Listen to me talk to you about power exchange and submission.
There are lots of people curious about fetish and power exchange. Do you WANT to submit in a fun, casual kind of way or is your submission something that is ingrained and very deep? This isn’t a trick question and there is no “right” answer — there is only YOUR answer. Maybe you need to find out if you are submissive, kinky or just sexually adventurous.
When you WANT to submit
You might find a Mistress that you enjoy. You might talk exclusively with her or you believe that variety is the spice of life. Either way, you WANT to submit and you find a Mistress and have some fun.
Many types of submission
I’ve posted about types of distance relationships. Some phone sex relationships last years and we get very close — there are some of you I count as very intimate and special friends. I could not imagine life without you. Other people are “mine” for a time and then move on — sometimes with notice and sometimes without saying anything to me.
BDsm and power exchange
You’ve heard the phrase about “too many cooks in the kitchen” right? The same is true with power exchange. An Experienced Mistress knows when and how to “push” you when you need it:
“The problem that submissive encounter is that the brain gets in the way. Fear, pride, and collective ego combine to make the submissive’s own search for their own needs among the clutter of wants very difficult.”
What’s getting in the way of your wants and needs … and, above all, your submission.