How do you know if you’re submissive?

How do you know if you’re submissive?

I have a confession. I didn’t fully understand BDSM power dynamics until becoming a full-time Femdom. While, I was already in the fetish scene, my dominance really blossomed by doing distance domination and Femdom phone sex. A recent blog comment inspired me to...
Do Submissive Feelings Overtake You?

Do Submissive Feelings Overtake You?

Have you ever found yourself overwhelmed by your submissive feelings? Do they overtake you at times, even when you’re not necessarily thinking about anything sexy? Well, I’m here to reassure you that that’s perfectly normal. Many submissives find...

Do you need to be submissive to Mistress?

Are you submissive to Mistress? Some of you say that being submissive to Mistress is an occasional thrill.  For others, being in subspace centers your mind and your body.  One is not “more right” than another; there is no right or wrong with power...

Social roles and the submissive male

Submissive male in pop culture I write a lot about power exchange between a submissive male and a Femdom Mistress.  I love playing in the “face to face” BDsm and fetish scene. Distance domination on the phone really expands my experience and creativity.  I...

The submissive slut

Are you a submissive slut? Listen to me read to you in this Experienced Mistress audio. I ask a phone sex caller to describe himself and he says quickly, “I’m a submissive slut.  I was born this way.”  BUT … he certainly needs some guidance to...

submissive man looking for a Mistress

Searching for your phone sex playmate. Phone sex is just like real life relationships in that you (and I) intuitively know when we’re a good fit together.  You can probably tell on the blog that I’m easy going and an experienced Mistress.  I connect with...