re chatting about things outside of doing your erotic fantasy then the only limits are how much time I have available between calls and what else I’m doing between calls. I have long conversations about baseball, music, art, and more outside of sessions. I don’t limit those; I just ask that you’re respectful when I need to go do other things.
This Femdom phone sex Mistress gives you my full attention
I am most happy when I can give you my full attention no matter what the topic may be. I believe the best phone sex, erotic conversation or relationship experience is when you have my undivided attention. We both want a super fun and sexy interaction so why dilute the erotic experience trying to get lots of free warm up time? I’m multi tasking, not giving you my best, and possibly getting irritated with what I consider boundary pushing behavior.
Difference between a session and out of session chats
The quickest answer is: In a session you get what you want, when you want it. If you are doing your erotic fantasy or scene outside of our session then you’re pushing the boundary. Some of that is okay but when I say, “let’s talk about this in your next call” that’s a hint to back off from what can look like freebie seeking.
I love what I do and I’m really good at it. Erotic pleasure, great conversation and sharing time with wonderful people is my passion and calling. It is also how I make my living. I manage my time and personal energy to bring you the best. That’s when our time together is amazing for both of us. Remember: what you pay for is my time and energy.
Freebie seekers get a bad reputation
We both want me feeling high energy and sexy — no matter what we’re talking about. When someone begins to push for more and more time and attention outside of sessions and on the session topic I can literally feel my energy begin to drop.
When my energy drops and my attention is scattered, you actually get the opposite of what you’re trying to get. Eventually, the power exchange itself becomes fake and the erotic fantasy begins to collapse for me. Sadly, that’s when I know it’s time to suggest that you talk with someone else. I only talk with people I enjoy. If we are not a match I will gently suggest you try to find someone who might better meet your needs.
Long blog comments get my attention
If you’re new to my blogs, you might not know that lots of the conversation takes place in the comments section. This is a great way to get to know this Mistress long before (and outside of) your session. You have UNLIMITED time in the comment section of any of my blogs. As you can see from this series of exchanges on a blog asking who is in charge in a BDsm scene I DO answer blog comments in a thoughtful (often very detailed) way.
Don’t be this guy
The best relationships are created when it’s a relationship outside of the ‘purely’ business part. I know that; we both do. The bottom line is never only the bottom line with me. Still, do not cross that line. I asked someone recently why he does comments on Skype asking for his erotic fantasy but no longer does calls. He said, hey you can’t blame me for wanting something for nothing. Nope, I don’t blame him at all but I no longer want to play with him even in a Femdom phone sex session.
Difference between a Mistress and your wife or girlfriend
Remember, it is my nature to be Dominant and that means I don’t like to be pushed, manipulated or scammed. You can try. I’ll be polite but you will undoubtedly lose the privilege of even paying to speak with me.
What you do with a vanilla girlfriend won’t work with me. ~laughs~ But then again, what I do with you also won’t come from vanilla women in your life.
Let’s keep the super sex fun going!
i can fully attest to the nature of the intimacy of the relationships that You are able to form with Your devoted fans. You really do go above and beyond anything i ever expected from a phone Mistress. i trust You know i never viewed the gift of Your time outside our sessions s an entitlement and always did my best to repay Your kindness to the best of my abilities. You truly are a treasure among the many talented ladies of LDW and i encourage anyone who has not had the privilege of entering into a uniquely personal relationship of sexy fun and naughtiness with You to not pass up the opportunity. i eagerly look forward to an opportunity to once again avail my energy for our mutual enjoyment.
Thanks for your comment k, n & e ! ~smiles~