How to Set Submission Goals That Actually Stick

How to Set Submission Goals That Actually Stick

As an Experienced Mistress, I’ve guided countless subs through the thrilling, yet often challenging, process of turning their deepest desires into tangible realities. The initial spark of a fantasy is powerful, and there’s no shame at all for keeping everything in...
What does being a good submissive really mean?

What does being a good submissive really mean?

A sissy recently wrote to me with a question that stayed with me long after I hit send on my reply. While the sissy inspired this blog post, I know that there are lots of submissive with the same question; namely “Am I being a good submissive?” So this...

How do you know if you’re submissive?

I have a confession. I didn’t fully understand BDSM power dynamics until becoming a full-time Femdom. While, I was already in the fetish scene, my dominance really blossomed by doing distance domination and Femdom phone sex. A recent blog comment inspired me to...
Do Submissive Feelings Overtake You?

Do Submissive Feelings Overtake You?

Have you ever found yourself overwhelmed by your submissive feelings? Do they overtake you at times, even when you’re not necessarily thinking about anything sexy? Well, I’m here to reassure you that that’s perfectly normal. Many submissives find...

Do you need to be submissive to Mistress?

Are you submissive to Mistress? Some of you say that being submissive to Mistress is an occasional thrill.  For others, being in subspace centers your mind and your body.  One is not “more right” than another; there is no right or wrong with power...

Social roles and the submissive male

Submissive male in pop culture I write a lot about power exchange between a submissive male and a Femdom Mistress.  I love playing in the “face to face” BDsm and fetish scene. Distance domination on the phone really expands my experience and creativity.  I...