Where does your erotic fetish start?
Some people are adventurous and come to fetish sex by being open to erotic adventures. Others, have the seeds of their fetish fantasies planted years ago by some seminal (pun intended) event or person.
I’ll be away for a couple days this week during the times I’m normally here for you. I will be here today though (*wink*) if you’d like to call right away. Here’s My schedule for you to plan your call. If you can’t catch Me today, I wanted to leave you with something to think about.
What is a fetish?
A fetish is *something* that has power over you. For example, it can be an object that has *supernatural powers*. I’ve done numerous blog posts about the power of panties. Realistically, it’s just bits of lacy fabric and elastic, but they are so alluring to you there’s a real sense of amazing powers of sexy panties.
Where does a sex fetish start?
I’m always curious about your erotic life. What you think about, why you think about that thing and not something else, etc. As the Experienced Mistress, I know that knowledge is power. Any cock control Mistress can tell you that! I use what you tell Me to create the most amazing phone sex experience for you. Your session is so great that your phone sex fun is guaranteed!
Where his sexy panties fetish began
I’m always thrilled when you let Me post your comments! Here’s one example from our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.
Panteezd says: “As a young man I was teased by a very sexy blonde (like you!) who wore her skirts a little shorter than perhaps was going to stop the boys from looking, or at least trying to look up her skirt.
She purposely would reveal her panties to me making me extremely excited and then would point out my enormous erection when she discretely had the opportunity (not in front of others).
She did this many afternoons and it seems to have left me with an enormous desire to be teased even though I’ve never had any problem meeting woman and having mutually pleasurable relationships.
I still crave that erotic teasing power she had over me and denial and teasing gives me sooo much pleasure more so than straight sex.”
Thank you panteezd for your comments! Now, I’d like to hear from you! Where and how did your kinky sex fantasies start? ((Please just say ‘younger years’ instead of naming the age.)) As always, please post your comments, questions and anything else you’d like to say. I’ll approve and respond to your comments! I always learn and get inspired from YOU — so, happy typing 🙂
Ms Olivia
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Thankyou for this lovely post. I’m pleased to have contributed to it in this particular case.
Panties are the most erotic item of clothing a woman can wear – that tiny bit of sheer silk stretched over her body in the most intimate of places.
I’ve also posted on your earler blog on panties where the topic is ‘covered’ in great detail.
Suffice to say I’ve spent many an hour being teased by sexy pictures of girls in tiny mini’s wearing filmy thong panties, and have managed to experience my fantasy to some degree in real life through my relationships where my partners over the years have been interested and willing.
Thanks for this and the pic was sexational!
Best regards
Panteezd
Thanks for your comment pan-teezd! I agree with you…..panties the most erotic item of clothing! And, sometimes, not just for women to wear! *wink* I’ve been known to put a submissive male in a pair of panties on a phone sex call! *wink* Oh now, I’m telling all My naughty secrets! ~laughs~ 🙂
Yes Mistress Olivia
I do admit to wearing sexy thong panties when on a masturbatory ‘session’ which usually involves teasing for hours at a time.
I often use oil over my thong to make it a second skin, clinging to my erhm, hardness. Light slow palming makes this sexy erotic stroking last for a very long time whilst feeling radically wonderful whilst looking at your ultra sexy panty pics.
Mmmnnnhh – wonderful extended sensations being teased by your picutres of you in sexy panties.
Thank you Mistress Olivia
ALWAYS glad to be a *help* with those extra long tease and denial phone sex session, pan-teezd! And that’s because of My *helpful* nature! ~giggles~
I noticed that you had changed that in my first post, the age i gave i mean. Not that i care, of course. 🙂 But what´s the problem with that really? I don´t get it.
Interesting thoughts. For me, a thong ITSELF has no sexual appeal at all. Obvioulsy. It´s just a dead material. I could go into a lingerie shop and look at thongs all day and i guarantee it would´nt do a thing for me. But if the thong is on a WOMAN, or i know a woman has WORN the thong in question…THAT´S where my thong-fetish begin. 😉
*waves* Hi sub male! I take out references to anyone under the age of consent just because it’s such a hot button issue. I don’t want that on My blog or be *flagged* for anything other than sexy erotic and interesting writing 🙂 Even though you’re talking about something that happened to you at that age it’s best to leave the searchable ages off the blog. Does it make sense now?
Ahhhhh…..I loved what you said about the thong being worn! I hear every nuance on the phone sex calls and I love that you made the distinction of new sexy panties versus a sexy thong that has been worn and is in, perhaps, the laundry hamper. YUM to all of it!
Hi MsOlivia,
While I don’t have a panty fetish myself – I certainly like them but just not the extent of fetishism – I do often ponder where my own fetishes come from. I suppose it’s an extension of nature vs. nurture. I really don’t think I’ve ever had any defining moment, or should I say “seminal moment” to blatantly plagiarize the pun You recently used, for my love of sexy feet. I do remember liking them when I was in my “younger years” and can’t really remember a time before having this fetish though I am sure there was a time when I hadn’t yet been able to define it. However, with the internet’s coming into our lives, I have discovered more kinky things that I didn’t know about before but do like. Did I like them before I knew about them?? Or did I start liking them only after I knew about them? Beats me.
And while we’re on the subject, kinda sorta, I don’t think that fetishes are necessarily any different from other things that people like in most things that matter. I mean, they may be directed to things that most people don’t see as sexy or desirable, sure, but why is my love of feet different really from someone who likes breasts or asses? Or…football? The last may not be considered sexual of course, but it is something that someone may love passionately whereas I couldn’t really care less about. So those are my thoughts for now.
