Bodyworship is considered part of BDSM because it’s a way for a submissive to show reverence and adoration of the Domme, Goddess or Mistress. But, I like to think that some people who aren’t submissive are also experts at bodyworship. In fact, I know some of you make my body thrum with pleasure with your talents. This is a story about a massage that turned to a really intense, mind blowing experience.
Many types of bodyworship
Before I tell you about my massage, I want you to know there are many types of bodyworship. Check out Bodyworship 101 episode of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast that I do with Mistress Erika. As an aside, check out all the episodes of our BDSM kink podcast. There are a wide variety of topics and guests to enjoy, no matter what your specific interest is.
Back to the story. The massage wasn’t even meant to be erotic to begin with. I simply had a sore back and wanted my boyfriend to help me work some of the kinks out, no pun intended. He had me lie down naked on some towels that he used to cover my bed, to protect it from the massage oil he was going to use. Then, he started the massage.
The massage turns into ass worship
He concentrated on my back to start with and oh my it felt amazing! Every single knot got special attention as he worked his magic with his hands on my lower back, he moved downwards a bit. And that’s when the massage took a turn for the sensual.
His hands felt heavenly! At that point, no one had ever massaged my ass for me before, so there were all kinds of knots in the muscles. He deftly worked each one of them out for me. And as he did that, I started feeling myself growing aroused! Arousal when I’m on my stomach means I’m squirming which, of course, causes my ass to wiggle. That got his attention!
A Sensual Massage Turns Into Body Worship
I asked him to go lower and start at my feet to work his way up the length of my legs. Having my toes sucked just made my arousal that much stronger, so I was very excited by the time he reached the tops of my thighs. Gently, oh so gently, he slipped his thumbs between the cheeks of my ass, opening me up to his gaze and his tongue.
By this time I forgot all about my sore back as his skilled fingers and tongue focused every bit of attention on my ass and pussy. Today, I love taking accidental bodyworship and adding it to more formal BDSM sessions, with Queening. Queening is a type of ass and pussy worship where I sit on my submissive’s face.
A Queening Session With An Experienced Mistress
Did you know that I have a custom Queening chair in my play space? I do. I really like sitting down with my sub under the seat of the chair and then having him lick me to orgasm after orgasm. Facesitting is intense with or without a Queening chair.
Teasing his cock with my feet
Another advantage of the Queening chair is that I can tease his cock with my feet as he is licking me. It’s the perfect position for a slow, sensual footjob. This is where I can really bring in BDSM and power exchange as I edge you over and over again. When I talk about my kink and Mistress journey you’ll notice that I gravitate towards lovers who are generous with their erotic skills, with or without being submissive.
That first massage turned full body worship experience wasn’t part of any BDSM power exchange but that didn’t lessen the intensity. I recommend this to anyone even if you’re not submissive. In fact, are you thinking of my naked body right now?
Mmmmm, tell me more; tell me everything!
🤒. O. M. G. I feel all hot and sweaty now. I daydream all the time about how heavenly it would be to be in Your Queening Chair. Nothing would make me happier than having the opportunity to make you orgasm and orgasm and orgasm!!! Oh my! The imagery in this post is incredibly sensual and hot! I envy every single one of your in-person subs that have been given this gift by You!!
Oh and the cock teasing with Your feet in YOUR cock!!! I nearly passed out reading that. All the you know what rushed from one head to the other.
I need to go take a cold cold shower right now!!
Thank you for this post!!!
SLUT SWITCH ON !!!!!
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OH MY!
I love your visual writing – and you know I think of you in …. hmmmmmm …. VARIOUS positions.
oh oh …. do you need a cold shower again?
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Beautiful, sensual, exciting, hot! I love it! I think every man should do this to his wife! A woman’s body is a gift, it’s one of the most beautiful things in the world. I love doing this to my wife, I love massaging her and kissing her feet. Thank you for a wonderful blog post! 🔥
Yes Casandra!
I love how you describe massaging and kissing her feet!
I like to tell people that the way to my heart might just be through my feet!
LOL
I would LOVE to get under the queening chair for you! My cock would appreciate the foot play…I can hardly imagine it.
My Queening chair is perfect for body worship while giving a foot job …. that’s part of why I designed it the way I did.
Always thinking !!!
Brilliant! Is there a chair for sub missives like me?
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If your knees can take it … then subs kneel on the floor.
If you have issues with your knees I like submissive to sit on a low footstool.
so, that’s sort of a chair, right?
LOL
Another great post! Amazing topic and scenario. 🙂
I´ve actually had the fantasy of a woman laying on top of me in only a thong at night, teasing me by playing with my hair, smothering my face with tender kisses etc… While I have my arms around her in a tight embrace – or my hands on her ass, tenderly massaging and caressing her buttocks while showering her with compliments on how beautiful, sexy, amazing, fantastic and desirable she is to really boast her confidence to the max and make her feel completely safe, loved, cherished and protected… While she in return whispers in my ear that she´s way too good for a guy like me with a giggle… That I don´t deserve her etc. Would be a complete thrill! I believe that´s what they would call soft domination? Just a lighter form of Femdom. In a sexy and almost romantic setting, maybe in a cozy cabin somewhere on a cold and freezing winter night with a sparkling fire beside, but still with that bdsm element! Doesn´t always have to be harsher bdsm activities to get that thrill, I think. 🙂
Also, you wouldn´t believe how many times I´ve walked behind a woman with nice ass and just wished over anything that she would sit on my face…! 😀
You’re absolutely right about BDSM and Femdom … it’s a myth that ALL Femdoms are mean, strict, etc. That’s the porn version of kicking someone in the balls. Like all porn, it’s not real.
BDSM has lots of nuances.
Soft domination, sensual domination, etc are terms that are very real and I’m glad for that.
While I CAN and DO LOVE the intense Femdom play I thoroughly enjoy what you described — in fact, I call that laying on top of you The Blanket … I’m the blanket stretched out on you mmmmmmm
Both styles appeals to me! I actually don´t know which one is my favorite. Might be different days or situations. But I´m not sure myself. Just that I love an element of Femdom/bdsm in most of my fantasies. 🙂
I also love the combo of styles – mainly because I like the variety!
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(Text looks much better on my side too here! Perfectly normal.)
Oh good – not sure what happened and I still sent in a ticket asking for advice/help to see if there’s something we can do on our end.
Like I said there; It worked when I wrote a new comment, rather than to keep replying to replies. 🙂
That works, thank you !
Dear Ms Olivia, I like the picture in the small frame above of you lying down wearing a black bra and black underpants! Very nice, I must say!
Hmmmmmmmm.
Tell Ms Hunter about you talking about my black underpants.
Yes, Ms Olivia, yes, ma’am! I’ll send her a message at once!
And we both got your email.