Woman in Charge
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There are so many terms for kink, fetish and BDsm. Â Phone sex is is the perfect venue for fetish curiosity. Â Some of the words look interchangeable but it’s important to take a moment to communicate exactly what those words mean to you … and to this Experienced Mistress. Â I regularly post about my Mistress phone sex style. Â We’ll start with Woman in Charge because this is the question that can be fraught with miscommunication.
Question about being Dominant
This blog is inspired by an email question from a new phone sex caller and friend. Â Here’s what he wrote:
“What does “being in charge”, in a sexual situation mean to you? How does that manifest? With what kind of feeling do you like being the dominant one?       Why am I asking? Because, though at times I like being dominant, too, I am usually most comfortable with the woman taking the lead.”
When I speak with a caller, taking the lead can mean many things. Â It is my job to find out exactly what those terms mean to HIM since he is paying for the phone sex call. Â Often it simply means he wants me to create the scene (fetish or vanilla) and then run the play. Â OR it can mean that he’s interested in Female supremacy or BDsm Domme. Â I always check with YOU to find out if you are kinky, submissive or having a naughty adventure.
Female Domination and Femdom
Personally, my kink continues to evolve and change. Â I used to say I was a Dominant OR switch. Â Now, I’m more into male submission or vanilla sexy on our phone calls. Â I don’t tend to be in the role of female submissive because it’s just not where the sexy is for me these days.
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms. Olivia
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I want to have this happen. I want to be in female lead relationship. There’s nothing better to have to women take charge. Especially if it involves feminization. I’ve taken steps in having this happen. It’s true that when you meet women they have power and control and she does over me.
Oh petey you are a cream puff and so much fun for a Woman in Charge who enjoys turning you into the feminized sissy you were born to be!
I am transgender male to female and I love dominant women. I prefer my mistress to have full control, a no holds barred kind of thing. What’s your thoughts on this?
I love this Jenny Lynn … it sounds like you’re a submissive girl. Gender identity and Dominance / submission are two different things. Trans ladies are on the spectrum of various things when it comes to erotic pleasure … and Dominance / submission is sure part of that scale.
My fist Mistress was Diana. I watched her grow into dominance as time went on. She went from asking me permission to do things to me, to taking full charge and doing what she felt like doing. In the end she was in full charge and I was just something she played with. As she grew in dominance, I went deeper into sub space, and I loved her more and more.
So you see as time went on, the meaning of dominance and submission changed with our changing roles.
Hey Mitch that’s great to know … and you’re right, with Power Exchange things do change and evolve with time. That’s the nature of all things kink. Truthfully that’s sort of the same with all of life, isn’t it? ~smiles~
Hey Jenny Lynn. For this conversation it is no holes barred!!!
~laughs~ Yes, well … there’s THAT ! wink wink, nudge nudge !
Yeah well wink wink nuge nuge know what I mean
~laughs~ you GOT it didn’t you, Jenny Lynn 🙂 🙂
In my case this means that I am open minded and egar to please my mistress. At 60 year’s of age there is not to much I haven’t done.
mmmmmm, that sounds intriguing Jenny Lynn … we really should talk and see what we can …. ahem … ENJOY! I know I will enjoy your submission and wickedness.
Bare Handed, Bare Assed Spanking Protocol
The MISTRESS and the Subject are nude. The subject lays over the MISTRESS Knees or lap (MISTRESSE’S preference of course)
Step 1 :
LOVE these rules …. Mistress will turn this into a blog post!
YUM!
LOVE LOVE LOVE these rules ….. these made me smile and smile some more … but of course you ALWAYS make me smile even as you are on your knees servicing your lovely Mistress!