What is male chastity? This is the ultimate in cock control.
It’s more than just the cock cage. It’s more than just physical restraint. Male chastity is the thrilling combination of physical sensation, emotional turmoil, psychological purpose and power exchange connection with your Femdom Mistress. It is all of that and much more!
This IS challenging so you will need to remember that a challenge is, by definition, challenging. ~~laughs~~ Male chastity is not for the faint of heart!
Male Chastity Phone Sex is Challenging
Chastity is all about a Woman who controls the shots…..literally. Your cum shots will belong to Me. The content of your balls will be Mine. Even when you will be allowed to get a hard on is under My control. This is the ultimate experience of belonging to a Mistress. You belong to Me.
Being Cocklocked is Emotional
Does My voice telling you, “Mistress is going to put you in this chastity device” sound thrilling or intriguing? Maybe it sounds a little scary but the submissive male in you wants to find out more. Your level of experience with male chastity doesn’t really matter. My level of dominance submission power exchange play does matter and I am the Experienced Mistress.
Have you tried tease and denial games? Did you like them? Are you curious to see how long you can last with some orgasm denial games? Are you even curious about wearing a cock cage? Or do you know you’re totally ready for chastity training with Mistress. Let’s talk about what you’re ready to experience with Me.
You can give a call to talk about this….or leave comments and questions here. *wink*
awesome post. It seems like male chastity is theme with you and other mistresses and its not if but when you and other mistresses put me in chastity. I’m fine with that ad long as I can get release and you and other mistresses keep me dressed as girl. That’s only way I can get wet turned on and hard. I don’t want to quit that. Also if you can make me wear lipstick with bra, boy shorts and girlish lotions to keep my skin girlish soft and smooth. Along with my face. I need and will make time to do calls with you. Nights work better for me as days are not going to work for me. Looking forward to calling you very soon.
~laughs~ You just happened to read My blog during the chastity phase! I’ve got some posts coming up that should directly appeal to you. It’s all about being turned into the BRIDE! I can’t wait to hear what you think about those!
I love that photo. I’m beating my throbbing meat to it now but won’t allow myself the release that I crave.
~laughs~ Yes! No one is going to mistake you for a chastity slave 8 inch. So, beat that meat for Mistress!
I would love to experience chastity control with you, Mistress Olivia. Is there a web site we could use to help you be my key holder ? I will order a device from the custom metal device store right now. You are amazing!!!! Hope you can lock me up soon.
We actually don’t do keyholding here at LDW. Or at least I don’t. I will consider it for certain, long term, client playmates but it’s something that is rare. Part of this is simply for safe and sane standards. There are other ways to do this besides a physical keyholder. The first step of course is to do a call with this Experienced Mistress and we’ll talk about this and more!
Ms olivia you know i enjoy chastity n you know the games the goofy goddess plays with me . since you have come on calls with us thus the dutchess of denial has brought you into circle of sisters of denial
LOL OMG John you tickle Me to no end! I’m in the circle of Sisters of Denial. Sounds like the Sisters of Perpetual Yearning … or maybe Our Lady of Unrequited Dreams … or or or. You ALWAYS make Me smile and I love being part of your calls with the Goofy Goddess!
A beautiful post Mistress Olivia. I wish I could’ve had a better explanation of how to find the “Z” for those who want to experience chastity & how wonderful it REALLY is & can be. I fantasied for 15 years before I decided to try it for myself & I had control of the key so I knew I was going to be perfectly fine. It WAS perfect but I wanted to give the key to someone just so I can feel the reality of it & “I DID”, I found someone to hold “THE KEY” for me & I must say,”WOW”!!!!! I want to encourage ALL males to at least try chastity; especially if it’s been a fantasy for them. I highly recommend Mature Metal & don’t waste your $ anywhere else!!! Just look at Empress Olivia’s earlier blogs. Try chastity; I strongly think you’ll like it more than you ever thought.
Dear slave, chastity is much like a “robust” cheese or something like truffles. ~laughs~ Those that love it….REALLY love it. Those that don’t love it…..really don’t. In fact, someone can sort of ‘try’ chastity in the sense of simply going on an orgasm denial program for just a couple of days or even doubling their edging time. That’s a good way to see if you’ve got the chastity mindset. YOU dear slave are an ideal slave for this chastity Mistress.
