Are you submissive to Mistress?
Some of you say that being submissive to Mistress is an occasional thrill. For others, being in subspace centers your mind and your body. One is not “more right” than another; there is no right or wrong with power exchange.
Mistress loves a submissive
I love using twitter ( @MistressOlivia1 ) to talk with you. Here’s my question: How important is submission to you? I got a bunch of great answers. Here’s one comment:
“For me, it is pretty important.
Fulfilling a purpose, providing service, being valuable, are all part of what drives me. That can be from a command (or request), or a sense of duty.
If I can provide that in a sexual way for a mistress…win win!”
Is power exchange sexual for a Mistress?
Yes but not always in terms of having an overtly sexual physical orgasm. There is something called Domme space that I mention is a blog about being a strict Mistress.
Sometimes an orgasm (especially being told by some to have an orgasm) actually knocks me out of my Domme space or even a general erotic space. Remember I do like being the one in charge, no matter how sensual I am feeling or being.
How important is is it to you to be a good submissive to your Mistress? Let’s find out.
Your Experienced Mistress,
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I love being your submissive wife! The fact that you are taller than me is so hot. I imagine my arm hooked around yours my other hand holding my skirt as we glide down a big spiral staircase at our wedding reception.
OMG Miss Yvonne! I’ve been looking at pics of the spiral staircase!!! I “see” those wide steps — most likely marble — with that beautiful polished wood bannister — me, waiting at the bottom for my bride …. you at the top and then gliding down. I know you see both of us — but honestly I want to SAVOR you as you walk to me! Now — for the reception of another ceremony we’ll go with your hand on my arm — I’ll pat your hand lovingly right before we start down. ~swoons~
Now you have me swooning, walking to you and becoming your wife and a lovely feminine life. I will brave to steps alone to walk to you.
YESSSSS —- and wow your elegance and feminine beauty! OH MY OH MY !
I am submissive to you and the other ldw mistresses. Especially now that all of you have feminized me into wearing bras/breast forms/panties/dresses/wigs/
blouses/heels and boots. This is relationship I want to have with women as well. Especially girls I play tennis with. As saying goes happy wife happy life though I’m not married. I’ve yet to come out to them about my dressing up and enjoyment of wearing bras panties women’s clothes. I want to but am iffy as they might me turned off by this. I’ve worn leggings/panties/smelling in perfume but they haven’t said anything nor noticed. The ones I have hots for are 17-25 years younger then me. The one my age isn’t into this which is fine as she’s to much a mother hen and I have enough people like that in my family. I would hope by coming out they would be into this and I really would be their submissive boy toy. Masseuse who’s dresses me up as a girl and taken pictures of me with her phone doesn’t know I have you/other mistresses. Though she asked if I dress up for therapeutic reasons and I said yes. Do you think I should come out to get that I have you/mistresses about being feminized alomgbwith girls about that I like to wear women’s clothes?
I love sounding for you since I know how watching my cock take that steel rod deep in my prostate turns you on. I’m trying to take larger sizes because it make you hot and I love hearing you cum when your watch me.
You are the BEST — I love playing with you!
Excellent question, Miss Olivia! I love how you’re opening this up for discussion. LDW is a submissive place and there’s so many ways for callers and readers to explore it and enjoy this. Great blog!
Thanks Ms Amber!
Was this even a question that needed to be asked? They all need to be submissive to a Mistress! You are so right about power exchange NOT having to be overtly sexual for a Mistress. Speaking from my own experience, it took me a long time to get that into Jack’s head. He always felt like he’d failed if I didn’t orgasm during our scenes. Convincing him that Domme space alone could be very, very pleasurable for me took a lot of communication and time.
Isn’t that the truth! Mistress is a different space than sub space for a submissive. And, FEMALE is different from male. 🙂