What makes a great phone sex call?
I’d love to hear your answers, both in general and specifics about your particular interests.
As an Experienced Mistress, I am highly intuitive. I am able to *get* what you want with a few words and maybe some answers to brief questions from Me. For those of you who have very detailed scenarios or specific words you want Me to say, you generally send Me emails outlining your fantasy. That’s GREAT ! That helps Me to give you exactly what you’re looking for.
Your answers to what makes a great phone call
Head Mistress Ally posted a poll on the Tease Mania forum …. asking YOU what you’re looking for in an amazing and erotic phone sex call.
An Amazing Voice
35% of those polled said an AMAZING VOICE is the thing that makes a great phone sex call. One note about voices …. what can be an amazing voice to one person can be a downer to another. This is one reason why every LDW Mistress has audio clips. You can choose the voice that matches what you’d like to hear. I’m never going to sound like a really young giggly girl but I do “use” different tones and timbers in My vocal range depending on the content of a call. Soft sensuality works beautifully for many erotic roleplay calls. A voice that is more “stern” works well for some cock control and orgasm denial calls.
Interest and interaction
An amazing voice is followed by INTEREST. 30% of those responding to the poll said, a great call is when the Mistress is interested in what you are saying, is really paying attention to you. Woah. I’m not sure what’s going on with other phone sex companies but I’ve had several new callers recently (from other companies) that said, wow you are really listening to me. Oh, honey, of COURSE I’m listening! I find that My callers are interesting, intelligent, successful and wonderfully, delightfully sensual/kinky ….. of COURSE I listen!
What’s YOUR vote?
I’d love to hear some specifics from YOU. You can take a poll that’s already set up HERE or you can click on comments and leave a comment directly on My blog. Remember all My blog posts about communication? I’m really really GOOD at what I do, but alas, I am not a mind reader so your comments directly help Me to be EVEN BETTER when I’m on the phone with YOU! Take the poll by pressing HERE.
So, every time I ask YOU for something….you get a reward ….. want the “cookie” baby? *snicker* …. there’s the link to My new online photo gallery…..ENJOY !
Olivia 1-800-601-6975
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In trying to explain Domination to those who have never experienced it all their attention often goes to the instruments like hand cuffs or riding crops, and sadly even those who use those hand cuffs or riding crops sometimes get stuck at that level.
While that can be fine for some it’s just that… fine, at best a pleasant sort of mediocre.
To truly experience Domination, to excel at those sensations is where I feel the concepts of Domination and submission come into play, and they come into play with power exchange.
The problem is that you can not explain power exchange. Those who have done it already know, and those who haven’t lack the frame of experience.
Your only real option is to try it (from both sides if you can *deliberate snicker*), but the other side of the coin is not to rush it. I learned Dominance very quickly, but took a long while to feel a level of connection and trust that allowed me to let go and submit.
The funny thing was that after hemming and hawwing for so long I felt that immediate *click* and I knew it was a matter of when instead of if.
Dear DWc ….. I love the way you write and how you express yourself. You are, as usual, on target with your comments…..the *stuff* of the fetish obscures the true nature of the experience. It’s like getting all dressed up to hear live music and then remaining focused on the clothing instead of the music! Assuredly, one option of how to experience life, but I personally find that limiting and ultimately boring. I know you enjoy ALL your explorations m’dear ….so, here’s to continuing to enjoy the Journey of Live, Love/love and Experience 🙂
Olivia
Know what you mean DWc. While most the Domme outfits and accessories are hot, I would love being in control of a women who was wearing jeans & a t-shirt with no makeup too. There are so many possibilities with stuff in any household.
Love your comment too Empress Olivia. Would be funny though to go to a metal concert and see all the band members in cowboy attire. 😉
As for what makes a phone sex call great? Yes the voice plays a large part for me also. Another big part is when I get surprised. Love when a Mistress really gets in my head. Also if I’m looking for humiliation that they really are into trying to make the boy cry.
LOL Jake…..cowboy attire and short hair and cowboy hats! ROFLOL !……yes, the slam dancing would be quite the thing to see !
🙂
Olivia
Well, I have thoughts on what makes a call great. One is getting an opportunity to chat briefly in IM before the call or even a few days before to get a feel for a mistress. Second, I like to participate in the calls. I do not want to feel like I am interrupting scripted speach each time I would like to say something. There needs to be give and take. Sometimes I even like the mistress to make me say things. Make me admit my feelings out loud. For example if it a “coerced” bi call, make me tell you that I really do want it. On cam calls if I am in a denial period it may be different. I may not be doing anything other than moaning and begging for release. However, when that happens there is no need for much real conversation and a simple giggle or instruction does the trick. If the mistress is paying attention she knows how to handle it.
@ jacuck …… you bring up what I think is THE KEY to a really great phone sex call ….. LISTENING. There’s a very natural urge for Me to TALK more than listen because I want you to get your ‘money’s worth’ but that’s an illusion. You are absolutely right that there is nothing worse than a phone sex call that is a ‘speech’ …… after all, what you’re paying for is My experience, creativity and insight tailored directly to YOU and where you are at that particular moment. THAT means listening, REALLY LISTENING not only to your words but also to your breathing and even your silences. Really, for Me, an erotic session is like a play and creative production with you as the audience AND the participant. LOL Is it too much to call phone sex performance art?