And have a good few days off. I don’t know if You’re going to be one of the Vegas crew or not, but whatever it is I hope You enjoy it.
That’s a good point magnus….the internet has opened up the exploration of all sorts of things. Just like people can go to a museum exhibit online or use google earth to take a real time look at far away geography you can explore sexual themes and topics. Some people come to our network of sites and have never done a phone sex call before. Sex and erotic interests or desires are just like anything else, some people are more adventurous than others …. the internet is one outlet for those interests. I personally LOVE all the information available! 🙂 *wink* I am one of those adventurous people!
Thank you so much for the well wishes….I didn’t go to the Mistress Meeting in Vegas. I was actually in DC for a photography gig and it was FUN! I love DC and DC in the fall is beautiful! 🙂
Better safe than sorry i guess. 🙂 Don´t think we have any law regarding this where i live though, obviously the 18-age adult limit and (another age) for legally having sex, but people talk about their sexual memories in an early age all the time here. But nevertheless, i will of course keep this in mind and please feel free to just change it if i forget. 😉
Worn things is the shit, definitely! Hard to find, though. 😉
*waves* Hi there sub male! I’m fine with talking about sexual memories on a phone sex call but I keep direct ages off the blog unless the age is over 18.
~laughs~ worn things? Did you mean thongs?
Correction: worn THONGS, i meant!
~laughs~ Ohhhhhhhhhhhh
I thought you meant sexy thongs! Now, I see I was right! ~grinz~
Especially that thin string part she´s had in between her asscheeks all day…Don´t know why really, but i´ve always wanted to sniff that…;)I find that very erotic and intimate.
ohhhhhh sub male! You’re not alone in that ….. when I talk about wearing and teasing with a sexy thong on a phone sex call, that little strip of elastic between the asscheeks is HIGHLY erotic to lots of people! You’re right, it IS very intimate and it’s also more than a bit naughty which is a huge turnon!
Oh, Olivia – i would PAY just to sniff your buttfloss thong string after you had worn it inbetween your buttcheeks all day, believe me…Would be AMAZING!! 😉
You are so beautiful and sexy. 🙂
I have a photo for YOU! ~laughs~ Now you pay for the phone sex but you’ll get to *enjoy* the photo for free! *wink* I’ll do a blog post in the coming weeks (so to speak) and you’ll know EXACTLY what I’m talking about 🙂
Hi Ms Olivia,
My fetish isn’t for panties, tho it is still a thrill to slip on a pair 🙂 My fetish is for bras, and by extension the breasts underneath. I can remember how/when this started like it was yesterday. Growing up the lady across the street from my house had large full breasts and I was facinated by them, and this had absolutly no sexual connection at all. I was very young and this was before I even had sexual thoughts. One day I was over at her house delivering something for my mother and she answered the door wearing a shirt that was half open and when I got a glimpse of her bra I couldn’;t take my eyes off her… I didn’t have any desire then to actually wear a bra but the sight of one made me instantly hard… even just a bra strap on a bare shoulder excites me no end to this day 🙂 It was decades later that I happened onto an LDW site and read a feminization story, and the memory came back and my bra fetish blossomed 🙂
*nods* at eric…..I understand 🙂 Most fetish desires have some sort of *trigger* that starts things on the path!
I love that your fetish is bras and breasts….in fact, I’m going to post a photo on the blog that I think you will absolutely LOVE! Look for that in the coming (pun intended) weeks! ~grinz~
Thank you so much for leaving your comment!
Dear Mistress Olivia,
i know its a bit late to post a response for this topic, but i just wanted to make a quick observation. When i started wearing panties the act of buying and wearing them was hugely erotic. In fact, even seeing a pair of panties in a shop window or hanging on a washing line would send thrills through my body… something would light up, and an unresolved yearning would engulf me. It was a wonderful, sexy and sometimes frightening time… These days, my relationship with panties is not so spectacular but much deeper. For example, this morning when i woke up i slipped into a pair of panties and a thigh length cotton shirt and went about making my coffee and checking emails etc. A little later, i was back in my bedroom and noticed that i had left my panties drawer open and i stood there looking at all the pretty colours, shapes and textures. It was one of those small moments of grace that we all experience at times: my heart softened and opened, i felt a surge of relief, joy and gratitude wash over me as i realised that this was me! That i wear panties every day and that i am happy about it! Similarly, when i went to hang out the laundry, my heart sang as i retrieved two or three pairs of pink, red, and coral panties from the delicates bag…
i think that for me, wearing and loving panties has moved away from being a “spectacle” that fuels an erotic episode into “devotion” that speaks of a long term surrender into a more feminine way of life 🙂
oxoxoxxo
chrissy
Hi chrissy! Thanks for your comment! You know I always adore hearing from you and your blog comments make Me smile! 🙂
I can just *see* all the lovely textures and colors of your panties…..isn’t it just so yummy to see them all in a drawer like that? It’s the BEST kind of rainbow! 🙂
Thank you for sharing with us and you continue on your journey to a long term surrender into a more feminine way of life!
*hugs back*
Oh my Ms Olivia, You have certainly piqued my interest now !!!
XOXO
Eric
~laughs~ I like it when your *interest* is nice and UP where we can all see it!
*hugs*
Ms Olivia