Who is in charge: Mistress or submissive?

This is a question that bounces around the BDsm fetish community and in our own kinky community within our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  Who is in charge?  Is it the Mistress who directs the actual play or the submissive who tells the Mistress what...

Sexual Submissive versus Submissive Nature

Let’s talk about submission.  CLICK HERE to listen to this blog post.  Like everything else in erotic power exchange play, there’s no right answer and one size does not fit all.  There are many kinds of male submissives and many kinds of play that can...