Did. you know that MILFs are the second most searched term on Pornhub? Yep! It’s true. That little factoid inspired this blog with my thoughts on why MILFs are so sexy.
Younger Guys With Experienced Women
Often, the biggest fans of MILFs are the younger guys. MILFs with college guys is a porn trope for a reason, after all. And, really, who can blame them? A MILF has experience with all the sexual things that perhaps the younger college guy hasn’t tried yet. She can teach him and guide him in the ways of all things sexy. And what’s hotter than that, right?
I have a confession; I didn’t fully understand my body for years so I speak from experience as a mature Mistress. Those of us who are MILFs know our bodies because we’ve had plenty of time to get used to them. We also know what we like and want sexually because we’ve spent a good bit of time experimenting. Now, I know exactly what works for me.
Older women also tend to be more assertive and confident. And I’m not just talking sexual confidence here, either. I’m talking overall confidence. A MILF is not afraid to go up to a younger guy she finds attractive and tell him so! There is a reason that MILFs are also considered to be cougars a lot of the time, too.
Seduced By An Older Woman
For many men–old, young, or somewhere in between–being seduced by an older woman is a huge fantasy. And, once again, who can blame them? MILFs have the benefit of being excellent lovers who are, as I already mentioned, confident, assertive, and self-assured. A woman like that is the ideal lover for many men. It makes perfect sense when you think about it.
I mean, if you were in a situation where an older woman wanted to seduce you, would you tell her no? Exactly, lol. You wouldn’t turn her down, either, because you, too, know how hot that fantasy is.
In addition to knowing her body and what she wants, a MILF is also not afraid to speak up. She can tell you very easily what turns her on, her likes, and her dislikes. She is never worried about offending anyone with her sexuality. She knows who she is, and that’s a wonderful thing!
MILFs Can Also Be Femdoms
Of course, if you’re like me, you may be thinking all this sounds very familiar. A confident, assertive woman who knows what she wants and how to get it? A powerful female authority figure, perhaps? That’s a Femdom!
Now, not everyone who’s into MILFs is also into being bossed around by a Dominant Woman. There is a lot of overlap between the two categories, as a MILF and a Mistress both have a good many traits in common. But a MILF Mistress is in a category all of her own. She’ll blow your mind (pun intended) and leave you begging for more!
As you already know, I fall under “MILF Mistress” umbrella myself. That’s why I know so much about them, you see. I don’t have to look any farther than in the mirror to find one! And I love guys of all ages. I am naturally dominant, and guys of all ages love that about me.
So there you have it! MILFs are very popular, and there are quite a few reasons why. But some reasons include our experience, our prowess at lovemaking, our confidence in ourselves and our sexualities, and, sometimes, our dominance.
I want to hear from you! Do you like MILFs? If so, can you articulate why? Is it one specific thing or a number of things that makes you love us so much? There are no right or wrong answers to these questions. I’m just curious to see what you think. So leave me a comment or give me a call to talk about it some more!
Ms. Olivia, is the “younger man older woman” a hard and fast rule? (Got the fast part down pat. Hard? Well, refer to the Locktober Hot Spot for that!)
As a senior it might be more accurate in my situation to refer to this pursuit as GILF….okay okay…”GGILF”. It’s tough enough for me already at my age to find a “Cougar”!
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Buttercup ……. are you SURE that AGE is the only issue going on here?
hmmmmmmm
~~~~~ pointedly lowering my gaze to stare at the smooth front of those Mets blue panties ~~~~~~
It could be Ms Olivia…my bat is seldom “in the lineup”?. I can’t even get my swings in the cage! Now that hockey season is here I am going to repeat that quip I posted about my favourite hockey goalie?. (You of course)
“I’m going to spend a lot of time in front of your net in hopes my stick will end up in your crease!”??
hahahahahahaha
Well yeah lil peg …. good luck with THAT !
Milfs are attractive for all the reasons you listed. It would be nice if a couple of cougars had showed me the ropes before I cluelessly stumbled into my first sexual encounter with someone my age. That would be fun to do on a call. Has anyone ever thought of that?
The best thing about Phone sex is that I can be young me during the fantasy,then regale you with baseball stories from before you were born when we’re done
I’ve done lots of sessions with me as the MILF college Professor or guidance counselor …. ahem …. counseling a college student with …. mmmmmmmmm life and everything involved in living a full life.
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Want to try it?
Ah, Ms. Olivia!
I’m finally getting a chance to catch up on the blogs of My fellow Mistresses, and yours is the first one I come across! ?
Strangely enough, when I’m struck by sapphic lightning (I put it that way because My occasional lust for other women is powerful but unpredictable), it’s often MILFs who inspire My lust! And I think, among other reasons, for some of the ones You state!
I don’t have to feel shy about telling a MILF what I want to do with and for her. If she likes it, she’ll say hell yeah, and if she doesn’t, she’ll say, “why don’t you do THIS for Me instead?”
The confidence is so hot!
Not to mention I like it when they have big squishy boobies! ?
But make no mistake: I’m enslaved to your pretty little perky ones, too! ?
I’m going to return to see what your subbie readers have to say, but this was a fun welcome-back to the Mistress blogs!
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Oh Miss Rachel you always make me laugh …. you are:
so fucking smart
delightfully pervy
and we both like the sapphic urges and encounters!
You reminded me I really need to do a cruise around the Mistress blogs! I would say soooo little time and so many blogs but I’m thinking so little time and soooooooo many delightful, sexy, Mistresses!
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I guarantee you that every guy who visits your site loves MILF’s! I’d also be willing to guess that every guy visiting your site also loves a MILF Mistress. You are the epitome of what we look for:
-Attitude
-Looks
-Demeanor
Not to mention one hell of a sexy voice.
grins
I love love love that everyone mentions attitude and confidence …. no matter how physically beautiful someone is, if she opens her mouth and is whiney or needy I’m like YUCK.
Confidence is incredibly sexy.
That said …. lick up a load for me!
I think it has a lot to do with confidence and life experience. Many younger guys are into mature women. It might also be that they seem more unattainable so that it´s more of a challenge trying to impress her… That also might be one reason. I remember often having fantasies of more mature women in my younger days. Much more than women my own age. But it all revolved around being dominated in one way or another!
“Now, not everyone who’s into MILFs is also into being bossed around by a Dominant Woman.”
But I definitely am! 😉
That’s a great point – in my own experience I sort of had to get more than a couple years on me to come INTO my own power. That reminds me of a quote from the documentary about Femdoms and their subs – it’s called tOuch Kink.
Ms Erika and I interviewed the Producer/Director on our podcast, The Weekly Hot Spot. Did you hear that episode? I bet you’d like it and if you have a chance watch the doc …. it is AMAZING!
From one MILF to another,
This is so delicious, Ms. Olivia! And yes, yes, yes… the knowledge about ourselves promotes the confidence it can take to be able to say, “Not there… oh, yes, *there*! And in the afterglow to remind these tender young men (or older men, even), that each woman is different and to take their time discovering where her “special place” is. Mmmm.
Thanks for this! Absolutely yummy!
Yessssss exactly !!
And, while each individual woman is different … part of the benefit to a MILF is to know how to look for, act on or even ASK what others partners want sexually … that right there is a solid skill set just as important as some of the other sexual techniques that a MILF can teach!
I love the younger man older women especially with feminization!!! But for me it’s with the younger mistresses. Unfortunately I’ve never had this happen. But if it’s feminization that’s what I want
I do know you love the younger Mistresses and that’s awesome!