New to phone sex with a Mistress
When I first started with LDW Group I had some misconceptions about my new role — I am a real Mistress so I had to figure out this thing of: phone sex with a Mistress. Hint: It’s more than talking dirty and more than kink or fetish conversation.
As you may know, I play in the fetish world and all of my phone fantasy domination scenes are based in my face to face kinky experiences. I’ve had a couple questions about fantasy BDsm and I’ll try and answer questions here.
Phone sex fantasy versus face to face Pro Domme
There IS a difference between face to face naughty sex and phone sex … but I think the EMOTIONS are much the same. When I did a Cock Control blog post about the difference between phone Domination and BDsm kink in a physical play space I asked readers if they think phone sex is real BDsm.
Real BDsm
This all goes to the heart of the question of what is ‘real’ and how human bodies interpret ‘realness.’ Our bodies are chemicals. Our brains are a series of chemicals traveling around. There is no ‘real’ in a human brain … the chemicals say what’s real.
Phone sex is real
If you call for phone sex with me and you are hell bent on having a lousy time you release the “I refuse to have a good time” chemicals and energy. Guess what will happen? You’ll have a bad time. If you go to a movie and say, this is just actors, they’re just reading a script, all the shots are set up in advance and everything is manipulated at the end with editing and sound … well, if that’s your mindset you won’t enjoy the movie. Every bit of ART requires a sort of suspension of disbelief. Once you do that … you release the ‘this is real’ chemicals in your brain and the brain responds with woah this is real.
Are YOU ready for this level of REAL? ~wink~ Yeah, I think you are!
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
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