What is power exchange?

Power exchange is a BDSM term.  Like many words in the kink or fetish area, the definition is not ‘set.’  Definitions are very dependent on your D/s culture, individuals involved, types of fetish play, type of relationship, etc. As always, post your comments,...

Relationship Between Mistress and the Submissive

I write about what it means to Me to be a Mistress.  Many of you have written about male submission and being a male submissive.  We’ve talked about how it takes strength to be a submissive.  I’ve been very clear that I feel like your submission to Me is a...

Sexual Submissive versus Submissive Nature

Let’s talk about submission.  CLICK HERE to listen to this blog post.  Like everything else in erotic power exchange play, there’s no right answer and one size does not fit all.  There are many kinds of male submissives and many kinds of play that can...