“Male chastity is the thrilling combination of physical sensation, emotional turmoil, psychological purpose and power exchange connection with your Femdom Mistress.”
That is the most insightful and succinct description I’ve ever read of what male chastity is all about (and I’ve read A LOT). Thank you. You are good 😉
~laughs~ When I read that in your comment slave mind I thought, “wow that really is well written.” Then I realized that you were quoting the blog post I did! LOL I get on a roll with writing and the words just pour out of Me. THANK YOU so much! I do know that you really DO know what you’re talking about with power exchange and chastity issues! How are you m’dear!? *sends you lovingkindness and Mistressy smiles~
I certainly agree Miss Oliva that chastity is challenging for a submissive male but it is also rewarding if you can focus on your Mistress, to be denied pleasure for your Mistress is something that excits me.
Regarding it being emotional I think there is two elements to this, firstly the sub’s emotions, doubts of it is right to do, what if I am found out, can I take it, is it safe etc. But also there is the emotional contection to your Mistress, that you trust her completely that she knows what you need almost more than you do.
For me I can’t do the long term chastity thing, 3 to 4 weeks is close to my limit, I need to cum, I need the down tme off chastity then go again, part of this is I am very turned on by being locked up therefore I certainly miss the thril the locking process. It may sound odd but I think I get bored if just locked up even with the teasing.
Recently I have played a game with my LDW Mistress linking the amount of days locked up to her sexual pleasure, the more she gets the longer I stay locked. I found this very interesting as of course I want my freedom and to be able to cum but I want Mistress to be happy so if she is getting fullfiled my a real man that I am happy as well as I get to clean up and make her even happier. Oh this was a deilehma.
For me when I came to LDW I had already done chastity play in my BDSM play so it was were it all started for me. The most important things I would say to anyone thinking about this type of play is find a Mistress you trust, that will look after you while still pushing those limits and too go slowly. The idea of bring locked up and never cuming again is exciting but is it in reality.
I know having played with Miss Oliva she takes great care with her subs and beofre you know it you will be begging her to lock up or keep you locked for longer as a Goddess we need to please her!.
~smiles~ Ahhhhhhhhh thank you so much marlowe! I do indeed try to take great care of My subs 🙂 I think it’s very important that both people have a good mutual understanding of time and timing. One thing that I have noticed is that when a man is placed in chastity he wants much more attention, which is perfectly fine …. BUT he doesn’t consider that attention to be session time. That’s where things get tricky. It is very good to find the Mistress that you ‘click’ with! When two people are in agreement, chastity can be one of the most amazing gifts of all!
Hi Ms Olivia! Such an erotic post and a lovely pic with it…. as always! I have a love/hate relationship with denial. Which I bet isn’t unusual :)….The surrender of control is intoxicating but the orgasms are so sweet as well. Still, giving up orgasm control this way for a Mistress is something I hope to try one day.
Ahhhhh Mike……YES! Sometimes the push/pull of the surrender is the part that is the most fun! Think of this as a likert scale. I think there are gradations of submissive. When someone has submissive tendencies, means they experience that ‘submissive scale’ in an individual way. I always say, everyone is unique! 🙂
i definitely believe in male chastity as part of my devotion to Mistress Violet. Submission means giving up control to Mistress, accepting that she is the rightful owner of my sexuality, of my sissy stick. For the past 18 months my releases have been limited to the times when she is there on cam to guide me and to give me permission for release (not guaranteed). Naturally i love it when i get to cum, but i also love that my chastity is part of the gift of my submission to her and that she knows she is in full control. Her acceptance of dominion over my sexual releases binds me to her in a way that is deeply satisfying to me. It is difficult to imagine how a submissive could not be bound in chastity to his Mistress and still enjoy the special embrace of a Mistress-submissive relationship.
Ahhhhhhhhh that is so perfect! I love your term the “special embrace” of a Mistress-submissive relationship. It’s different between each pairing and yet the common theme is that it is, indeed, a VERY special embrace! That you so much for writing 🙂