What do you want to know about the Experienced Mistress?
I get lots of emails and IMs asking questions about various things. Some questions are about Me: what I like, what turns Me on, what kinks and fetishes I enjoy doing in a phone sex call, etc. Other questions are specific to your interests. Here’s your chance to ask your questions here in the blog comments and I’ll pick some of your questions to answer in upcoming blogs. Here’s My Mistress Interview for your listening pleasure!
No Question is Off Limits
You can ASK it and I will choose whether to answer it. I have very good personal boundaries! ~smiles~ You probably already know that LDW Group has limits, there ARE things that we don’t talk about on calls if you have any questions about those limits, please send Me an email olivia AT enchantrixempire.com and I’m more than happy to tell you the limits and your options.
Questions Inside of our Adult Social Network
If you haven’t joined our adult social network Enchantrix Empire then you’re missing out! I regularly post on polls and love to get into discussions in the poll comments sections of My (and your) polls. It’s free, fun and kinky … what more could you want? ~grinz~
Real Life Fetish Experience
I’m about to have five years in the Femdom fetish phone sex world AND I have a wealth of real life kinky experiences. What questions do YOU have about BDsm, D/s, kink or fetish? What are you interested in or curious about? I’ll answer your questions in the blog comments and I’m sure some of your questions will end up as blogs themselves.
Questions for You
I always have questions for you! So, here are just some of My questions. What do you, personally, love about domination phone sex? Is it the cock control? If so, tell Me why. Is it exploring erotic role play and sexual scenes like coerced cum eating that you might not do in real life? Is it the chance to talk with someone who understands your unique sexual fetish or erotic desires? Or, maybe it’s the fact that I enjoy these kinky things WITH you! Maybe it’s all of the above. What do I always say? It’s nuanced and individual! So, tell Me about YOU!
Ms Olivia
Hi Ms
I know we have just scratched the surface of what we talk about and what we do together. Keep asking questions. If I don’t answer right away I will get back to you. Sometimes I get caught a bit off guard. When I should just really be letting my guard down and going with my heart. Thanks so much for your help and patience.
xxx
yvonne
~laughs~ That’s MY line, yvonne! ~grinz~ The “If I don’t answer right away, I’ll get back to you!” Too funny! Seriously, don’t worry about a thing, I know you’re shy and you’ve got a demure very feminine side….as you can see that’s not at odd with a vibrant erotic side! Remember what I say, “A lady in the living room, chef in the kitchen and a vixen in the bedroom.” I’ve experienced TWO our of three with you…want to make us a really nice salad? ~grinz~
Hi,
As for your question to me, “What do I, personally, love about domination phone sex?”
It’s the chance to talk with someone who understands my fetish and erotic desires, and the fact that You enjoy these kinky things WITH me.
But I think You already knew that about me! 🙂
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As for my question to You, I must have asked You before but it must have gotten lost among all the talking I do about myself. Sorries!!
So for You, what kinks and fetishes do You enjoy doing in a phone sex call? 🙂
xoxoxo,
Jenni
Thanks for your comment Jenni! Ahhhhh, the connections…yes, we BOTH enjoy the connections! ~smiles~
Here’s an earlier blog post I did about what I enjoy….and rereading it, it still holds up! It’s more about the CONNECTION and than the specifics of the fetish because I enjoy all kind of fetish play (with the only exception being public humiliation involving non-consensual participants). I can get hot in any scene when our connection is …. ahem … swirling!
Here’s the blog post …. enjoy ….!
https://www.experiencedmistress.com/2010/04/sex-music-and-5-things-that-make-this-mistress-hot/
Of course, I’d love your comments on what you read there! 🙂 ~smiles~
Hello Ms Olivia. I am new here and can’t wait to talk with you. My question would be what is the longest you have made a man go WITHOUT release? And how can i prepare myself to beat that record?
Hi scott and welcome! There’s no ‘simple answer’ to questions about male chastity because it depends on many things. I like to find out more about you before I answer the question. Have you done a call with Me? Have you tried tease and denial? What is YOUR longest time without release? These are just some of the many questions I have before I can begin to answer yours because what will *fit* with one person isn’t a good fit with another and I like to make sure that My instructions *fit*.
I haven’t had a call with you yet, but i am patiently waiting to have one with you. I need to give up my control. Orgasm denial has been a long fantasy of mine. And i am really hoping you can *fit* me in…i look forward to answering any and all questions you have for me.
Hello there scott and thank you so much for your comment! I’ve been away for several days but I’m back and looking forward to speaking with you 🙂
*wink*
All right, MsOlivia, not sure if this is one You’ll answer but here goes. Do You ever envision Yourself spreading Your kink knowledge in other ways like at a kink convention panel or possibly even writing a book?
Hi magnus, sure I’ll answer that. Probably not … I’m VERY good with boundaries and I do My real life kink play inside of the fetish scene so IF I ever did a book, I wouldn’t publicize it here! LOL That said, the blogs, audios, etc here keep Me massively busy with writing. I am sort of toying around with some longer form ideas for the erotic audio store so you might see something there.
Oh and I absolutely LOVED your phrasing “SPREADING” ….. ~grinz~….of course, I DO have that sort of dirty mind! LOL
I was wondering if you could do guided masturbation with you turning me into a girl then having me go off like a bomb?
~grinz~ Why yes peter! I’ll get you in thrall with My lipstick kisses ….. and then…..well……you’ll be Mine to do with as I will, won’t you? ~smiles~
I love the control, submissiveness and humiliation.
Outside of LDW world, are you a mild-mannered Woman or is Domination part of Your ever day lifestyle?
~laughs~ GREAT question luke and thank you for posting your question. Here’s a link to My Mistress Interview which will give you some insight into the me outside LDW land. I would never describe Myself as a mild-mannered woman in any setting….~laughs~…..after all, I do love the quote “Well behaved women seldom make history.” BUT…..inside LDW land as a Femdom Mistress or in other aspects of My vanilla life I am …..hmmmmmmm, let’s say SECURE if Myself as Myself. By that I mean, no matter the setting I’m certainly never a doormat but, by the same token I also believe that Mistress doesn’t mean bitch. I don’t act the Femdom with people without their consent because that’s just not right. Power exchange only work when it’s power EXCHANGE (ie all parties consent) otherwise it’s being a bitchy bully which doesn’t make Me feel sexy.
That’s a really long answer to say, I’m situation appropriate in all aspects of My life 🙂 Does that make sense? What did you think after you listened to My Mistress Interview?
I just love the physical and emotional thrill that comes with giving total control of my cock and all my physical and emotional senses to a sensual mistress. I love the guidance, learning, support, encouragement, and partnership that come with going deeper into erotic exploration. No humiliation, but the enjoyment of giving myself to a smart, sexy woman and being really kinky WITH her. I don’t like things done to me, but with you.
So my question to you Olivia is what turns you on about calls the most?
Hi there bfla! Here’s a post I did a while ago that really answers your question:
https://www.experiencedmistress.com/2010/04/sex-music-and-5-things-that-make-this-mistress-hot/
~smiles~
I enjoyed reading that post. Thank you. It sounds like we enjoy many of the same things on calls. I hope you enjoyed reading what I liked. 🙂
Thanks for the comment bfla! I do thoroughly enjoy My calls and callers 🙂 ~wicked grinz~