Phone sex for couples – heat up the sex!

How do you spice up your sex life when you are IN a relationship? Pay attention to the sex Maybe you’re married or you’ve been together for a while.  The ‘ohhhhhhh new sex’ smell (like the new car smell) has left the erotic interactions between...

Departures: Gil Scott-Heron RIP

Gil Scott-Heron, poet / musician / political commentator died yesterday in a NY Hospital. He is often credited as the ‘grandfather’ of rap and hip-hop.  He’s been “sampled” by a number of artists.  His quirky, often acerbic, poetry set to...

Kinky sex and romance: any connection?

I get My blog topics from a variety of sources:  personal experience, current events, art, science, literature, phone sex calls, odd stuff I’m thinking about and, of course, your blog comments! Blog comment inspired this post Mylene posted a comment that...

The dilema of a crossdresser

I love your comments and questions on My blog! I also enjoy when you contact Me via IM.  This post is a reprint of is a blog comment posted by chrissy who contacted Me first via IM. ((Thank you all for being understanding that I’m not always able to do the free...

Levels of play with phone sex.

Just like with everything, there are degrees of Dominance and submission.  Don’t worry if you are new to phone sex or communicating, for the first time, with this Experienced Mistress.  There are lots of things to learn and explore.  Since yesterday’s post...

The mindfuck described

I have several callers who adore the rush of a delicately placed mindfuck.  This is where the sensations are way more than just physical …. the center of erotic arousal is primarily in the mind (such a terrible thing to waste, eh?). I’m thinking of this...