The New Submissive: The First Rule

The New Submissive: The First Rule

by | Jan 12, 2026 | Femdom erotica

Control, I’ve found, starts not with pain, but with a simple “Yes, Mistress.” The first rule is always the most important because it’s about consent to surrender, about building the muscle of obedience. When he messaged me a few days later, “Mistress, I wanted to jerk...
Do you need a spanking from Mistress?

Do you need a spanking from Mistress?

by | Sep 1, 2025 | spanking

Ahhhhh, the sweet sound of a smack on a bottom!  There are so many ways to use spanking for our erotic pleasure. I am especially excited by scenes involving over the knee spanking. OKT spanking can be part of a variety of BDSM scenes or it can be a standalone...
Do Submissive Feelings Overtake You?

Do Submissive Feelings Overtake You?

by | Sep 1, 2023 | submissive

Have you ever found yourself overwhelmed by your submissive feelings? Do they overtake you at times, even when you’re not necessarily thinking about anything sexy? Well, I’m here to reassure you that that’s perfectly normal. Many submissives find...
Let’s get proud: A Celebration of Acceptance and Kinky Fun

Let’s get proud: A Celebration of Acceptance and Kinky Fun

by | Jun 8, 2023 | PRIDE

PRIDE month is here. I love the parties, parades, rainbows, joy and, of course, the outrageous outfits.  Identifying as a Femdom is not the same as gender identity or sexual orientation. Being into kinky fun doesn’t automatically mean you are in the LGBTQ+ community...
Do you have one of these popular kinks?

Do you have one of these popular kinks?

by | Jan 1, 2023 | BDsm

I have a biased perspective on BDSM, kink, fetish and sex.  My career as a sex worker who is polyamorous and active in the fetish scene means I enjoy a lot of things that most people have never heard of. Still, I think it’s always interesting to see how my likes stack...