Have you ever wondered why you like female domination so much? You know I love finding out more about the WHY of why we do what we do so I want to hear your answers. In the meantime, I thought it might be interesting to explore the ins and outs of D/s from a Femdom perspective.
A Femdom Is Confident And Sexy
One of the things that I think is so appealing about a Femdom Mistress, especially to men, is that she is self-aware and self-confident. And that self-confidence translates to sexiness! A Mistress is smart, intuitive, and knows what she wants…and what she wants to do with you.
In our lives, so many times, we find that the people around us are indecisive wafflers who aren’t sure what they want and wouldn’t know how to get it even if they did know. So a Mistress is a welcome breath of fresh air because she does know what she wants and how to get it. Female domination is so hot because Mistresses tend to be so different from the other people you meet. We are fearless, ambitious, and ready to take on the world! (And unfortunately, you can’t say that about just everyone.)
But I think in some ways, the rarity of a Femdom is part of what makes her so tempting. You know when you meet a true Mistress, it may be a long time before you ever run across one again (except of course here at LDW!). So you cherish and treasure that interaction with her because she’s such an unusual sort of character, in the best possible way!
You’re Submissive And Crave The Power Exchange
Another reason that you might find female domination so attractive is that you’re submissive. This seems like a “duh” thing to say, but it’s important. Your submissive side reacts directly to her dominant side, and it can be like throwing gasoline on an open flame when the two of you get together!
A submissive naturally yearns for the dominance of a strong woman. And who can blame them? As we’ve already mentioned, a Femdom Mistress is an exceptional person, and it’s no wonder why a sub would want to be in her presence as much as possible.
A sub wants to give up their power to their Mistress because they recognize the superiority of that Mistress. They understand that female domination is what they need and that a Femdom is better at making decisions and running the show than they are. So they crave that power exchange that comes with a D/s relationship with a Femdom Mistress.
You Like The BDSM And Kink Games Involved In Female Domination
And of course, we can’t forget that female domination usually involves some kind of BDSM or kink games, too. These can be extremely appealing to a sub, especially if that sub has specific fetishes or kinks in mind that they’d like to play around with.
BDSM and kink games can also really amplify the power exchange process. These games reinforce the dominant and submissive roles each person takes on in the relationship. And if you’re submissive, it can be really nice to be reminded of your place in regards to your Domme.
So these are some of the reasons that, in my opinion, a submissive would like female domination so much. But now I want to turn it over to you; tell me about YOU. Why do YOU crave female domination?
Remember, Ms Erika and I do a BDSM podcast called The Weekly Hot Spot. Most of you already know about it, but if you’re new, check out all the episodes and pay particular attention to the ones where we talk to other dominant women.
I’m looking forward to reading your answers here on my blog or just pick up the phone and connect!
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
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